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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 10:49:01 AM   
opposingtwilight


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Status: offline 		Um, perhaps if you're losing so much money, you should try another career path? I mean, I understand making an investment and all but at some point, the general idea is to turn a profit.

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 10:51:09 AM   
opposingtwilight


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ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

Uh maybe with some...but again... I don't have sex with slaves.  I am a Domme not a whore. Maybe you want a slave for sex, but I am a pure Domme. 


Pure Domme or Half & Half, I really don't care.

If you read the whole post, you'll see where I mention that "sex" is not JUST intercourse. And ah, I don't have slaves .... So ... Yeah. Tone down the bitchiness, k? Not my fault you can't make a buck.


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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 10:54:11 AM   
Lockit


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ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

I am not  a gold digger.. I don't make anything! To the contrary I have LOST thousands of dollars in supplies and maintenance. I don't ask much....just help ofsetting my expenses.  Nothing in life is free. If I give EVERYTHING and my slaves expect to give nothing....something is very wrong.. and they are users. I am not made of money either. It must be Equal give and Equal take...I am not into being used.

These days people want everything and want to give nothing in return. That won't work....Or else you can deal with substandard Dommes. Now my slaves don't need to be wealthy. NO .... just  put as much into the situation as they can and  help in whatever way they can...Maybe they can help me build something, help to maintain things, or help with something! It is not about me Giving giving giving...It is a mutual relationship at best.


So anyone not like you in spending so much money because they expect it and it is your standard is a substandard domme?  LOL... you are really funny!  You need the image to impress the submissive's because of their expectations... put far too much into material things and appearances in your dominant self and call the rest substandard... ROFL...

I may not be dressed to expectation... I might not be EVERY submissive's dream... but at least I am not clueless and don't need to present myself.  I just am.  Substandard my ass! lol

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 10:57:01 AM   
LunaVenus


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Status: offline 		You are making a lot of nasty assumptions... D/s is not my carear but rather a lifestyle. But just the same, I am not going to be used or on the losing end of the relationship. So save your nasty bull shit for someone who cares.

Again, a slave does not have to be rich but freely give and freely take. The minute a slave gives NOTHING, I can't be bothered. Because I give 100% and am not into users or supporting men.

Maybe you enjoy being used, but I do not. Any relationship must be mutual.

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 11:06:34 AM   
RedMagic1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LunaVenus
I am a Domme not a whore.

No nasty assumptions here!!!!

Plus, it's a good thing I've never told a woman who used to be a whore that I loved her.  Otherwise I'd think you were one hell of a sleazeball right now, for posting as though sex workers were pieces of shit.  Oh, wait.... That must be my low-rent, trailer-trash, half-ass, wannabe self again.  And on top of everything else, I know nothing about international-calibre performance. Only true female doms know anything about fancy performance.


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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 11:14:22 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Hey Red... wanna play wanna be in my trailer?  We can swap mobile home fixin stories and we can tie somebody to my nice bed... in my tuscan themed room and watch some porn or something... I'm sure that since we have so little we can be creative and figure out something fun to do.

(My phone is still acting up even though they came out to fix it... I guess I shouldn't have wasted his time... in our deep conversation on the ecomomy and Colorado life, education and life!  Think he would have done a better job if I was a 'real' home owner and was dressed to please?)

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 11:20:44 AM   
MISTRESSKUMA


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Males traditionally get women through achievement.

Men know their mating chances and opportunity to spread their genes increase through being resourceful, strongest, and even being the richest.

If males want to be given the opportunity to spread their genes, they have to know they need to signal to women that their genes were the fittest and that they would be the best providers.

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 11:37:35 AM   
T1981


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

Uh maybe with some...but again... I don't have sex with slaves.  I am a Domme not a whore. Maybe you want a slave for sex, but I am a pure Domme. 


Hmm....that's a new one. "Pure".  Kind of like "twue" only slightly different at the end.

Alright, so you're not having sex with them. That works - and proffesionally, it's probably the safer bet. But you are, in a sense, selling sex (at least, as another poster put it, sexuality). So it's definately part of the trade.

Otherwise, why not go into accounting or banking or something that truly doesn't involve any kind of sex/sexuality/fantasy/etc whatever?


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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 12:08:46 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		You know, LunaVenus, your post pattern isn't one of a woman who has a lot of money.  The millionaires I've dated have been pretty much unconcerned about finances.  Perhaps the millionaires you have dated behaved differently.  I've never dated a man, so I wouldn't know about that.

However, if dollars and cents are sticking in your craw that much, you might consider developing a hobby that is more within your means.


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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 12:14:12 PM   
RedMagic1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit
Hey Red... wanna play wanna be in my trailer? 

