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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 5:32:14 PM

natasha66

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He was a chicken-shitted ass. Move on.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 5:52:19 PM

themischievous1

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ORIGINAL: tracksofmytears

My ID on here used to be DirtyLittleSecrt. I was talking to a man on here that I was really, really falling for. We were going to meet on V-day. Then a few days before, he writes me some nasty notes, saying that he received a bulk mailing about a munch a Master in michigan was trying to start, and he named me as his new collared slave. I was crushed and hurt. He would not listen to me, other than these awful, awful text messages and notes that I was a fake and a player and a liar. I;m still not totally over that one.....especially because he would not talk to me about it at all!

I changed my ID to TracksOfMyTears, because thats the way I have been feeling. Another Master wrote me that he received a bulk mailing on a munch, again naming me as a collared slave to this man. No one will tell me who this Master is that keeps doing this to me. Perhaps at some point I didn't give him the time of day? Or perhaps it is not even a Master at all? But I don't know what to do anymore.

What a wonderful way to weed through those who are not domworthy, who are potentially bunny boiler nutcases themselves! If they believe the words of some "master" they haven't even met, who they don't even know, over you??? Sheesh, consider yourself lucky that fate appears to have kept you from becoming involved with these men.

The kind of man that is a dominant worth knowing is one who is focused on and believes in YOU. He isn't deterred by stupid high school antics or the gossip of others.

Have faith in yourself and in what you can control. These outside happenings aren't even worth losing a second's worth of sleep over and shouldn't be to one who counts either.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 6:17:20 PM

antipode

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You've been hurt emotionally, you've been hurt physically, you say in your profile... I think you are probably overdoing the risktaking, if not making yourself this vulnerable. Figure out what you are doing wrong. Even if it is all their fault, you pick them.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 6:29:24 PM

Jeptha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

Okay....first thing you have to do is stop thinking of these men as "Masters". ... No one intelligent and legitimate would treat you like this. A decent person would have talked to you about the incident like an adult ....Frankly "nasty texts" sounds so high schoolish, that I wouldn't be surprised to find that that's exactly what he was, some kid.

...I'm not saying to get offline...completely...but don't automatically fall for every word you read in a chat box, even though they're words you want to hear. ... Don't fall for anyone until you are certain they are someone who is really a decent person, and I'll venture that at least 2/3 of the so-called "Masters" in here are nothing but dirtbags. Maybe a little less.....but not much

Get over it, because there wasn't anything real there to begin with, only what you concocted in your mind based on his pretty words. Move on.

windchymes, as usual, hits it out of the park. (-Why do I use so many baseball metaphors? I don't even like baseball.)
Sorry you're hurt, OP - but the idea of the "Master" sending angry little text messages as fast as he can tippy-tap them out is actually so absurd as to be slightly comical.
Again, no disrespect intended. Sorry you're hurting.
But the points windchymes makes above should probably be part of a standard disclaimer handed out to all new members of this site.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 9:41:57 PM

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I would have expected this type of post from a teenager, not some 40 something girl. To put your trust into someone you have never met. Whine about it and ppl giving sympthy. Ppl lie all the time ..hell I may have even told a lie or to to get laid. But that's another story.

Uh grow up and move on. BadOne

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 11:12:55 PM

allthatjaz

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Actually SM... regardless of age we are all capable of being vulnerable from time to time.
I would of expected this sort of comment from an inconsiderate teenager but heh there ya go

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/17/2009 11:45:03 PM

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Maybe it's a Michigan thing since SB is from Michigan as well.

I view it as giving someone compassion. And, any of us can have something triggered by an experience. I've seen it happen to men. It's not a weakness, it's called vulnerability and we all have the capacity to be vulnerable; Mistress, Master, slave, submissive, switch. And, we all deserve compassion and respect. Who knows what transpired in the communication? It could have been quite intense. To discount one's feelings is a red flag to me. To hint at lying to get sex is another red flag.

Sláinte,
TT

Edited to add I just read SB's sig. That explains it. I get where you are coming from. Just different views.

< Message edited by TranceTara -- 2/17/2009 11:47:23 PM >

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 12:22:05 PM

SailingBum

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I have zero patience for ppl that know better than to get tangled up with someone they never met and do it anyway. And then complain how it didn't work out this is a no shit sherlock moment.

BadOne

Edit to respond to trance. I am just positive you have nevertold a lil white lied before

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 12:49:21 PM

came4U

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I'd never change my name to hide from some dude who is all about the drama...or any dude for that matter.

You should have stood your ground and wait for him to disappear n get a new name.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 1:33:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TranceTara
Maybe it's a Michigan thing since SB is from Michigan as well.

HEY!!! We Michigan people are special. Can you show somebody where you live just by pointing to your left hand?

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 3:33:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

quote:

ORIGINAL: TranceTara
Maybe it's a Michigan thing since SB is from Michigan as well.

HEY!!! We Michigan people are special. Can you show somebody where you live just by pointing to your left hand?

And where else does Hell freeze over every year?

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 3:53:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG

And where else does Hell freeze over every year?

Norway, but that is just down the road from Howell.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hell,_Norway

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 4:01:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG

And where else does Hell freeze over every year?

Norway, but that is just down the road from Howell.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hell,_Norway

I don't think it counts when it's an accidential naming due to translation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hell,_Michigan

ETA: and I'd say we are the total package since we have Climax and 69

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/18/2009 5:07:56 PM

SailingBum

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I blame my attitude on the water

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/19/2009 3:36:12 AM

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I would not waste my time on him,he seems immature...he should at least have the decency to tell you who is claiming you in the mailings.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/20/2009 12:27:52 AM

badlilthang

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wades in through x feet of snow....i live in Norway - it has not frozen over solid just yet....but wow - is it snowing....shoveling is good exercise.

...and OP - same mails from "two different men" - i don't think so. This is the same guy, just out to create waves. i'd go back to the original name - post about this little incident in your journal or profile - say it is a figment of his imagination - you do not care - he is not worth the time of day - move on - and just chalk it up to experience...s...there are good Ones out there...s...

edited for bad spelling - not sure it helped..

< Message edited by badlilthang -- 2/20/2009 12:28:37 AM >

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/20/2009 9:13:02 PM

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for someone to change his name is not that he dissapers it just starts another episode of the same drama unfortunatley

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 8:30:04 AM

OsideGirl

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So let me get this straight:

You're crying over a man you've never met believing an email from a man he's never met?

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 11:34:29 AM

downkitty

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom
HEY!!! We Michigan people are special. Can you show somebody where you live just by pointing to your left hand?

If you're from Louisiana, you can. ;)

Respectfully,

amy

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 11:45:56 AM

FullfigRIMAAM1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom
Something smells funny here. A real Dom would not go nuts on you like that without at least giving you a chance to either explain yourself or deny that you knew the other fellow. I would ask to see a copy of the broadcast e-mail and get to the bottom of this.

I agree something is fishy... Sounds like someone who was playing an online relationship, than needed to make up a reason to back out, without telling the truth (like married). M

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