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Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:16:49 PM   
rednicky


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Status: offline 		I actually haven't read any real ones...ever. It's a fantasy I would really like to try one day but I want to hear some good experiences from people. Like how women deal with the clenching so they don't get hurt. Since it's a popular fantasy, If people wouldn't mind posting their stories and telling how they managed to do it without too much difficulty, I would really appreciate it.

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RE: Any good rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:20:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Do you mean play rape or actual rape??

I don't think there is such a thing as a "good actual rape" experience.

It's horrifying, demoralizing, painful and nightmare. You feel dirty and violated and abused and ashamed, depressed and angry so very very angry

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RE: Any good rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:29:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh Jesus, I hope I don't hit anybody's trigger.

I meant role play rape. Of course it's gotta be convincing in order to have the right effect. So it's almost like it's real, but there was consent before hand.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:32:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		having been raped in college-- this is a role play I just don't get--but then YKINMK.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:35:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh is this something that I should just not mention on this site...ever?

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RE: Any good rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:37:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		A 'forced' fantasy was what very first brought me into WIITWD. The problem i have found is that you need a level of trust to participate in this kind of play with someone. And then once you do have that level of trust, it is hard to make it convincing.
 
The best, i found, was one evening where i thought He was going to be out of town and He 'surprised' me. The fantasy worked pretty well that night.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:38:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, there are a lot of people who have rape fantasies, it's just that for some that would be a trigger. It's not against the rules to post a thread as you did about it and I'm quite sure there will be positive feedback from those who share your fantasy when they see the thread.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:39:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rednicky

Oh is this something that I should just not mention on this site...ever?


i would just say that you have to know not everyone is going to enjoy what you do and there are some who will.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:43:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rednicky

Oh is this something that I should just not mention on this site...ever?


Many people do have fantasies regarding rape play. The key issue is for the people involved is to carefully negotiate exactly how the scene will play out. What has to be in the forefront is this type of scening must be done with utmost care and consent must be agreed upon by everyone. Many are squicked by the thought yet many will be able to have good advice on this.


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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:43:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are quite a few people that have rape fantasies. I've even seen some acted out for competition. Well ok I only saw the first few minutes before I started feeling queasy, but every one else said it was done very very well *S*

If you do a search I know someone about a year ago went into detail about a played out rape scene. There was one that went very very wrong but others said they had successful experiences.

I can't even watch a rape on a movie or TV show with out wanting to throw up, so this kind of play would never be something I'd do personally. Having experienced it in reality that last thing i want to do is relive it over and over again.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 2:55:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is just one of those topic's that can be a hot topic or trigger of some sort... maybe not an emotional trigger, but an attitude one.  Somewhat like breath play for some of us.  Many here love it and have had good experiences... but boy do I remember a real bad one not too long ago.

We did have one thread where I think we got to some more productive ground between those that think it hot and those not liking the term rape for play or experineces as it isn't rape and nothing close to what some really experience and find offensive because they know it cannot be anything close to real and many can't understand why anyone would think it something hot.  I can't remember the end result of that thread though.

Just read... explore... and if you have any vulnerablities by being taken by surprise and living alone or have had experince where you might flash back in relation to this, it is wise to really think about it and have some good trust going and a back up plan if things go wrong.  Also... I wouldn't advise being seen by anyone.  That could be funny later after you have gotten out of hot water... but could pose some legal inquiries. lol

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 3:05:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have heard of folks of doing a play rape scene.  They negotiated everything beforehand, and then scouted the location(s) and then 'played' it out.  One story/report I read had the couple 'meet' in a seedy bar and when they got to her door, he 'came on' and she 'resisted' and he handcuffed her, duct taped her and proceeded to 'rape' her while she resisted and then 'got into it'.    Another was the "intruder" scene that followed s similar plot line, so to speak.

But like I said, the whole thing was pre-negotiated, so it wasn't really rape.


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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 3:05:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		i dont really have a trigger in this area. i have had partners burst into rooms and then do whatever it took to take me down...but in the end, it was really just a rough sex session. Lots of rugburns and whatnot, but i dont really get affected by knife play either. There is just too much suspension of disbelief involved...and im kind of lazy. i know im not going to get hurt permanently.

(altho, during knifeplay scenes, when it gets to my neck, i do start a chain of thought like, "what if he sneezed...right....now..." and that sort of freaks me out for a second, but thats me doing it...sniffle.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 3:05:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've done versions of such...

I find the key is to agree in advance what levels of attack AND resistance should be expected. Nothing will stop a scene faster than a swift kick to the nuts...

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 3:07:12 PM   
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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 3:24:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Persephonee:
when it gets to my neck, i do start a chain of thought like, "what if he sneezed...right....now..."

HA!!!!

Right. I understand. I wasn't even thinking of going so far as to, say, meet a Dom in a foreign area and get raped in a parking lot or a hotel. I simply meant having someone you know do it. I hear that most women who are raped are raped by people they know. I was thinking of someone I knew and liked but only somewhat. We're relaxing at his place and it's getting late. I say I'd better get home and that he needs to drop me off. He gives me that "Oh come on. Stay a little while longer" meanwhile making advances toward me. At first I take it as harmless flirting but then I realize that he's not letting go of my wrists. And then...well...use your imagination.

It's something I wanted to try maybe a week after getting serious with a Dom. That way it's somewhat believable and provides that anxiety I long for. After all, it'll probably be the first sexual experience at the start fo the relationship. But, at the same time, since things are official between he and I and we've spoken about my fantasy and established a general safe word, I feel somewhat secure that things will be okay. But I'd like to hear about others. Would that be too fast? Could it perhaps need more planning? Am I under estimating the severity of this fantasy?

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 3:42:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		MMMkay.......
Here's some help....
Go to Nifty or Literotica and look for fantasies concerning  this.....

It will help with "planning" a "non consensual" sexual event.....


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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 4:59:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		nicky, I wouild recommend against having this be the first sexual experience of the relationship.  It may be hotter that way, but it's be safer if he knew your responses, general pain tolerance, etc. first.

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/16/2009 5:55:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nicky, the last thing I would do is have this be your first experience with the guy. It is not uncommon, even for people in a strong relationship who have negotiated this, for the woman to find that she has a great deal of trouble processing it afterwards and needs months worth of support and caring. You really think some guy you've known a week will be there for six months afterwards if that's what you need?

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RE: Any good roleplay rape experiences? - 1/17/2009 11:05:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you think you're going to need months of counseling and support to get over it, I wouldn't go near it with a ten-foot pole, OP. 

I've had various experiences with roleplay rape and loved every experience.  The best encounters were where it was either the first or second time we'd met.  There was still the element of not knowing the person totally and an aura of "real" danger/fear that I was seeking.  Maybe it's just me, but being "raped" by someone you know completely and can pretty much predict exactly what's going to happen and how it'll happen just takes most of the edge of the whole thing. 

I'm not dismissing the fact that many if not most people wouldn't have been comfortable with what I enjoyed but if you're considering such a roleplay and you honestly think you're going to have so much trauma from it that you're going to need months of support and caring to recuperate from it, it may not be the fantasy you need to fulfill.

It's supposed to be exciting, fun and hot, not a pre-planned trauma............luci

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