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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/2/2007 5:08:31 PM   
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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/2/2007 5:32:19 PM   
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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/2/2007 5:45:59 PM   
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Hmmmm So I've only imagined all the lovely young ladys I've met in person from here and the other main site I use when I was searching? Maybe My last girl was a figment of My imagination and I was too careful to actualy meet her and have her in My collar for 6 months? And My current girl, well OK she is certainly My dream girl in a number of respects (A ngihtmare in some others, like why oh why did I have to find My perfect girl 400 bloody miles away!!! *Chuckle*) and I first spotted her here on CM (Though finaly made contact elsewhere) but no, I assure you she is quite quite real :)

So no, not everyone is being too careful..... Mind you, the one thing I've never done is use the chat program here. Don't like it, won't use it.... but meet folks, yep, done that a fair bit.


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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/2/2007 5:47:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The old thread coming back to life was My fault.  Somehow, I accidentally clicked fast forward onto several past pages and found this one.  My mistake, folks.  Move along, there's nothing to see here.


LOL and caught Me out as someone who NEVER thinks to check the date on the OP when I glance at a thread! C'est la vie


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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/2/2007 5:48:57 PM   
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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/2/2007 10:41:25 PM   
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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:02:09 AM   
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I don't know about anyone here, or how everyone is going about finding a partner for BDSM or D/s relationships here.


The people at this website are just a bunch of chatters. The one thing they are good at is finding dozens of reasons why you aren't good enough for them. Perhaps we need a new term, such as "internet bdsm".

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:05:00 AM   
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The people at this website are just a bunch of chatters. The one thing they are good at is finding dozens of reasons why you aren't good enough for them. Perhaps we need a new term, such as "internet bdsm".


Yeah, because it wouldn't have anything to do with your being married or anything that you might be having problems finding a Domme.


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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:13:18 AM   
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Yeah, because it wouldn't have anything to do with your being married or anything that you might be having problems finding a Domme.


Obviously being married is a big problem for the prudish people on collarme. I suspect single guys do a little better, but probably only if they are young.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:22:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

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The people at this website are just a bunch of chatters. The one thing they are good at is finding dozens of reasons why you aren't good enough for them. Perhaps we need a new term, such as "internet bdsm".


Yeah, because it wouldn't have anything to do with your being married or anything that you might be having problems finding a Domme.



SD, You beat Me to it.  I accidentally closed the box before I could get the comment out.  Actually, I was just thinking about that thread "Do married guys have much luck here".  The reason for that was it was one of the longest (to My memory) chimed in on threads that I've seen here.  The reason I was thinking of the comparison was that I wanted to know the actual record of community posts where the originator had offended so many.  (There's another thread of a 20 yr old <insert explative here> who might be able to claim the title.)



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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:27:39 AM   
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The reason I was thinking of the comparison was that I wanted to know the actual record of community posts where the originator had offended so many.


OK, now that you mention it -- I think people here are offended way too easy. Sometimes I think this place is a secret hangout for Bible thumpers.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:47:01 AM   
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Obviously being married is a big problem for the prudish people on collarme. I suspect single guys do a little better, but probably only if they are young.


Prudish..oh now that's just precious. Believe it or not even BDSMers have morals. Seeing a sub that is has a wife that isn't aware he's seeing a Domme is just a no go on my list. Some of us are looking for someone that can devote themselves to us full time. Not just submission when convenient to them. Best of luck to you though, there's someone out there for everyone and Dommes that are looking for p/t service.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:50:48 AM   
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SD, You beat Me to it.  I accidentally closed the box before I could get the comment out.  Actually, I was just thinking about that thread "Do married guys have much luck here".  The reason for that was it was one of the longest (to My memory) chimed in on threads that I've seen here.  The reason I was thinking of the comparison was that I wanted to know the actual record of community posts where the originator had offended so many.  (There's another thread of a 20 yr old <insert explative here> who might be able to claim the title.)

