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RE: When to say goodbye. - 7/18/2008 7:06:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

It is considered better manners to begin a new thread than to pull up an ancient one here.

another comment from Leatherist.....me thinks i should sit at his feet and learn all i can :)

should i take a number?

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RE: When to say goodbye. - 7/18/2008 9:53:00 AM

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I'm an unusual sadist-in that I am trying to save you pain from others.......

But do as you see fit.

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RE: When to say goodbye. - 7/19/2008 5:57:30 PM

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"i know for me the time to say goodbye is when loving them hurts more than gives me pleasure." ditto, angelthighhighs.

i didn't know until the situation was exactly like so and i knew my place in the relationship just wasn't working out with them anymore. not only does loving them hurts me more and constantly makes me unhappy, but knowing that loving them hurts THEIR relationship too, it hurts THEM too...it's just too harsh to bear. that's when i knew it's time to break away.

as to how i told them, well, i just did. be truthful, be honest and say everything that is on your mind. most importantly, trust your feelings and know that what you are doing is the right choice!

peace out, all!

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RE: When to say goodbye. - 7/19/2008 9:29:23 PM

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When you start going in different directions and the relationship is more painful because you wanted more than the dom or domme could give you. I know that being in a relationship should not hurt and it was hard for the last ex-dom and I to break up.

However, it is better for me now and it will take awhile but I will learn to know myself better. I just don't want to be in a relationship with drama or to be with a dom who is selfish and inconsiderate.

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RE: When to say goodbye. - 7/20/2008 3:23:22 PM

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This is inresponse to lonelylittlegirl:

omg i so know exactly what your talking about. i have hung on to hope for ten months. each passing day gets harder and harder. i know i should walk away but my heart won't let me. i can't bear the thought of not being with him, but being with him is emotionally difficult.

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