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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 2:51:02 PM

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I think the main attraction about wearing a diaper is actually two fold. Some people are into the age regression part of it while others are into the humiliation and control aspect. As far as how this kind of kink gets started... I think there's an ongoing crystalization process during the childhood that creates a sexual templet for our adult lives. What influnces it exactly is anyone's guess as everyone is different. Personally, I enjoy the suspension of one of the most basic freedoms, the ability to chose when and where to go :) I guess I'd fall into the humiliation and control group. Things are much more interesting when you know that your domme might tell you to wet yourself, or your diaper, at any given moment. Added to that, there's an unique thrill in being made to do it in public, which I'm sure everyone is going to jump on seeing that it involves vanilla people. To be honest, I love it when Gwyn tells me to pee myself, especially when she does it just because she's bored and thinks it might be entertaining. Being "ordered" to wet it in situations where people might notice brings paranoia into the equasion which just adds to the whole experience. As far as getting clingy goes, that's just not me. I'm so dom in my day to day lifestyle that it's nice to give over that much control to another person, even if it means standing or sitting in a puddle every now and again. lol

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 2:59:06 PM

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When I identified as an adult baby, it wasn't entirely all about me me me me dote on me. I just wanted a daddy who'd keep me safe and treat me like a baby for parts of our relationship. The Daddy adult baby would be the largest theme, but not the *whole theme*

However you're right some can be all about me and you the parent spoil me the baby and give give give.

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That is the problem with most Abbys... it is me me me me me!
The ones I have met seem to be very self centered, and all about thier wants, needs, and play time. They might love thier mommies and daddies.. but it is mainly because of the attention they recieve. if that flags, well then they are out of there.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 3:52:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

STOP WITH THE DIAPER THREAD NECROPHILIA.

*tears hair out*

it's freaking me out.

STOP WITH THE ALL CAPS and explain wtf you're talking about.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 6:11:14 PM

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Necrophilia ? Well when they execute someone thay make them wear a diaper. Then they strap them down tight to that chair or cot. Damn if they are kinky that might be the exact time in their life that they most want to live. Maybe I should go out and kill someone, got a list for me ? :-)

But I see this place is as "bad" as LMU. Old threads never die. Not that I have a problem with that, but as another said, I wonder of the OP is still around. They could be dead for all I know.

I realize what I jusr did, wrote two paragraphs and mentioned death in each, base on one words. Perhaps I should be chained to a bed where I cannot go to the bathroom for the good of societry. Which brings us to my point.

My last partner was not into them, but I did wear them a few times for overnight bondage.I am a switch, I got her to one on now and then, but she would not wet it. She's a beer drinker but not like me.

She had this under the bed bondage frame the was portable, could be used anywhere. She said it cost her about $500 to have made. Once installed the weight of the bed ant the frame were fairly immobile. So the frame is installed so I pushed the chair next to it and one of the nightstnds and we had a few beers.

Seeing her squirm like a schoolgirl about to pee her pants was a sight to behold. I miss her. But she just would not wet. After about four beers she was ready. There was "I mean it" and then "I really fucking mean it", at that point I released her.

The only time I saw anyone move faster was when my buddy's son was starting a chainsaw for the first time and has the blade between his legs. ( another true story, what am I some kind of nexus for this shit ?)

This took some time though. I was fucking with her "Come on, one more, gotta exercise those muscles". I am bad I know that. Anyone who drinks beer knows there is like a "piss quotient". I mean like in a bar playing pool. "I should piss before I break (on the pool table) because I don't trust this fucker and I want to see him shoot". Whewn shooting with stranger you also would wait until it is your turn to go to the bathroom of course. This sounds twisted but people do cheat and if you are playing for rounds or money, it makes sense.

So anyway we talked about it later and she said that she really would not wet. I asked her if her potty training was unusual in any way, nope, just can't do it. She said she would sooner pull it off and piss on the floor. She had an almost quirky aversion to it.

Muha ha ha ha, something I can use.

More later, door knock.

T

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 6:42:11 PM

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STOP WITH THE DIAPER THREAD NECROPHILIA.