 
Oh yeah, I remember that thread well. Not like any prospective Domme won't look at his previous posts to get an idea of who he is and come across that little jewel of a thread right? As for the youngin' in the Dominants all the time (or whatever it is) thread...you just have to shake your head and wonder where he'll be in 20 years.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 1:04:07 AM   
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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 2:34:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not prudish by far, however I am not interested in people lying to their partner, cheating sneaking around, or shareing what is essentially or should be all mine.  I will not stand for someone being all like oh sorry wife's home can't talk when I wish to talk. A submissive will be  availible, mostly on my schedual  not  when evwer he can get away from the wife. Other obligations like work are understandable, having to wait till you can duck your wife isn;t
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

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Yeah, because it wouldn't have anything to do with your being married or anything that you might be having problems finding a Domme.


Obviously being married is a big problem for the prudish people on collarme. I suspect single guys do a little better, but probably only if they are young.



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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 4:30:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

quote:

Yeah, because it wouldn't have anything to do with your being married or anything that you might be having problems finding a Domme.


Obviously being married is a big problem for the prudish people on collarme. I suspect single guys do a little better, but probably only if they are young.



I'm not THAT much younger than you, however I do possess decent social skills and don't present such a negative, petulant, childish attitude.... just maybe thats the bigger diffrence?

And WTF? Case in point, just because someone doesn't want to have anything to do with a married man doesn't in any way make them prudish. Just because they won't roll over and do what you want no need to throw your teddy out of the pram!


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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 7:46:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		WOW!  This thread split off into many different directions in a hurry!  Anyway, I started lurking here for a long time before i actually had the nerve to post something.  Didn't want to come across as stupid!  The boards have opened my "eyes" to the lifestyle, as i am still a relative newbie, albiet now an owned newbie (YAY ME!)  The boards have been a great place to learn, to observe, to "meet" people and get their insight on all sorts of issues, and the best part, to laugh my ass off!  One of the most important lessons learned...leave the pepsi on the kitchen table!

To the OP, nothing else to really be said that hasn't been said before.....post a profile where it belongs, use a little common sense on the boards, follow the rules for posting, and you will find you will be more favorably received by the folks here.  Make the effort on YOUR end to meet people....this isn't a one way street.  There are great people out there, go to them, don't wait for them to come to you!

azjojoba, the whole married and looking issue is something that you will find will turn off lots of people.  Cheating is cheating, once you are in any kind of a committed relationship, looking for something outside of it is not a viable option.  Too many times people have said that it's not a problem with the other spouse, but i've never bought into that thoery.  i've seen to many people hurt by the selfishness of the other partner.  As far as people here being prudish......yeah, ri-i-i-i-i-i-ght!  Having personal standards and morals does not make one a prude.

just my .02

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 7:58:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have met any number of rather delicious women from this site, I have bedded a few, chatted with others, pissed at least one off, and fell in love with another.

So far it is working fine.

Now if somebody was going to bitch, I REALLY have to complain about the number of mother-daughter teams and the complete lack of incestuous bisexual twin sisters who long to be sex slaves. 

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 12:17:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

quote:

The reason I was thinking of the comparison was that I wanted to know the actual record of community posts where the originator had offended so many.


OK, now that you mention it -- I think people here are offended way too easy. Sometimes I think this place is a secret hangout for Bible thumpers.



I suggest you ask for a refund for your membership fees and go to another site then :-)

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 2:09:42 PM   
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quote:

I'm not THAT much younger than you, however I do possess decent social skills and don't present such a negative, petulant, childish attitude.... just maybe thats the bigger diffrence?

And WTF? Case in point, just because someone doesn't want to have anything to do with a married man doesn't in any way make them prudish. Just because they won't roll over and do what you want no need to throw your teddy out of the pram!


Thanks RavenMuse. Many tried to explain that to him on a previous thread of his but it simply never seemed to get through to him.


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