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MoGa -> RE: Only Male Doms reply please (1/26/2009 8:02:46 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PLCPC
I met a DOM, through Collarme, about 1 1/2 years ago. We hit it off, and had some very exciting, initial meetings. We seemed to have the same likes (D/s) related, and he would become very intense. We also have many mutual interests outside of D/s. And we sometimes travel in the same social circles. I tend to be careful in developing a D/s relationship, and we had not actually had sex. At the same time he was very into it...one day he sent me home because he felt he might lose control.
Soon thereafter, he gave me a neutral goodbye. I respected that. But yesterday he found me on Facebook and requested that I become his friend.
As a DOM, he totally turned me on. Yet, I don't want to get into something so hurtful again.
My question is this: As a DOM, how would you view this, and/or would you personally toy with a sub this way?
As a "DOM", I would view this just as I would as a woman. I would see it simply as someone who found you after a loss of contact for a year and a half who wanted to add you to his list of friends on face book. No big deal. If you make it more than that, or you expect more than that, you may be setting yourself up for something that may or may not exsist. Add him, you can always delete him. Don't add him, and just go on with your life. Like Em said, the choice is yours.
I am curious as to why you only wanted male doms to answer this thread though. I see some excellent answers from some really cool female dominants.
MoGa
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