I not-lookingized myself a couple days ago, Lockit.  Sorry.  I've fallen for yet another loser... a loser with a doctorate... who has performed on stages all over the world.

Don't worry, though.  I'll be back on the market soon.  I'm going to count how many items of fetish wear she owns, and if it's not high enough, I'll break up with her.


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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 12:23:41 PM   
LunaVenus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

You know, LunaVenus, your post pattern isn't one of a woman who has a lot of money.  The millionaires I've dated have been pretty much unconcerned about finances.  Perhaps the millionaires you have dated behaved differently.  I've never dated a man, so I wouldn't know about that.

However, if dollars and cents are sticking in your craw that much, you might consider developing a hobby that is more within your means.



Thank you. Some of the men I have dated  have been very kind to me.. some have not.  In the end it is OK...even for a foreigner.... NON WHITE  like me. LOL

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 12:24:35 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL Red... I love it!  I hope you have a grand time and she spanks your ass... or something... for that clothing comment! hehe

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 12:38:52 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I don't understand what being NON WHITE has to do with anything. 

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 12:55:08 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

You know, LunaVenus, your post pattern isn't one of a woman who has a lot of money.  The millionaires I've dated have been pretty much unconcerned about finances.  Perhaps the millionaires you have dated behaved differently.  I've never dated a man, so I wouldn't know about that.

However, if dollars and cents are sticking in your craw that much, you might consider developing a hobby that is more within your means.



Thank you. Some of the men I have dated  have been very kind to me.. some have not.  In the end it is OK...even for a foreigner.... NON WHITE  like me. LOL


This confused me, after seeing your pic over here... so I perved your profile... erm. ...

quote:

Guys EXPECT you to have ALL of that Pro or Amateur.
They EXPECT you to send them good quality pictures.
They EXPECT you to look like you just stepped out of a porn movie in the photos.
They EXPECT your body to be flawless
They EXPECT you to not look a day over 21
They EXPECT you to have pretty outfits
They EXPECT you to have a fully equipped Dungeon!


This does not make sense now?

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 2:25:41 PM   
ladylucky32


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

I am not  a gold digger.. I don't make anything! To the contrary I have LOST thousands of dollars in supplies and maintenance. I don't ask much....just help ofsetting my expenses.  Nothing in life is free. If I give EVERYTHING and my slaves expect to give nothing....something is very wrong.. and they are users. I am not made of money either. It must be Equal give and Equal take...I am not into being used.

These days people want everything and want to give nothing in return. That won't work....Or else you can deal with substandard Dommes. Now my slaves don't need to be wealthy. NO .... just  put as much into the situation as they can and  help in whatever way they can...Maybe they can help me build something, help to maintain things, or help with something! It is not about me Giving giving giving...It is a mutual relationship at best.


I was talking to lobo, not you. No where in my post do I imply anything about you. Guilty conscience maybe?

But since you brought it up.

If you have lost thousands then you need to learn to take better control of your life. You might want to do this before you take control of someone elses life.

Sorry but not spending lots of money does not make you a substandard Domme, it just makes you smart and probibly a little wealthier. Just like spending a lot does not make you a good Domme. You really don't get this do you?

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 2:27:58 PM   
BondageBarbieX


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Status: offline 		Nothing wrong with stating you want someone successful..I am not a Domme but I also do not date people under a certain income level .

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 2:30:30 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		How do you check someone's income level, Barbie?  In my office, we have clients that are millionaires that buy their clothes at Walmart...  which could give some clue as to why they are millionaires!

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 2:33:46 PM   
ladylucky32


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LunaVenus

Uh maybe with some...but again... I don't have sex with slaves.  I am a Domme not a whore. Maybe you want a slave for sex, but I am a pure Domme. 


You really believe that having sex with your submissive makes you a whore? WOW, that's the first time I ever heard that one. I suppose if they were paying for it, but you keep saying your not a pro. Are you sure you do this out in the real world or are you only online? I am not being a bitch. I just don't understand how you have come up with all these ideas. One of my friends married her sub, is she still a whore or does the liscence make it ok for you? You do realize that some Dommes actually form a relationship with their subs. This is not just a stage show where you pose and look pretty and then send them home.

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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 2:44:17 PM   
LunaVenus


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RE: Why is it that most Dommes want subs that are "... - 1/31/2009 3:03:21 PM   
ladylucky32


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Status: offline 		If you post on the forums, you are going to have to expect that people will respond.

When you make statements like "Uh maybe with some...but again... I don't have sex with slaves. 
I am a Domme not a whore. Maybe you want a slave for sex, but I am a pure Domme." Then you should expect
that some of those comments won't be nice.

Welcome to the internet.

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