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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 2:47:37 PM   
Dark42662


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Hmm...well I have a somewhat different take on this.   I have red hair and the pale skin that goes along with it.   For years I put up with comments like "you're going to blind me with the glare off your skin" and "do you glow in the dark."   I could never spend a lot of time outside without having sunscreen on, and even then I would have to cover up after a couple of hours.   So I got the occasional sunburn because I enjoy spending time outside.     
   A couple of years ago I went to see my doctor about an ugly looking mole that was growing on my shoulder.  It turned out to be cancerous.   They also removed a couple of others they told me were pre-cancerous.     I was told that I should stay covered up outside for my own good.
   So I've given up on being naked unless its necessary.    I don't like the comments, and I'd rather not take the risk.

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 2:47:59 PM   
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I am glad that I have never had issues with being unhappy being naked, I was raised in a nudity friendly family, so I've been around nudity my own and others since I was a small child, and even as a overweight women now days, I am still happy and comfortable naked.

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We have had some great discussions on here about the difference between being naked and being nude.  If you want to feel better about your body in its natural state there is a new book called, Feel Good Naked. 
 
 
"Why women should feel good naked"
 
updated 2:01 p.m. EST, Fri January 23, 2009 
"For years Laure Redmond hated her body: too fat, too freckled, too lumpy, too stumpy. And that hatred was like a set of shackles holding her back from life.

Now a self-esteem coach who specializes in mind/body issues, Redmond has made a career of helping women and teenage girls get over what she calls their body demons. Her goal for them is summed up in the title of her 2001 book: "Feel Good Naked."

It's not about naked for naked's sake, she says it's about the amazing confidence that comes with being at ease in your own skin."
 
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/01/23/o.nude.attitude/index.html

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 2:51:00 PM   
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I loath my body, I love being naked, on my own when no one can see. Im ok with my boobs being out but other than that I get so embaressed. I kinda like being told to be naked though, that gives me a hell of a lot of confidence (well if it was repulsive to them then they wouldnt be wanting me naked now would they) but out of choice im a lights out, undress under the covers kinda girl

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 3:02:59 PM   
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Tis I.


I'd like to touch, just to make sure  .


well I am naked after all...Don't want to hijack the intention of this thread.  It has been awhile....A bit rusty in the posting procedures and my gash stash has reached an all time critical low...Nearly depleted or deleted.  If you have a problem with your "nakedness" feel free to forward any gash shots that you might have lying about.  I will give you all the constructive criticism you might need to allow you to reach a needed comfortability with your assets.


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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 3:07:13 PM   
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I am comfortable being naked.  Its others that seem to be uncomfortable with me being naked.  Damn those WalMart shoppers.

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 3:16:27 PM   
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Honestly I don't want to either, but I also feel it's their fredom to wear it, and if it bothers me to much I can leave, or just not look. or learn to deal with it.
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I'm sorry but I don't want to see a 300 lbs woman in a bikini, or a hairy, 300lbs man in a speedo. 

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 3:31:22 PM   
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Hey there folks,
Wanna feel good being naked?  I found many years ago that posing for artists is a great way to get over it.  They don't really see you as "that fat girl" or that "pasty skinny guy".  They see you as a series of angles and curves.  It really takes the sting out of stuff. 

well wishes,
sunshine
p.s.  welcome back domiguy. 


Did you ever get to see the pictures though, artists and their interpretations. Which can be both good and bad depending on the artist and their interpretation.

I got a life sculpting class in a few weeks, in my favourite medium; mud. Let's see what kind of mess I can interpret. Am working upto appearing on the other side of the easel, I have been asked, just not decided yet.


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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 3:35:03 PM   
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I got in touch with my Inner Thug and wrote you a welcome Song Domi.

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 3:36:46 PM   
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I can't see myself being happy with my daughters seeing grown people naked.  I don't even like it when they walk in on me in the bathroom.

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 4:33:47 PM   
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First - Glad to see you've escaped from the gulag and are gracing us with you presence once again, Domiguy.

I've been sleeping naked since I was thirteen.  It drove my parents nuts but I just found it more comfortable.  I'm not comfortable being nude in a public place like a beach but I do love sleeping naked with a naked woman.  On a cold winter night, nothing warms a mans bed better than a hot blooded - NAKED - woman.

