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RE: Who should make the first move? - 1/17/2009 8:41:26 AM

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I agree. There are no rules to this. If you want to meet someone, go up and introduce yourself. Same if you were in any situation. Do't make it all about the lifestyle. It is about a contact. Getting to meet someone and talking about things at first.

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RE: Who should make the first move? - 1/17/2009 12:48:42 PM

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I only make initial contact with people who write interesting posts to the forum!

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RE: Who should make the first move? - 1/17/2009 7:39:24 PM

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"Who should make the first move?"

The one who wants it the most.

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RE: Who should make the first move? - 1/18/2009 12:59:14 AM

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On the one hand, an attractively bound man does improve the scenery. (grin)

On the other, if he isn't bound, he can have his nice rump in the air while he scrubs my baseboards with an old toothbrush and wood soap, mostly naked. That is also very nice to look at.

(I need to do the baseboards, so that particular little chore comes to mind just now...)

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RE: Who should make the first move? - 1/18/2009 2:04:21 PM

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I echo the sentiments of tornaway and Lockit. I feel, especially in the context of BDSM, there is no hard and fast rules. I know dominants, both male and female, who are actually almost shy and very laid back in making a move, despite their high confidence. It's really a matter of style and personal taste. I have been mostly the one to make the first move in dating, but I admit that I have often been clueless too to when a woman has been interested in me. In those cases, a woman that makes the first move is definitely a huge ice-breaker. My currently girlfriend was the one who initiated the move on me, and I was like the shy wall flower when she did, because honestly when I first saw her, my heart skipped a couple of beats and I got literally weak in the knees. She immediately stood out and just had this amazing auora of intoxicating sensuality and feminity about her. Classy. Sexy. Beautiful. I just would not have thought I had a shot with her and while I am no fuddy duddy, I figured anything I could have said would have been just so utterly cliche or seem disingenuine. But I just could not keep my eyes off of her. I so badly wanted to talk to her and get to know her. When she caught me looking at her, I actually had to look away, smiling and blushing at the same time. It was almost comical. But then she got up and walked ove to me, smiling with a superb confident sultry walk and sat down right next to me and said looking right at me without blinking "I kept waiting for you to come over. Was I being too subtle or should I have sent a written invitation?" All I could do was laugh and it broke the ice immediately. And I am glad she made the move for I would never have thought I had a chance with a classy beauty like her.

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