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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Change your username.  Now please understand: people who lives in trailer parks have literally saved my ass.  To call them "friends" is an understatement.  But.  Lots of people equate living in a trailer with being incompetent.  There's no reason to have that working against you from jump.

Lead with strengths.  SevenYearDungeonMaster is a better username than what you currently have.  It's probably too long, but I hope you get the point.

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ORIGINAL: TrailerParkDom
I see your point but

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Perhaps they equate trailer parks with people with unintelligence, or uneducated.

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ORIGINAL: trueshadow

Even if a woman is torturing your balls, whipping your cock, ordering you to clean her toilet, she is still a girl how looks for Prince Charming to ride in on his white horse and rescue the damsel in distress.  I personally believe female supremacy is an acquired, rather than innate, trait.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: TrailerParkDom
I see your point but

This is your issue, right here.  You see the point, but will not do anything about it. 

Dominance includes the ability to take control of a situation, and change it to your advantage.  I have not viewed your profile, but if it is as pinkwind describes, then my guess is that you are disheartened about things that have nothing to do with BDSM, and it is showing up when you hit on potential subs.  Deal with whatever has you down in the mouth, and your sex life will improve, by magic.

For what it's worth, almost all the women I've played with off CM or Alt make more money than I do.  I've spent much of my life as a community organizer in housing projects and trailer parks.  I'm doing something else now, but I have very few material possessions.  Women seem to like me anyway, because I am enthusiastic, and I genuinely care about them.  Those two things matter more than owning a gold-plated paddle.

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ORIGINAL: catize

Learn to accept that it does matter to some people, and cross them off your list.

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ORIGINAL: chainedgirl

TPD, OK bottom line, you are trying to deal with psychology as if it is reason.

Many women do want the guy to be more wealthy and charming than they are, it adds to the allure of his 'power' in her mind.  And when it comes to getting together just for a casual play session, they want the fantasy.  Seeking someone for a D/s relationship is different, sure they want the fantasy, but many women would rather have reality.  When looking for a casual play, you want to get away from reality.

You say you are a Dom (not meant to be an insult or accusation).  Then its in your power to change things.  Think about what you do want and write your profile to that.  If you are seeking casual play, then how important is it to be up front from the get-go about your life?  I'm not saying lie to anyone.  I'm simply saying give the best impression of yourself a chance and then when contact is made and questions asked, you can give honest answers, but getting to that first response is key.

So change the user name.  Change your profile.  You don't have to go into details, simply state what you seek in a positive way.  You can say 'I'm married and the wife knows' or you can say 'Not seeking 24/7 or commitment'.  Essentially its the same thing, just the wording is different.

Pretty much the advice you've already been given.  It really is up to you.  If you do genuinely seek subs to play with, then is it really asking that much to tweak your profile?

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ORIGINAL: rubberpet

I tend to agree with the people here.  For whatever reason, your collarme ID seems to be the initial intro that potential playmates see.  I know if I were looking for a domme strictly for play sessions, chances are I'd be initially interested in those with sexy sounding ID's (eg. - TrappedNMyWeb) instead of something with negative connotations (eg - moneydomme4u).  In fact, my domme told me the only reason she even considered giving me a shot and read my intro letter was because she was intrigued with my nick.  She loves the rubber fetish, so she was curious as to what a "rubberpet" was.  Chances are if my ID was "oralslave2serve" or "clitcommander", she wouldn't have even read my letter.
 
People don't have much of a way to get to know someone on here initially other than a nick, picture, and a profile.  The nick and profile are ways to show your creativity, and the picture is to see if there is any attraction.  Some people only play with "pretty" or "gorgeous" ones and their level of experience doesn't matter so much.  Others don't really care about the looks as long as there is a chemistry and the top knows what he/she is doing.
 
I say change your ID and speak more about your experience and what you're interested in.  Show your creative side.  Do something to stand out instead of making fun of your appearance and where you live.  Make it short and simple, but still detailed a bit.  If it's strictly for play, then all the excess descriptions aren't really needed.
 
Just my thoughts....
 
Best of luck to you in your search.

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ORIGINAL: pinkwind

TPD, you have a nickname that carries it's own connotations, and in your long profile go so far as to describe yourself as poor white trailer trash which would serve to compound things in some people's eyes. That and you are married, and even say that your wife is willing to meet and join in.

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ORIGINAL: pinkwind
Just in the first paragraph or two you have almost damned yourself, not because you are an experienced, down to earth man, but that you talk yourself down, and have a wife.

Sorry to say, the latter would be the bigger barrier than the former.

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ORIGINAL: pinkwind
Maybe you could look at your profile and maybe turn it on it's head, mentioning your experiences and such first, gain the readers interest before you mention what could be a turn off.

Just a thought.