*tears hair out*

it's freaking me out.
++++++++++++++++++++++++

Now there is someone confused. "Wtf does she mean" would be my response as well.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 6:46:16 PM

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Good point: I meant Lifestyle Dommes, but feel free to reply once you've cleaned up the subbie client who's shat himself and is COVERED in it; still can't imagine a wide-on from it.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 6:51:55 PM

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OK, all clear for now. My posts get disjointed enough that I should be able to drop back into it now.

Anyway, what I didn't have time for before was that it is almost as if necessity impelled the kink. My kink for them. It is not all that strong, but it is definitely there now.

As far as defecating in one, I seem to agree with most. I do not want that. But being helpless and forced to urinate, I mean by natural causes, some find that hot.

Then you're released from bondage and the thing is all squishy, and huge. That I think is where I really do digress from many. I believe bondage should be too long. Timewise, the sub or bottom should get to the point where they no longer enjoy it. I don't think everybody sees it that way. But the huge squishy diaper is a sign that it was indeed too long.

But the bondage too long thing does not require diapers. It could just be that sooner or later the bottom has to pee. I could see it now "No I REALLY REALLY HAVE TO GO NOW". My reply ? "Hmmmm, I have to go check see if my golf bag is loaded right for next March".

Thirty seconds is all it takes under those conditions. Of course I would not be farther than a foot away from the doorway. Thirty seconds can seem like an eternity.

Fetish ? Kinky ? I make not much distinction between the two. Somewhat like the difference between the an engine and a motor. I do understand that there is a difference. It is a subtle difference.

They're back. More later.

T

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 6:57:12 PM

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Someone once said to me "It's not really bondage until I say "let me go" and you reply............

"no"

Diapers are great in helping that to happen.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 6:58:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Good point: I meant Lifestyle Dommes, but feel free to reply once you've cleaned up the subbie client who's shat himself and is COVERED in it; still can't imagine a wide-on from it.

That's what showers are for-not a big deal to me to hose someone off-takes about three minutes.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 7:26:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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Fetish or Kinky??

...Yes! Also mind-fuck, control, surrender; perhaps a tad of regression, contentment, abandonment of functioning on your own at the most basic level. I think it can be any, or a combination of any of those things each time diapers are used.

beth claims to not be able to describe how it feels to be made to wear them. A conundrum similar to describing how it "feels" to see blue.

Yes, well said also I love how blue tastes...despite how difficult that is to describe.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/8/2008 8:34:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: diaperedbaby

STOP WITH THE DIAPER THREAD NECROPHILIA.

*tears hair out*

it's freaking me out.
++++++++++++++++++++++++

Now there is someone confused. "Wtf does she mean" would be my response as well.

I am/was committing the ultimate sin of messageboards, I resurrected an old topic since it suited what I wished to talk about-WITHOUT creating a new one where I wouldn't have any grounds/members to quote from.
but it was much too perfect not to resurrect... I have many curious/strange interests..but this one is the kicker, y'know?

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/9/2008 5:04:41 PM

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No, no, the subbie can't stand up in a shower since he's an infantalist: the subbie's lying down on his back on your silk sheets, and all you have are babywipes. Hurry . . . oh, crap, all over the duvet! Dry clean only, man!
Enjoy!

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

That's what showers are for-not a big deal to me to hose someone off-takes about three minutes.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/9/2008 5:16:53 PM

MsSaskia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu
No, no, the subbie can't stand up in a shower since he's an infantalist: the subbie's lying down on his back on your silk sheets, and all you have are babywipes. Hurry . . . oh, crap, all over the duvet! Dry clean only, man!
Enjoy!

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

That's what showers are for-not a big deal to me to hose someone off-takes about three minutes.

There are diaper fetishists who are neither infantilists not only doing it professionally. There are diaper fetishists, also, who are not into being changed or doing the changing.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/9/2008 5:33:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

No, no, the subbie can't stand up in a shower since he's an infantalist: the subbie's lying down on his back on your silk sheets, and all you have are babywipes. Hurry . . . oh, crap, all over the duvet! Dry clean only, man!
Enjoy!

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

That's what showers are for-not a big deal to me to hose someone off-takes about three minutes.

That's why I also hard limit ab's, but not subs in diapers.

With a sub you have some control-with an ab, they control you.

