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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

I only become nervous in two situations - when work/social avenues have brought me into contact with people who have been drinking alcohol, I guess that's because people who are under the influence are not in full control over their actions and therefore unpredictable, and the other situation is when I engage a submissive that's considerably far more experienced than myself in areas such as bondage, for instance, for I know they are critiquing me. Constructive criticisms I can take and do accept, I want to continue learning as much as they would like to keep teaching me, it's the cocky ones that like to issue challenges... Usually a good gag and binding their forearms to their biceps and calves to the backs of their thighs so that they're forced to walk like a doggy on their elbows and knees cures that cockiness.

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ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

I got nervous  ONCE....My spirit guides told me something was wrong. The guy turned out to be a deranged lunatic and had an explosive episode while here over an insignificant event. I talked to his mother and she confirmed that he is severely mentally unstable and attacks her constantly.  So trust that gut instinct...it is often right.

Other times, I get slight jitters but my guides come in and take me over..THEY handle the event and I am just a vehicle that they drive. span.jajahWrapper { font-size:1em; color:#B11196; text-decoration:underline; } a.jajahLink { color:#000000; text-decoration:none; } span.jajahInLink:hover { background-color:#B11196; }

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ORIGINAL: chicagoswitch

I was just curious.  Do Doms get nervous when they are with a new (and less experienced) submissive partner?

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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair
Also, when I was early into the scene as a top, I had played exclusively with more experienced bottoms and submissives, mainly to learn and gain experience. as, I nervous? I would say perhaps more self-concious... I knew I was being scrutinized. Though in fact, I looked forward to the in-scene comments (if kept to a minimum) and after-scene discussion. Those were days of much discovery and self-discovery. Nowadays, I am very open to the idea of finding a very experienced sub/slave to use or play with. Perhaps, I would get back some nervousness... but I would still perhaps learn a few things. I love learning and I can deal with the nervousness, if it comes.

Thanks,

Call me LL