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The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 9:14:02 AM   
Athenaofroyalty


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Status: offline 		Hello everyone, I was luchy enough to find a slave to my liking and after 1.5 years have him trained to my needs. I have read the blog on Hetero's forced to be Bi. I have discussed this with my pet and he aggrees that if it would make me happy, he would consent to it. I the back of my mind I wanted to make him my bitch. But because of his dominant personality. I was  reluctant. Now I am seeking advise to where I can have him trained to perform perfect oral on a male. Any classes given in Tess or etc? I would appreciate the feed back. Thanks
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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 9:31:51 AM   
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It's early, forgive me, but all I could picture were the Three Stooges.

"Slowly I turned, step by step, inch by inch."

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 9:37:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
It's early, forgive me, but all I could picture were the Three Stooges.
"Slowly I turned, step by step, inch by inch."
chia* (the pet)


*splort!* DARN! And that was a fresh cup of tea too!

OP: you might want to buy a selection of realistics, and start him on the small. There is, in my experience, no perfect oral technique for ALL men (het, bi, or homo). But you could get him used to the feel and practicing what feels good on him. There are also a few good books out there on oral techniques.

the curiosity is, well not killing me, but certainly causing mental pain.... Why do you want him to please other men?


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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 9:39:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would reccomend Not doing it. First you cant Force anyone to be bi. Even agreeing to do it by pleasing you. If they are not inclined to enjoy males, its likely to get you slaveless. Talking about doing it is ine, however in most cases many slaves do not wish to be with a memeber of the same gender if they are not inclined to enjoy members of the same gender. I would sit down and have a serious conversation with him. Ask him how he thinks this would affect him. How he feels on it. Dont mention pleasing you and let him know if he answers how he thinks you want him to answer isnt what you seek, you seek his honest opinions.

But sexuality isnt something that just changes on a whim, its not something any man or woman can make another man or woman enjoy if its just not there. However if it bothers the submissive or slave enough it will lead to them leaving in many cases because they dont feel safe with you any longer.


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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 9:41:39 AM   
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the curiosity is, well not killing me, but certainly causing mental pain.... Why do you want him to please other men?


Shh!  Don't ruin it for all of us.  ..gets in line for free oral....

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 9:53:49 AM   
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Shh!  Don't ruin it for all of us.  ..gets in line for free oral....

yours



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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 11:19:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Athenaofroyalty

Hello everyone, I was luchy enough to find a slave to my liking and after 1.5 years have him trained to my needs. I have read the blog on Hetero's forced to be Bi. I have discussed this with my pet and he aggrees that if it would make me happy, he would consent to it. I the back of my mind I wanted to make him my bitch. But because of his dominant personality. I was  reluctant. Now I am seeking advise to where I can have him trained to perform perfect oral on a male. Any classes given in Tess or etc? I would appreciate the feed back. Thanks


I kind of long for the days when "taking the final step" meant renouncing all others, not going out and finding someone new to play with.

Having said that, I would try making some contacts in your local gay scene. Gay men have serious differences of opinion on whether they care to get involved in things like this, but if you know where to look, you can probably find a nice enough guy who can be your friend and won't mind getting a few free blow jobs.

You could of course pair him with another male into forced bi, but whether they'd be able to train each other into competency is another matter. Hope that helps.

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 11:43:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am kind of with feydeplume...why would you want him to do that?  Why not have him please you with his tongue.  He can use it all over your body...

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 11:47:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Athenaofroyalty

Hello everyone, I was luchy enough to find a slave to my liking and after 1.5 years have him trained to my needs. I have read the blog on Hetero's forced to be Bi. I have discussed this with my pet and he aggrees that if it would make me happy, he would consent to it. I the back of my mind I wanted to make him my bitch. But because of his dominant personality. I was  reluctant. Now I am seeking advise to where I can have him trained to perform perfect oral on a male. Any classes given in Tess or etc? I would appreciate the feed back. Thanks


lol, hahahaha
We have a 30 page thread on hetero's being forced to suck cocks.
How did you miss it?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1917692/tm.htm

Enjoy! This thread will live forever.



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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 11:51:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I was sooo not going to mention that thread and feed the (possible) troll. I don't *think* we need two of them.

It's like encouraging the "what is the difference between a slave and a bottom" thread.


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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 12:04:59 PM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: feydeplume

I was sooo not going to mention that thread and feed the (possible) troll. I don't *think* we need two of them.