< Message edited by Marc2b -- 1/26/2009 4:35:37 PM >


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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 5:21:02 PM   
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Hmm...well I have a somewhat different take on this.   I have red hair and the pale skin that goes along with it.   For years I put up with comments like "you're going to blind me with the glare off your skin" and "do you glow in the dark."   I could never spend a lot of time outside without having sunscreen on, and even then I would have to cover up after a couple of hours.   So I got the occasional sunburn because I enjoy spending time outside.     
  A couple of years ago I went to see my doctor about an ugly looking mole that was growing on my shoulder.  It turned out to be cancerous.   They also removed a couple of others they told me were pre-cancerous.     I was told that I should stay covered up outside for my own good.
  So I've given up on being naked unless its necessary.    I don't like the comments, and I'd rather not take the risk.



There is always the night....you could be a ghost...nothing like naked in the moonlight

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 5:36:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Dark42662

Hmm...well I have a somewhat different take on this.   I have red hair and the pale skin that goes along with it.   For years I put up with comments like "you're going to blind me with the glare off your skin" and "do you glow in the dark."   I could never spend a lot of time outside without having sunscreen on, and even then I would have to cover up after a couple of hours.   So I got the occasional sunburn because I enjoy spending time outside.     
A couple of years ago I went to see my doctor about an ugly looking mole that was growing on my shoulder.  It turned out to be cancerous.   They also removed a couple of others they told me were pre-cancerous.     I was told that I should stay covered up outside for my own good.
So I've given up on being naked unless its necessary.    I don't like the comments, and I'd rather not take the risk.



There is always the night....you could be a ghost...nothing like naked in the moonlight

Butch


Dark, I got the same comments and growing up in California... well those tanned one's could be so cruel. I burned or freckled.  I can't tell you how often I hear... can I connect the dot's and count them.  I see a man coming at me with a pen and the look they get scares the hell outta them!  BUT... there come's the one who loves that pale skin... or even freckles and they tend to be more into that paleness than anyone I met who got into a tan!  I also had the pre-cancerous and now need someone to watch my spots... hehe  Now how hard should that be? !#&%*!

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 8:56:30 PM   
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haha, that (a co-ed weekend retreat) would hardly help me 

scar me beyond relief, maybe.

I dunno, I can't even be naked unless the lights are off. (It's funny because it's mostly my bottom and thighs that I'm self-conscious about... and they're the most toned, strong, and 'powerful' parts of me. It probably goes back to body dysmorphia induced by my other 'issues' )

Even then I don't really feel *good* about myself. I hate my body entirely, especially being reminded of the fact that it is the way it is *shrug*. It's not an issue that I can't really ever get over, but the only times I can remember being naked and feeling good about it are when I was naked in bed with my ex and cuddling. If I could, I would have sex without being naked (and, actually, a good amount of the time I can).

It throws me for a loop whenever someone finds my body attractive. I honestly can't fathom it.

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 9:01:59 PM   
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Did you feel self-conscious at first?  It is a different social dynamic to be the only one naked and have everyone staring at you.


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Hey there folks,

Wanna feel good being naked?  I found many years ago that posing for artists is a great way to get over it.  They don't really see you as "that fat girl" or that "pasty skinny guy".  They see you as a series of angles and curves.  It really takes the sting out of stuff. 


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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 9:03:22 PM   
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Dark 42662,
 
You definately have a good reason to be covered up when out of doors and in the sunlight.  How about inside in your own home?  Are you comfortable in your own bare skin there?

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 9:14:27 PM   
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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 9:42:36 PM   
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I love nakedness!  My own, others, small or big.  Naked is cool :)

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/26/2009 10:37:24 PM   
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Some of the hottest sex I've had was when I was dressed...
That "can't wait til you get naked or in the bedroom" sex is amazing.

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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/27/2009 8:23:17 AM   
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It's good to see you again domiguy.    M


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RE: Feeling good when you are naked - 1/27/2009 9:10:01 AM   
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i can show my tits anywhere, anytime, and have. when i get to Daytona, it is on our to do list to go to the BootHill Saloon and look at all the "show me your tits" pics  and see if my tits are there (i was in Daytona for Bike Week in 85). as far as the rest of me, that depends on how much of a connection i feel. i had no problem nor a moment of hesitation being naked in front of the ResidentSadistSir....we were in his home ummmmmm.....a minute and i was even peeing in front of him. 
once, i was playing with 2 Dominants. one of them was a close friend and the other i had seen around at events, but had never been introduced to . my friend asked me to get undressed ...i started in on some whiney shit..."do i have to, Sir" "may i please leave my panties on". the other Dominant listened for a few minutes to our exchange and reached up placed his hands on my chin, turned my face to meet his eyes and said in a very low voice "get undressed"...i was naked and restrained on the cross in less than a minute. we became play partners for almost a year after that night.
by these two examples, comfortably being completely naked for me says i need to feel connected or simply told. 
 
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