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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 1/26/2009 4:32:16 PM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		I can't explain it, but one of my earliest memories that never sank into the back of mind(I think of this quite often), was from a time when I was around four years old. I remember being in some kind of a clothing store and there were female mannequins. One was in a setting position, and I instinctively crawled across it's lap and had "that special feeling", lol I always wanted to play spanking games with other kids, (I was the spank-e). I was the one who wanted to be the "patient" when we played doctor, and always had this bizarre feeling that I wanted women to abuse me. Later in life these feelings turned into cravings, then into something that I feared because I didn't know how to express myself, and the little I did, I was sharply reprimanded for as it wasn't "normal".....I finally set about exploring this side of my nature as an adult, and haven't been able to get enough of it ever since. Am I a pervert?  lol..

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 1/26/2009 6:54:57 PM   
servantheart


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Status: offline 		I was born as I am.  I have always taken great pleasure in serving and being pleasing.  I am "into" being "myself".  I submit to, obey, and serve the One who has mastered me.  I find happiness and fulfillment in my service to Sir, and will serve Him till my dying day, if that is pleasing to Him.  Why call it anything but what it is....slavery? 
 

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 1/27/2009 6:46:17 AM   
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The shiny badge I got when I signed up.....





Badges!!  we no need no stinkin badges!

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 1/27/2009 6:59:24 AM   
CallaFirestormBW


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Status: offline 		Honestly, I don't know. I am what I am... and everything else just seemed to grow up around me like coral on a reef... a little bit here, a little bit there... until there's a definable structure to all of it -- it only looks chaotic from up close. *smiles*

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 1/27/2009 7:33:01 AM   
Nikitaa


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Status: offline 		My reason is because I have fun. I do not know why I have fun walking on men and doing kinky things and I do not care why.

I am happy reasons are not required. I have fun reading mystery books and watching movies and walking on men so I do those. Reasons not required. If my fun does not make other people have less fun I do mine.




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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 1/31/2009 6:53:18 PM   
blackssbbw


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Status: offline 		I think its in My genes. All the females in My family are some what dominant. So, like most..I was born this way

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/1/2009 12:11:27 PM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		The sex.  Definitely the sex.

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 3:30:17 AM   
barebottomboy52


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Status: offline 		It started for me when i was 5 years old my mother got mad at me. Took me by my ear to he family room. Striped me naked in front of my sister and her best friend and spanked me in front of them. Then turning me around exposing my pakage to the girls. Made me stand in the corner for an hour barebottom exposed and red. I remember being aroused at my punishment and exposure even at 5.

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 3:34:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm I kinda hope that post gets removed

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 5:52:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sparkyRBF

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Depends where you put the badge I guess....youch!


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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 5:54:35 AM   
BLKMADONA


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Status: offline 		Im just an ol pervette...heh. Didnt think I needed a reason :-P~

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 10:24:14 AM   
CharmingDeceit


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Status: offline 		Because I'm a dominant person by nature.  And I live my life on respect for both myself and my submissive.  I was falling into the lifestyle without even realizing it.  I know this is quite bland, but, I have no other way of putting it.  Respect and dominance, it's like, even if your not aware of the 'life', you can already be a part of it.

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 11:22:34 AM   
WiseCracknSadist


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Status: offline 		I would get into these relationships and be absolutely miserableb playing by societies rules for relationships. Then when my instinct would finally take over the relationship would crash and burn.

Then one night I found a definition D/s on Wikipedia of all places. I always equate my relization to what I think it must be for gay people to realize they're gay because all the things that went wrong in my life, my decisions, it all made sense.

Then I realized I wasn't alone that there were others like me. I wasn't broken just of a different mold. I've never looked back since. I found what brings peace to my life.

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 11:33:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

Enough friends and exes suggesting: "Maybe you should actually seek out partners that are specifically looking to be on the collared side of D/s dynamics."


The thing that I find most interesting, and a little frustrating, about my time in the communities of WIITWD is that the people that I end up spending time in the company of are other D-types... just people that turn out to be really -interesting. So far, most of our servants have come to us via personal recommendations... I've met a lot of interesting people via places like this and at munches, etc., but not folks I'd consider to serve me or the household.


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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 10:16:48 PM   
emdoub


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ORIGINAL: rednicky

I know there are many people here who just 'knew' that bdsm was for them. But what about those who developed the need for it in their lives via some life changing events? What was the event and how did it happen?


I started dating someone who seemed to enjoy it.  Totally clueless, mind you - and ashamed of treating her that way - but in the 1980s, in a very feminist-friendly society, she let me order her around.

I was a total dumbass, and let her slip away, unaware of the treasure I held in my hands - but I was hooked.  In 1992, I found the internet, and alt.sex.bondage, and knew I was home.

Midnight Writer


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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 11:42:01 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		I give up… what is D/D??? That always meant Dungeons & Dragons in gamer’s slang. 

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/2/2009 11:47:40 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		Maybe domestic discipline

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/3/2009 8:10:16 AM   
Ropebefun


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Status: offline 		One of my former roomates was in the lifestyle when I met him and I had no idea.  I once mentioned tying someone up and he replied back "I have two hundred feet of rope."  I did not believe him at first, but then the idea got in my head.  Then he decided to send me trailers from Kink.com until I finally clicked one.  I watched it about five times, shook my head in resignation and walked over to his room and said. "Where can I sign up?"  Then I met a girl who was a closet submissive and with help from my roomate started the relationship and started falling down the rabbit hole.  I am curious to see what ledge I finally stop on, because I know that hole just keeps getting depper.

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RE: What's your reason for being into D/s, M/s, D/D, an... - 2/5/2009 7:44:26 AM   
Knottydad


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Status: offline 		I remember tying my cousin (a cute and nice girl indeed) when I was 7 or so, and taking a lot of pleasure doing so.
And I never cesased thinking about that, watching for porn, reading kink books, and the like.
Next step : just really getting into bondage. Not so easy with a jealous, vanilla wife !

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