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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 11:54:03 AM

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FR: I think most of the advice given to the OP is dead on, both in terms of suggesting she not vest too much in an online communication and in terms of telling her to scratch the "asshat" off and move on. SB, did someone pee in your oatmeal? Blaming the O.P. and calling her immature? WTF, as the vaunted "teen ager" might say.

But I digress. I wanted to add that this sort of online snarky behavior isn't limited to so-called Dominant men, either. Recently my little girl received an email from a woman on CM claiming to have received a note from me. I have never written to this person, and do not "know" them in any way. The counterfeit note borrowed from my profile. In the note I supposedly made inquiries as to the "sub's" availability and disparaged my girl. I have at times written hello notes to people on CM; I have NEVER disparaged my little one. Fortunately our bond is strong enough that my girl brought it to me curiously but not upset, and we trashed it. Confirming two things: on the Internet, with anonymity, people will do anything and asshats come in all genders.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 2:37:29 PM

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tracksofmytears, You said it all below. He is insecure . I had something sort of similar happen to me a long while ago. My Master(then) believed his ex slave when she said that I had said this and done that. At first he wouldn't tell me who had said this about me , he said it didn't matter and that I had said those things and done other things. Being still rather naive I took the punishment he dished out but we were never the same after that. I see now that he wasn't really a Master or my Master , that he had his insecurities too.
If they believe others , seemingly blindly, over you. Not allowing you to even try to defend yourself , then are these "Masters" really what we are looking for and need? :)
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Thank you for the advice! I totally agree that if he believed some unknown Master's word over my own, he must be terribly insecure and that in the future I would always be having to prove my innocence to him over his insecurities. I just wish it hadn't said in my "birthday, stars, and numbers" book that we were supposed to be soul mates......I threw the book away! LOL

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 2:39:09 PM

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Didn't you just do this with another username??
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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 2:47:27 PM

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Excuse me . But no I didn't just do this with another user name. I only have this user name. Thank you

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/21/2009 2:53:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Antheia

Excuse me . But no I didn't just do this with another user name. I only have this user name. Thank you

The question was directed to the OP. ~~~~ sorry you took it personally.
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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/22/2009 8:20:02 PM

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I have found that those in this lifestyle are very passionate people. There are a lot of trust issues both on the Dom and the sub side. So, to me, it means this particular Dom was and probably is emotionally invested in you. that is why he reacted so badly. Hurt and anger took over his better senses and he retaliated defending his Dom-hood. I by no stretch of the imagination condone him repeatedly texting you nasty things. That was childish and we have all been that way at one time or another. I am just offering my take on the situation.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/23/2009 1:55:06 AM

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Unfortunately, shit happens. It shouldn't, but it does. If I had a penny for every lie that was told about me on line, I'd be rich. Good thing is, I don't care. If someone wants to believe a lie about me, let them, I figure I'm better off not dealing with someone that stupid.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/25/2009 12:28:26 AM

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Question... who has access to your computer?

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My ID on here used to be DirtyLittleSecrt. I was talking to a man on here that I was really, really falling for. We were going to meet on V-day. Then a few days before, he writes me some nasty notes, saying that he received a bulk mailing about a munch a Master in michigan was trying to start, and he named me as his new collared slave. I was crushed and hurt. He would not listen to me, other than these awful, awful text messages and notes that I was a fake and a player and a liar. I;m still not totally over that one.....especially because he would not talk to me about it at all!

I changed my ID to TracksOfMyTears, because thats the way I have been feeling. Another Master wrote me that he received a bulk mailing on a munch, again naming me as a collared slave to this man. No one will tell me who this Master is that keeps doing this to me. Perhaps at some point I didn't give him the time of day? Or perhaps it is not even a Master at all? But I don't know what to do anymore.

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RE: Untruthful postings - 2/26/2009 6:01:31 PM

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if two different people told you the same thing but neither will tell you who it was that posted that then perhaps the two people are the same person... if that's the case then perhaps that person is just fuckin with your emotions to get his twisted kicks...

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