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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 2:48:56 PM

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The reason I was thinking of the comparison was that I wanted to know the actual record of community posts where the originator had offended so many.

OK, now that you mention it -- I think people here are offended way too easy. Sometimes I think this place is a secret hangout for Bible thumpers.

ROFL!!!!!!! Not hardly!! But whatever makes you feel comfortable!!

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/3/2007 9:59:37 PM

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Yeah, because it wouldn't have anything to do with your being married or anything that you might be having problems finding a Domme.

Obviously being married is a big problem for the prudish people on collarme. I suspect single guys do a little better, but probably only if they are young.

Dang, and I already gave out My "Best Joke of the Day Award"!

Now that I'm done laughing and can see My keyboard again........

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I think I mentioned this on the other thread, but if it got missed the first time, let Me make the point again. Yes, I'm married, but guess who is sitting right beside Me while I'm typing this post? That's right..... My husband. In other words, no sneaking around, no lying, no hiding, no doing anything that he doesn't know about. (Ok, he doesn't read ALL of the things I post, but that's because I make too many of them.)

There is a huge difference in people deciding what is right for them and making that decision for someone else because their partner isn't being honest with them. For Me, this lifestyle has a huge basis in trust and respect. I don't see Myself being worthy of those things if I don't have integrity within My marriage. That is My personal opinion only.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/4/2007 2:08:16 PM

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For Me, this lifestyle has a huge basis in trust and respect. I don't see Myself being worthy of those things if I don't have integrity within My marriage. That is My personal opinion only.

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Oh, I now see you have excellent qualifications to condemn everyone that doesn't conform to your narrow vision of the world. You are happy with your life, so you think everyone should be just like you. What a typical narcissist! I expected to see less of this at a website devoted to alternative lifestyles but instead have seen even more of it. Weird, huh?

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/4/2007 4:59:40 PM

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For Me, this lifestyle has a huge basis in trust and respect. I don't see Myself being worthy of those things if I don't have integrity within My marriage. That is My personal opinion only.

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Oh, I now see you have excellent qualifications to condemn everyone that doesn't conform to your narrow vision of the world. You are happy with your life, so you think everyone should be just like you. What a typical narcissist! I expected to see less of this at a website devoted to alternative lifestyles but instead have seen even more of it. Weird, huh?

So, what you are saying is that you are happy with the lying and the cheating? I didn't realize that a value of honesty was a narrow vision, but I'll take your word for that. Let Me rephrase that.... I probably wouldn't, because I do put a value on actions in relation to a person's character. Dishonesty in one area doesn't speak well for honesty in other areas. It's like the famous quote.... Intergrity isn't something you have some of the time, or even most of the time..... You either have it or you don't.

You were kind enough to specifically quote Me in saying that the above was only My opinion (though it does seem to be a popular one). Opinions are something you are going to run into on any public site. Just because it is an alternative lifestyle site doesn't mean that all of the members are going to embrace anything you chose to do with open arms, especially if you are hurting non-consentual people. Some of U/us tend to frown on that. The fact that I voice it shouldn't matter to you in the least, since you have such courage of your convictions.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/4/2007 8:09:40 PM

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Goodness gracious no! I am on this site to chat and talk about BDSM and to learn new things, not to meet a Dominant.
Meeting people online for BDSM is not something that appeals to me in the least.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/4/2007 8:22:40 PM

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The primary purpose for me on this and other sites like it, is to meet people face to face. I have meet the majority of my girls on this site, a few on all the other sites and via networking.
The BDSM sites do provide a good starting point and social gathering place for like minded people. I do thank sites like this for providing a place to search out girls, learn and also share knowledge.

THANK YOU COLLARME !!

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/4/2007 10:28:35 PM

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I've gotten to know lots of nice people from here and even own a few good slaves now. I'm sure if you post a good profile and keep posting on these forums you'll eventually meet many people too. Never give up on your fantasies, goals, and dreams.

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RE: FInding Partners? - 5/6/2007 6:18:58 AM

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finding partners in this day and age can be tough, with everything going on and the world as busy as it is ,
taht is why we posted an ad ,, now we come in to the forums to discuss and learn from others

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