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RE: This scares me. - 2/10/2009 5:21:57 PM

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well....You've learned a hard lession..just don't let it harden your heart...just move on..and have fun...lifes about making choices..and sometimes learn it the hard way..but never let it keep you down for very long..and good luck at whatever collage gets you as a student....Huntertn

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RE: This scares me. - 2/10/2009 5:47:52 PM

Zechriel

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he wanted me back because he said i was the BEST sub he's ever had...

Good evening,
Well yeah you're the best sub he's ever had...you put up with his lies, his temper and his bull. Why WOULDN'T he want you back? You keep running back to him for "one more chance". Walk away with your head held high and be more careful next time. Slow, slow, slow, no commitments need to be given overnight or even a month from when you first say hello.
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RE: This scares me. - 2/12/2009 11:34:16 PM

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he wanted me back because he said i was the BEST sub he's ever had...

you are likely the ONLY sub he ever had. geez louise.

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RE: This scares me. - 2/13/2009 12:15:19 AM

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Taking over the soapbox.

OK, no one else mentioned this, but I'm going to bring it up. This man has a sexual relationship with his high school student, gives her a poor grade for breaking up with him, and the schools administration is ok with this? How many other young, easily manipulated girls has he/will he do this to? Sure, she's 18, but holy shit! If my 18-year old had been screwing one of her teachers, he would find himself unemployed or the school would be facing a lawsuit.

Girly, it sucks that this had to happen to you so young, but in many ways it's good that it did. You know now what to look for, and what warning signs to be aware of before you commit yourself. You've learned a lesson about sleeping with the people you have to do business with, about allowing yourself to be rushed into a relationship, and what it feels like to be under someone elses heel. Crappy as this experience is, there's a whole shitload of value in the lessons you learned here. Take them to heart, and it's not a complete waste of your time and tears.

In the meantime, wise up. You're smart enough to do so well in school, sure, but that's all book learning. Making good decisions means getting your head out of a book. You seem like you're taking responsibility. Nicely done.

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RE: This scares me. - 2/13/2009 12:33:19 AM

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And tbh, i don't think he's a dom..i think he's an abusive freak

Have we ever experienced something like this? I guess we all go through the stage of picking the wrong person, not trusting our feelings, listening to the words, rather than our gut. And going back for more is an unfortunately pretty normal abuse/abuser pattern. If you habitually make wrong choices, you need to figure out why. And if you never did this before, just put a note to self on your mirror: if it smells like a rat, and it squeaks like a rat, it's a.... When you're young, there's experimenting and learning to live, and there is being stupid. I think this tilts towards stupid.

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RE: This scares me. - 2/13/2009 4:36:09 PM

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I'm going to point out a few obvious things here. 1. Pissdoll is right. If you're in AP classes you're in high school. 2. You said you got D in a class because the guy is a teacher. If this is the case He is using a position of authority to try to control you, and he could lose his job. I will guarantee the school board has rules about sleeping with students, age of consent, or not. You calmly explain that if he doesn't stop you will report him to the school board. That is where you print off copies of conversations and use them. As a matter of fact he should be reported to prevent this from happening again. The man is not a Dominant. He's a misogynistic jerk, and he's breaking the law.

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