It's like encouraging the "what is the difference between a slave and a bottom" thread.



...poking deplume with my finger....
maybe this thread will go 30 pages!
-----------------> runs away quickly and hides!

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 1:01:21 PM   
welcomerain


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It's like encouraging the "what is the difference between a slave and a bottom" thread.


Well, I would describe a "bottom" as someone who enjoys being tied up or spanked for its own sake, while a "slave" is more interested in the power dyna....

What?

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 1:02:28 PM   
feydeplume


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Status: offline 		But can't a slave also bottom when....  drat now you got me doing it!

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:03:37 PM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		I note several people jumping on the 'turning him bi' thing.. it doesn't say that to me... I saw that she wants hm to perform perfect oral on a male -- funnily enough, I don't see that turning him bi... (see that long thread)  ... and why would she want to do it?  well, cause she can.. and he might be doing it simply because she's his dominant and she wants it...

in the end, I'm baffled by many responses... and she said she read the 'blog' about it... so I figured she meant the thread...

to the OP... knowing gay men the way I do, I'd not bother with them... I'd also suggest if you want to know if TES is going to give cock sucking lessons, check their website...

hire someone to teach him...

< Message edited by Madame4a -- 2/1/2009 2:04:35 PM >

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:11:32 PM   
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I note several people jumping on the 'turning him bi' thing.. it doesn't say that to me... I saw that she wants hm to perform perfect oral on a male -- funnily enough, I don't see that turning him bi... (see that long thread)  ... and why would she want to do it?  well, cause she can.. and he might be doing it simply because she's his dominant and she wants it...

in the end, I'm baffled by many responses


You and me both. I agree completely with the above, and find it odd that others don't get it at all.

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:28:54 PM   
welcomerain


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I note several people jumping on the 'turning him bi' thing.. it doesn't say that to me... I saw that she wants hm to perform perfect oral on a male -- funnily enough, I don't see that turning him bi...


That might be my fault. I was trying to suggest ways to find men interested in this sort of arrangement, so my first suggestion is to find someone openly looking for other men and the second was to try finding another submissive specifically looking to be part of this dynamic.

The words in my first post are a little sloppy. Sorry.


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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:32:55 PM   
feydeplume


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Status: offline 		My question of why is a serious one. I couldn't stomach a lot of that thread so i stopped reading it before I read anything that helped me understand the power of seeing a man suck off another man if man A doesn't show signs of pleasure about the act. Is it his lack of pleasure, the beauty of two men together, the power of giving pleasure to man B, the control over the situation, the sounds and sensations? I am honestly curious and I am intimidated and sickened by some of what was in that thread (there was a lot of anger and sexual orientation bashing going on).

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:33:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		my mistress trained me first on how to suck cock with her strapons ...once she thought i was ready thats when she introduced me to the real thing ....first time was with a white man and the second time was with a black male because i told her once how i have never had sex with a black woman before and she wanted to test my limits  both had nice dicks indeed and with her there directing the action it seemed so natural to do so ...she told me once  our clothes hit the floor thats where the inhibitions should go to  see she likes seeing 2 men together ...and once i got them hard they both fucked my ass too  with me blindfolded first she would fuck my ass then she wanted to see if i could tell the difference between the real thing and her strapons ...must say the real thing felt better indeed  both men had nice cocks indeed but yes the black guy was larger 9 in i do belive and yes it felt good ...that was 2 years ago and we have not done it since even though we have talked about it lately ...would i do it again for her ? yes ..she really enjoyed it ..it seemed so natural to do so but since then i have no interest in being with a male unless she is there and wants me to do it again ...ahhh the things us sub males do for our mistresses  have fun mal

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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:37:56 PM   
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RE: The final step for my slave - 2/1/2009 2:43:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Madame4a

I note several people jumping on the 'turning him bi' thing.. it doesn't say that to me... I saw that she wants hm to perform perfect oral on a male -- funnily enough, I don't see that turning him bi... (see that long thread)  ... and why would she want to do it?  well, cause she can.. and he might be doing it simply because she's his dominant and she wants it...



i like ur response...it got the topic back on track.

Athenaofroyalty...
my thoughts of training would be another sub (playmate/pet); but then again, that may take time to connect and build a level of trust with another. i venture to say a cuckold situation, w/ someone u know and r close to...but then again, how keen would they be about training ur slave in that manner?



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