TranceTara
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Hi Firm, I hope you don't mind me interjecting my thoughts here. I think it was the leadership and the lack of aftercare and concern for all the soldiers who are now coming home and attempting to acclimate back into civilian life, that many of us were criticizing. In fact, I choose not to call those officers leaders at all, for, if they cannot take care of those under them they do not deserve the title. A true leader is a servant and acts with honour, dignity, respect, ethics and compassion. It does not mean he/she is a pushover, but they lead by their influence. What I see in the military (and even in the private sector) is more of an indifference to those under them. And Orion, I am sorry about your brothers. I had an uncle who was a career army man. He fought WWII, and volunteered for the Korean War and Viet Nam. I remember as a kid we were picking him up from the airport after his stay in Nam was through. He had immediately snapped at my dad and those two did not get along. What I saw was a man who acted almost robotic and spoke in a monotone. His sons never grew close to him. I remember one time he said something to the effect, "No one should have to see the things I've seen." It broke my heart. He was one of the lucky ones in that his hip replacement, and then when he got cancer, his treatment was covered by the VA. And yet, he died so lonely and broken. I never saw him really smile. Do you know what I mean? So, rather than say he was not "necessarily people," I tended to see him as a "broken" man. A man whose spirit was sucked out of him never to return. I don't want that happening to all the men and woman in Iraq and Afghanistan. I want them to be able to smile and laugh and have fun. I don't want to see them as statistics in a mental hospital nor as a suicide. They need to be given a chance and that's where the anger is. At the so-called "leaders" who won't lift a finger and the institutions that could not care less.
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“Listen, I am trying to cope with the presence of God and the Universal Human Experience, and I haven’t even had a cup of tea yet!” -French and Saunders
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