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RE: going to the doctor - 1/6/2006 7:12:09 PM   
ropesubby39


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Status: offline 		How do female subs feel about going to the Dr. for a complete exam by a Dr. (I am talking complete with fett in stirrups Dr. using a spectum)?

I dont like it, but it is something that has to be done.

Would you feel different if your Master or Mistress was there with you?

It wouldnt bother me if my Master was there with me, i dont have anything to hide and feel comfortable with Him.

Do you get hot and wet as the Dr. examines and probes you?

hell no, i am so tensed that most of the time, i hyperventilate and the nurse has to calm me down.

For those with clit and labia piercings, do you leave them in or take them out before going to a Dr.?

I dont have any, so this isnt an issue for me.

Do you prefer a male or female Dr.?

I dont have any preference, as long that i am comfortable with the doctor and can talk or ask questions freely. I have a male family doctor and a male gyno doctor

If you prefer a female and Master insists on you seeing a male, does it embarass you?
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Since i already have a male doctor, it isnt an issue.

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/6/2006 7:53:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		A lot of docs might raise eyebrows if you look really bruised. And some might be moved to question you or report something if it looks like you were forced (just a smacked ass is a little different from your arms bruised like you were held down).

I have had concerns about going to the health club and disrobing in the locker room. The first time a dommish sort got a hold of me I was bruised from head to toe like something tried to climb up me. I had a workout date, and it was weird to think some tennis lady would see my body and think I'd been "abused". IMHO our markings are something we need to be responsible for in terms of the questions they raise. It's hard to reschedule those app'ts with the gyno, so maybe your master would consider taking those into account.

I REALLY like the idea of locating a doc who is lifestyle-friendly. If your town has a gay sector like mine does (Houston's Montrose) that is a good place to start. Sometimes a cool cop or paramedic (if you know one) might be able to steer you in right direction.

A doc visit is so clinical, it would never turn me on in the least. Especially when you imagine the gyno sees a lot of snatch all day long, some not healthy, and most probably not as cute as a shaved pierced one. EEEEW - i could never imagine how they'd want to make love to their wives after being up to their ass in gamey, untrimmed or unkept snatch all day.

BUT, there are people who are into medical play! To them it may be fun!!!

If I had piercings I'd never take them out unless I was getting operated and I had to. Let them ask all they want.


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RE: going to the doctor - 1/6/2006 8:50:28 PM   
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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 5:36:49 AM   
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Shove a pipecleaner down your urethra. Does this excite you? Then a pap smear might. Me, no way.


That is the most accurate analagy that I have heard for that.

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 6:29:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		first, if I hadI a physical scheduled, I would ensure that I had NO marks or bruises - my doctor is extremely conscientious - if she saw them she would question in depth and assume I was being abused - and yes, I probably could talk to her about my lifestyle but I choose not to - so would avoid the whole necessity of doing so.

vis--a-vis getting examined ... I friggen hate pap smears and the like but recognize how important it is to get them - excited? PLEASE! yeah, right - they're uncomfortable, almost painful and yucky -

I'm struggling right now with what to do about this year's - it took me a while to work up the courage to get one when I first shaved it all (I have had this doctor for YEARS) - she didn't bat an eye and didn't say a word.

But since then have had two piercings (outer labia) and a tattoo on my butt (and as they are my D.'s initials who she also treats, then it is NOT just a tattoo LOL) - I am seriosly thinking of just going to a women's clinic - I'm not ashamed but nor do I feel compelled to share my intimate life with her. Will decide soon.

Have him there? why? I'm a sub not a child.




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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 11:01:12 AM   
perverseangelic


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How do female subs feel about going to the Dr. for a complete exam by a Dr. (I am talking complete with fett in stirrups Dr. using a spectum)?
How do you feel about going to the doctor? A OBGYN exam isn't any more traumatic or any different from any other exam. Just 'cause my pink bits are invovled doesn't mean it gets me thinking of sex. Actually, I'd rather go to my OBGYN than get blood drawn.


Would you feel different if your Master or Mistress was there with you?
Probably wouldn't even notice. It's a doctors apointment, not a play experience. I'm more comortable with the Owner there, because he's reassuring to me. I make him hold my hand when I get blood drawn :)


Do you get hot and wet as the Dr. examines and probes you?
No, it's uncomfortable and cold. In the bad way. And sometimes I'm worried about problems.