I'm not stupid enough to play "daddy" to a grown woman.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/9/2008 5:35:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsSaskia

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu
No, no, the subbie can't stand up in a shower since he's an infantalist: the subbie's lying down on his back on your silk sheets, and all you have are babywipes. Hurry . . . oh, crap, all over the duvet! Dry clean only, man!
Enjoy!

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

That's what showers are for-not a big deal to me to hose someone off-takes about three minutes.

There are diaper fetishists who are neither infantilists not only doing it professionally. There are diaper fetishists, also, who are not into being changed or doing the changing.

Or just plain old nasty perverts like me-who do so many different things for fun-it gets downright confusing.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 1/10/2008 9:19:16 AM

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There are diaper fetishists who are neither infantilists not only doing it professionally. There are diaper fetishists, also, who are not into being changed or doing the changing.

That is quite true. There is a whole lot of versions of this fetish/kink or whatever someone wants to call it. A lot seem to think they are required to change someone. That couldn't be farther from the truth. Only a option.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 8/27/2014 11:21:13 AM

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That seems to be a problem with many into ABDL play. It is often the focus of their play, they want to be in full control of it, and they want it all the time, even to the point of obsession, as you said

Please don' put AB's and DL's in a same category. But I agree with your AB point of view. For them there are mommies and daddies who like to take care for them.
My self I'm a DL and it turns me on to use a diaper in combination with humiliation. But real amount of time wearing a diaper is less then a few hours per month.

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 8/27/2014 11:28:20 AM

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Did you not look at the date of this thread??

It's more than six and a half years old!!

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 8/27/2014 12:35:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: Santtu

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That seems to be a problem with many into ABDL play. It is often the focus of their play, they want to be in full control of it, and they want it all the time, even to the point of obsession, as you said

Please don' put AB's and DL's in a same category. But I agree with your AB point of view. For them there are mommies and daddies who like to take care for them.
My self I'm a DL and it turns me on to use a diaper in combination with humiliation. But real amount of time wearing a diaper is less then a few hours per month.

I'm pretty sure that whoever made that statement you quoted has long ago forgotten about a statement they made nearly 7 years ago. Hoping that just maybe they will telepathically sense you responded?

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RE: DIAPERS....Fetish or Kinky?? - 8/27/2014 4:08:58 PM

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First of all, wow. This thread is, like, TEN YEARS OLD!! Wow. Moving on...........

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ORIGINAL: topcat
I haven't seen Leather Diapers, and they seem a poor idea. How would one clean them? (Iknow, I know, that's the boy's job/problem).

I make fabric-covered plastic pants for AB/DLs and, soon, I will be making fabric covered, all-in-one, plastic pants/diapers as soon as I perfect my planning. I'm going to make a leather-covered one or leather-like covered one, with moisture-proof material for the middle layer(between the leather on the outside & the actual diaper inside). I would say to treat & prep the leather as you would any leather apparel first with your preferred substance. I'm thinking that, when I actually make one, I will make it with the diaper inside able to snap in & be removed for laundering separately. Before that, though, I will attempt making leather-covered plastic pants first, maybe even with some silver spikes or chain for trim on them(on the leather outside layer of course).

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For most people, diapers involve scat and scat is something most of us avoid. So of course there's little interest in diapers.

And for people who enjoy sex with their bdsm, then diapers rule that out which would ruin the scene for someone like me for whom this is very sexual.

Not all diaper-wearers poop their pants. I'm a Mommy Domme to an AB/DL who wets his diapers but does NOT poop in them. We both have a "no scat" limit. Also, if we're going to have sex, we normally do it after we both shower & he's obviously not in a diaper at all, let alone one that needs changing.

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Yup, can't imagine any Dommes getting any sexual gratification outta dressing or cleaning a sub in diapers, so since it's for the sub's pleasure, it's a fetish or sadistic vanilla [aka bully] infantilism: there are other and better ways to control OTHER orifices.

I can't say as I get any sexual kicks out of AB/DL, I agree there. But I do enjoy diapering him as it's a very emotionally intimate time together, he's totally vulnerable and trusting at that moment, and the cuddles afterward are especially amazing for us. And, I have to say, he's very cute in the plastic pants I made for him.

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