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hardbodysub -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 6:23:25 PM)
Being financially unsuccessful doesn't even make the top 100 list of reasons guys submit.

slutslave4u -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 6:25:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Anastasia25 Doms want their subs to be financially successful, so that they submit by choice, not because they have to... I serve by choice regardless, financial or otherwise, either way, regardless.....as it is still my choice to do so! however it does seem a very large majority of Dommes do want, and yes do seek, a financially well off sub/slave over one not so much so....sorry to say but is true! slutslave4u

LunaVenus -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 7:02:59 PM)
Moga, I am so sorry. I didnt mean to offend anyone at all. Truth be told I only wear leather and heels when a slave comes over. And I have not been twenty years old in almost 20 years. When I wake up in the mornings I look like death warmed over if I am lucky... Right now I dont look any better..My hair is all over my head and uncombed. I look like a hag from hell...And I am buck naked... No mini skirts or heels here. But I would NEVER let a sub see me like this. So I am in no position to criticize anyone... I was saying what they expect.... Not that I am any better delivering than anymore than anyone else. But I do try my best. Everyday it gets harder and harder the older I get. But I am trying my best. My style is more Pro Domme and dramatic though.,, that's just me But please forgive me if the ideals that I buy into due to expectations offended anyone. we are all different,.

Nikitaa -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 7:31:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LunaVenus Moga, I am so sorry. I didnt mean to offend anyone at all. Truth be told I only wear leather and heels when a slave comes over. And I have not been twenty years old in almost 20 years. When I wake up in the mornings I look like death warmed over if I am lucky... Right now I dont look any better..My hair is all over my head and uncombed. I look like a hag from hell...And I am buck naked... No mini skirts or heels here. But I would NEVER let a sub see me like this. So I am in no position to criticize anyone... I was saying what they expect.... Not that I am any better delivering than anymore than anyone else. But I do try my best. Everyday it gets harder and harder the older I get. But I am trying my best. My style is more Pro Domme and dramatic though.,, that's just me But please forgive me if the ideals that I buy into due to expectations offended anyone. we are all different,. This is forum on internet. If you say "how are you" you will offend someone. You state your opinions and this is okay. If people become offended because you not think the same as them then this is problem of theirs not yours. You are not required to explain yourself or justify to people because of how you feel. I did not agree with some stuff you write but no matter. I did not think you rude. You only write your opinion and you should. I do not think you have reason to apologize to anyone. Is your opinion. You were ganged on so you get uppady, so what? It is just forum. Have fun and do not worry. I like people with opinions and not afraid to say them.

Lockit -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 8:40:22 PM)
When an opinion one has is inflamitory and insults other dominant's.. whether they take insult or not... and you say very rude things... substandard... infering that sex with a submissive is being a whore and all the many things said... one might consider that their opinons might bring on some snark or anger. We all have a different way... but most of us don't go around acting superior to other's to the point of calling them substandard if they are not like themselves.

TranceTara -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 8:51:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chiaThePet quote: ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA they have to know they need to signal to women that their genes were the fittest [sm=wave.gif] Hey, check out these Button Fly 501 Blues and what they do for my ass.[sm=wiggleass.gif] chia* (the pet) Nice crack chia! Now Nikitaa knows where to paddle that ice. Puppet or not, you're pretty hot.

chiaThePet -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 9:06:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TranceTara Nice crack chia! Now Nikitaa knows where to paddle that ice. Puppet or not, you're pretty hot. Why thank you, thank you very much. Now, can anyone tell me how to get......... How to get to Sesame Street? chia* (the pet)

thishereboi -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 9:20:18 PM)
Come to Detroit, I'll show ya how to get there [:)]

TranceTara -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 9:20:33 PM)
Step into my trash can, otherwise known as TARDIS. I'll get you there. [:D] And, it won't cost you a cent.

ShaktiSama -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 9:33:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit We all have a different way... but most of us don't go around acting superior to other's to the point of calling them substandard if they are not like themselves. What Lockit said. "Whore", "substandard", a lot of other words used in these posts are extremely offensive, and not in the "it's the Internet" kinda way. You walk in, cop a hateful superior attitude and start calling people names? Don't be surprised when they have a few choice words of their own. "Whore" applies a hell of a lot more to women who expect money from the men in their lives than to women who expect sex from the men in their lives, to my way of thinking. And "substandard" implies that the "standard" is set by whores and their customers--personally, my standard is not.

LunaVenus -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 9:36:59 PM)
Lockit, again I am very sorry if anyone took my opinions to be applied to them. . I still believe everything I said.but I wasn't even thinking of anyone here when I shared my general views. (maybe with the ping pong paddle...yes) And I dont think any view is superior or inferior or inflamatory...just each person's individual way of thinking. I enjoy diversity of thought....Some people obviously don't.