For those with clit and labia piercings, do you leave them in or take them out before going to a Dr.?
When I had my nipples done I didn't. The doctor asked me before she examined me if I had genital or nipple peircings. I told her my nipples were done and she said that she'd need to modify her breast exam a little but that they weren't in the way. She asked if they hurt :)


Do you prefer a male or female Dr.?
FEmale, based on experience. I've had bad luck with male doctors treating me as a thinking person. I know this is an individual-basis thing, but overall my female doctors have been much more open with me and talked to me much better, answering my questions clearly and openly. I prefer doctors who will answer lots of questions. I like to be informed.


If you prefer a female and Master insists on you seeing a male, does it embarass you?
Why would it? If he insisted on that, I know it'd be because the doctor is better. He'd never fuck with my health such that he made me go to a poorer doctor for fetish purposes. It's my health on the line after all.



I'm curious to know why you asked these questions? Do you think that an OBGYN exam, outside of a fetish context is erotic?


One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments.

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 1:07:27 PM   
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One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments.


LOL, it's usually just cheap old, over-the-counter KY Jelly! You could grab a tube at the WalMart and have slippery sex whenever you wanted

They're even making scented/flavored and warming KY Jelly now, too!

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 1:36:59 PM   
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Heheheh, I can see it now. I take my sub to the doctor for a cold or some such, and the doctor asks my sub about the welts on his back, and I reply, "Oh, I did that with my cane."

<evil grin>

You may ask: Would I really say that? Well, yeah. Very likely. But maybe not, depending on my sub's level of comfort with being 100% "out." Otherwise we'd have to come up with some sort of story, although how you can explain away that sort of thing successfully is beyond me. So much easier to just tell the truth.





If you took your sub to the doctor, and the doctor asked you about the welts on his back, my guess is that the doctor already has a pretty clear image of the picture... lol

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 8:16:32 PM   
perverseangelic


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One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments.


LOL, it's usually just cheap old, over-the-counter KY Jelly! You could grab a tube at the WalMart and have slippery sex whenever you wanted

They're even making scented/flavored and warming KY Jelly now, too!

chymes


I dunno what they're using, but it wasn't KY. I have allergic reactions to it. Don't even get me started on waming ky. Owie owie owie owie owie.

Though, that might be it. I told her I was allergic to a lot of stuff. Maybe I got special treatment :)

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 8:20:54 PM   
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One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments.


Do NOT get any ideas after a prostate exam!

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/7/2006 10:16:59 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: Petruchio

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One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments.


Do NOT get any ideas after a prostate exam!




hehehhe. That one is getting passed on to the Owner. Thanks :)

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/8/2006 12:27:59 AM   
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OK well I will take the question a little further

How do female subs feel about going to the Dr. for a complete exam by a Dr. (I am talking complete with fett in stirrups Dr. using a spectum)?

Would you feel different if your Master or Mistress was there with you?




Mr bigguns most dr's offices now won't let any one acompany an adult patient into the office, For the privacy and efficency all non patient people must wait out in the waiting rooms.

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/8/2006 12:38:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not particularly embarassed by it, though the questions do make me a tad uncomfortable.


Forgive me for asking but why get something done you know the questions about will make you a tad uncomfortable, and why should questions about it like does it hurt and how is it healing and such make you uncomfy

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/8/2006 12:52:31 AM   
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Shove a pipecleaner down your urethra. Does this excite you? Then a pap smear might. Me, no way.


That is the most accurate analagy that I have heard for that.


Heh... I recently had a urethra stint removed (It was placed in the first place because of a lone sickly kidney that had a big ol' stone in it) and having the stint (a little tube placed inside the urethra) has made me decide I will NEVER like medical play.

It felt like someone was ripping out a VERY delicate area. Although the local anesthetic used in the area made me giggle when I got home. I've never had a numb clitoris before!

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/8/2006 6:29:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, pa, you must have really sensitive skin! I tried the warming KY once and wasn't impressed at all. I felt exactly that...warming....for a few minutes and then was gone. I wondered what all the fuss was about.

Okay....I've heard that egg whites are similar in consistancy to KY or even natural body secretions. But when I sit here and think about it, I'd think they'd be even more slippery. I haven't tried them, so I don't honestly know for sure....would they dry up sooner? ANYBODY HERE TRIED EGG WHITES FOR LUBE??? lol

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/8/2006 6:32:31 AM   
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One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments.


Do NOT get any ideas after a prostate exam!



Damn, all my dreams up in smoke!

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/8/2006 11:29:12 AM   
perverseangelic


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Wow, pa, you must have really sensitive skin! I tried the warming KY once and wasn't impressed at all. I felt exactly that...warming....for a few minutes and then was gone. I wondered what all the fuss was about.