LunaVenus -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 9:40:09 PM)
The whore was used in my saying I am NOT one....Not me calling anyone else one.

chiaThePet -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 10:36:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TranceTara [:D] And, it won't cost you a cent. So we've come full circle. Dollars and sense. It bodes well to be in possession of such. It also bodes well to possess understanding when circumstance dictates otherwise. I once was a substandard whore. Then I realized that profiting from my use by others was defined as employment. Now I am simply a whore with standards. And apparently, as I'm also a Hand Puppet, I'll need to rethink those backdoor hard limits. chia* (the pet)

TranceTara -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 11:18:55 PM)
quote: So we've come full circle. Dollars and sense. It bodes well to be in possession of such. It also bodes well to possess understanding when circumstance dictates otherwise. I once was a substandard whore. Then I realized that profiting from my use by others was defined as employment. Now I am simply a whore with standards. And apparently, as I'm also a Hand Puppet, I'll need to rethink those backdoor hard limits. Yes, in a roundabout way we have come full circle. And I have been called possessed many a time. If you were a substandard whore, then perhaps I'm a whore-able sub? And I do have my own standards. I never called you a Hand Puppet! Feet can easily be used as well. Some like to get their kicks in many ways. And, I cannot get the word "dictates" out of my head. What do you get when you cross a penis with a potato? A dick tator. (Edited because I screwed up the punchline.) And here's my picture. I just can't figure out how to upload it as my avatar. As you can see, I too am a puppet. You might even call me a slave for I do work for a corporation. [Mod Note: image removed]

ALAstella -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 11:23:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LunaVenus BDSM and D/s for me is like Theatre.... a good production with lots of effects and props... And you've never heard of fringe theatre? I would agree that BDSM and D/s are like Theatre - they require integrity, ingenuity and personality.. Props and effects never make a good show, and besides people go to theatre for live interaction with the actors and for the ideas. However from what I can see from your posts on this thread you've wasted an awful lot of money.

HardToTame -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (1/31/2009 11:40:26 PM)
quote: This is forum on internet. If you say "how are you" you will offend someone. You state your opinions and this is okay. If people become offended because you not think the same as them then this is problem of theirs not yours. You are not required to explain yourself or justify to people because of how you feel. I did not agree with some stuff you write but no matter. I did not think you rude. You only write your opinion and you should. I do not think you have reason to apologize to anyone. Is your opinion. You were ganged on so you get uppady, so what? It is just forum. Have fun and do not worry. I like people with opinions and not afraid to say them. Having read that, I like the way you think.

Politesub53 -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (2/1/2009 4:00:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss I don't think stress counts as a mental illness, at least not a permanent one you need medical care for. And I am talking about permanent ones you need cousnoling for and pills and it's a life long issue, when I talk about mental illnesses not being caused by society. Even the experts dont agree on the main cause of mental illness. Your comment show you dont know anyone who has suffered from PTSD and other forms of stress related problems. I agree there are many that do have a chemical inbalance causing their problems, but to be as dismissive as you were about stress is just incorrect.

Nikitaa -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (2/1/2009 5:43:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LunaVenus Lockit, again I am very sorry if anyone took my opinions to be applied to them. . I still believe everything I said.but I wasn't even thinking of anyone here when I shared my general views. (maybe with the ping pong paddle...yes) And I dont think any view is superior or inferior or inflamatory...just each person's individual way of thinking. I enjoy diversity of thought....Some people obviously don't. "maybe with the ping pong paddle...yes" You make joke about my ping pong paddles? How you dare make joke of Nikita? Watch behind your back. I will get you my pretty. <----Joke, see, I know some cultural references. I watched wizard of oz while I was in Poland. edit....I forgot, and your little dog too. (if you not have dog then I get one of your slaves.)

thetammyjo -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (2/1/2009 6:26:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subsong Probably because most Dom/mes at a minimum , are seeking someone to interact with on an erotic level - they're not seeking an adult they have to fully support . Ugh. Was this directed at a comment I made or just a general comment? I'm assuming general since in my first reply on this thread I talked about how I believe slaves should not be financial burdens to their owners but that's it.

thetammyjo -> RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "financially successful"? (2/1/2009 6:34:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA Males traditionally get women through achievement. Men know their mating chances and opportunity to spread their genes increase through being resourceful, strongest, and even being the richest. If males want to be given the opportunity to spread their genes, they have to know they need to signal to women that their genes were the fittest and that they would be the best providers. This actually hit a thought that has been in my mind for some time. If we look at other animals and compare what the male and female does, I see the male is far more active in attracting and keeping a mate. By nature the male is more colorful, has more decorations and goes through a lot of actions to attract the female who simply is. It seems like we as humans have keep some of this -- the idea that men need to be good providers is indeed very common in human history -- but coupled that with this weird notion that women put on clothes and decorations to attract a mate. I'm not saying that is right or wrong just that is seems very odd to me at some level.

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