Okay....I've heard that egg whites are similar in consistancy to KY or even natural body secretions. But when I sit here and think about it, I'd think they'd be even more slippery. I haven't tried them, so I don't honestly know for sure....would they dry up sooner? ANYBODY HERE TRIED EGG WHITES FOR LUBE??? lol

chymes


It wasn't so bad on my skin,. but since it's supposed to be a personal lubricant too, we tried it down there. Uck.

It's funny, I'm not actually that sensitive in general. I just have to be really careful with lubricants. I prefer not to use them at -all- if I can avoid it. Just about everything I;ve ever tried stings at least a little, and dramatically increaces my risk of getting a UTI.

It bugs me 'cause I can wear any makeup, any fragrance, anything like that, but put it on/near my pink bits? I can't even take scented baths anymore. :(

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/9/2006 3:27:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Aurora31 said: "No one has brought this one up yet, but in many states health care professionals are mandatory reporters. I would be very fearful in my state to go to the doctor or hospital with marks or bruises as the doctor and or nurse would be required to report them and if I was married or had a live in boy friend it is very likely he would have domestic charges filed against him bye the state. Evan if I said it was consentual. I would have no say in the matter."

Hi Aurora - I'm training to be an RN, and I think I can set your mind at ease on this. You've misunderstood the law; mandatory reporters are ONLY obliged to report suspected abuse if the victim is a child or a dependent adult (e.g., someone with Down's Syndrome or living in a nursing home).

Here is one link to a document about mandatory reporting in Iowa. Am I a mandatory reporter?

If a doctor or nurse suspects that an independent adult is being abused, there is no professional obligation to report it; on the contrary, there is a professional obligation to NOT report it unless the patient consents, because it's confidential information. That is, we can't report it to the police, to your friends, or any other outside party; we can and should share the information with other members of the health care team. Your doctor or nurse is likely to add their physical obervations and any relevant conversations to your chart so that other doctors and nurses will know it, but it won't go outside of the health care profession, and it probably won't go outside of the particular clinic or hospital (though it could, in theory).

If a woman shows up with a black eye, her doctor or nurse will probably urge her to get some help. If she shows up with a black eye and a man at her side, they will probably look for a chance to get her alone and talk about it. But they can't make her get help, and they can't call the police unless she consents.

So, if a doctor is worried about your marks, she or he might not believe it when you say that they're due to BDSM, or she or he might personally believe that BDSM is inherently abusive, but if you decline their suggestion of looking for help, there's nothing the doctor can do about it.

So, don't worry.

Fiddlegirl

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/9/2006 7:52:32 PM   
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I've heard that egg whites are similar in consistancy to KY or even natural body secretions. But when I sit here and think about it, I'd think they'd be even more slippery. I haven't tried them, so I don't honestly know for sure....would they dry up sooner? ANYBODY HERE TRIED EGG WHITES FOR LUBE??? lol

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Egg whites? Hmm... I can't help but wonder... can one get salmonella poisoning via the rectum or vagina?

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RE: going to the doctor - 1/9/2006 10:49:16 PM   
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One thing, though, the lubricant they use for the speculum is a -great- sexual lubricant :) We make a pointto always have sex right after apointments


could be J-lube or something similar to it. J-lube is a lubricant that is used in the veterinary field, and I would guess also the medical field, as most of all veterinary advances were made first for humans.

It is now being sold as a sexual lubricant, and comes in a powdered form, that when mixed with water forms the lube. Each container is about $8, and makes about 8 gallons of lube. It is incredibly slippery, but sticks to your skin and doesnt wash off easily, making it ideal for long term work. Got a friend who got some, incredible stuff it is.

Me, I do have interest in Med Fet, but I havent had an OBGYN exam yet, and honestly, outside the playroom, I probably will not enjoy it so much. And yes, having to explain marks, because marks and scars is what I eventually want to have, does scare me. But thank you all for the information. At the same time though, if I bring someone to the doc, or they go to the doc marked up because of me, I would be afriad of getting busted for being abusive, regardless of concent. But thank you Fiddlegirl. Ill keep that in mind.

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Egg whites? Hmm... I can't help but wonder... can one get salmonella poisoning via the rectum or vagina?


Possibly, especially if there are tears in the walls of the rectum and vagina. I dont know but you would be playing with some volitle bateria there in the egg whites. It may not be a good idea, and may spread much the same ways and STD could.

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