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feydeplume -> RE: This new guy.. (2/24/2009 1:11:40 PM)
well maybe your booobies dear, but were they serving olives?

devotedinSD -> RE: This new guy.. (2/24/2009 1:22:38 PM)
Well I have visited someone in a foreign country before and i still live. I spoke the language and was financially self sufficient AND it was not part of the deal to have sex, either. Also his identity was verified. It can work, just be careful.

MARIEL -> RE: This new guy.. (2/24/2009 5:19:12 PM)
well its kinda like that,I imagine it to proceed, if it does.

MARIEL -> RE: This new guy.. (2/24/2009 5:50:10 PM)
He is suppose to live in Istanbul and work in Bodrum at a hotel there. Hes got a smaller apartment in Istanbul. If,somewhere in the future,everythings alright, we were suppose to live there and Im not to work. Of course, the work thing and me not leaving apartment is not discussed so cant say alot about that. well I dont know anything yet but if so might be able to persuade him coming over here. of course,you have to be careful..

maybemaybenot -> RE: This new guy.. (2/24/2009 6:20:14 PM)
here are a few good reads before you get your passport ready and pack your bags: "Turkey is a significant destination, and to a lesser extent, transit country for women and children trafficked primarily for the purpose of commercial sexual exploitation." http://gvnet.com/humantrafficking/Turkey.htm Many countries are working to end the problem <human trafficking>, the report says, but it lists 23 that are failing to do so. Among them, in "tier three", the lowest category, are close American allies, including Greece, Israel, Saudi Arabia, South Korea and TURKEY. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/1436329.stm mbmbn

maybemaybenot -> RE: This new guy.. (2/24/2009 6:44:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL He is suppose to live in Istanbul and work in Bodrum at a hotel there. Hes got a smaller apartment in Istanbul. If,somewhere in the future,everythings alright, we were suppose to live there and Im not to work. Of course, the work thing and me not leaving apartment is not discussed so cant say alot about that. well I dont know anything yet but if so might be able to persuade him coming over here. of course,you have to be careful.. LOL. Sweetie, you really need to smarten up. It is almost 300 miles from Istanbul to Bodrum. So that's what ? A five hour commute from home to work each way ? And if he tells you he takes the ferry, well that is about a 22 hour journey. mbmbn

Lockit -> RE: This new guy.. (2/25/2009 9:06:35 AM)
LOL... he must travel by jet! I am sure his story is true!

graceadieu -> RE: This new guy.. (2/25/2009 10:25:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL But many western women travel alone to those countries. and im sure they fuck the locals too! And many women travel alone to those countries to meet someone, and end up kidnapped and sold into real actual slavery by that person.

maybemaybenot -> RE: This new guy.. (2/25/2009 3:41:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit LOL... he must travel by jet! I am sure his story is true! Of course it's true ! He's a Dom, nuff said. lol I guess I am always amazed at the utter lack of self preservation on the part of some people. I meet a guy from Turkey online and my thoughts go like this: If I go there I don't even speak the language. What happens if I get in trouble. It's a Muslim country with Muslim traditions. As a Western woman, how am I going to adapt to a completely different role/law/culture from anything I have ever known. Do I even know the laws, do I have to wear a scarf, a birka. Can I go to the market myself or do I have to have a male with me. Is it a Muslim country that stones woman for permiscuousness. Where is the nearest American Embassy. Hell, except for Canada, I always know where the nearest American Embassy is to where I am staying. Let alone the human trafficking problems there. And wouldn't this be the ideal place for a creep to snare naive woman into bondage ? < not the good kind> And to those who say it can happen here in the US, you are absolutely correct, but I speak the language, I can use a phone, I would know the police number of the town I was going to, bla bla bla. mbmbn

CalifChick -> RE: This new guy.. (2/25/2009 5:15:06 PM)
I'm pretty sure this guy wrote to me, but I told him I didn't want to be his no-limits slave. End of story. Cali

MARIEL -> RE: This new guy.. (2/25/2009 5:38:22 PM)
actually Im not sure about his location,he might as well live in Bodrum

coca -> RE: This new guy.. (2/26/2009 1:21:13 PM)
I am a Turkish sub living in Turkey and my Mistress moved to Turkey from Canada, on her own, no problems, however she speaks the language now, knows most of the ins and outs of Turkish culture and legal things, and still life isn't easy. For a foreigner in Turkey there are a lot of legal responsibilities that you will need to understand and eventually take care of yourself. If your Dom has a flat in Istanbul (we get the impression you'd be staying there) and he is off in Bodrum part of the time, you'll be alone and have to deal with any number of strange things which are frustrating enough for someone who expects them! Istanbul has a large kinky community, however it is pretty much underground still, for example, while sex shops exist, they are illegal. Also it is considered illegal to live together (and have sex) if you are not married. You never know what could happen and when you will have to take care of yourself in a bad situation. And according to my Mistress, Turkish is not an easy language, so it will take a while for you to deal with random problems. My Mistress says: please think twice about coming for a dom (I did not come for my slave, I met him after being here for a bit). Come for a vacation and enjoy yourself, make sure you know where the nearest danish embassy is (probably ankara, but I think there is a consulate in İstanbul). there are lots of public places you can meet this dom and I highly suggest you do that, avoid dark alleys! and don't be stupid. I always tell my friends and family, Turkey, like NYC or London, or anywhere is not a bad place if you don't put yourself in stupid situations and being alone with a stranger is stupid situation number one. Good luck, and use your brain. If you have any futher questions about Istanbul feel free to ask me or my Mistress. coca (and Mistress, Lady Marmalade)

dreamysubmale -> RE: This new guy.. (2/26/2009 3:53:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL This new other guy from Turkey.. he called me.. I dont know..chance are,hes serious,after all. I dont know. Hes invited me to Turkey this summer. what are your suggestions. Mariel, not all people behind a computer are creeps. And I am sure the majority of us are careful on the net. But just this month we had a case of a German tourist in a center of an internet relationship that ended with armed police intervention. Luckily no one was harmed. Just to know, I live in NZ, one of the safest and friendliest countries in the world in my opinion. Here is an excerpt to what happened: Maja, a 36-year-old from Leipzig, told the Otago Daily Times she struck up an online friendship with a man she believed was a 33-year-old PhD student from Dunedin in October when she was looking for South Island contacts. The man's contact details appeared as though he was part of an advertisement for New Zealand -- she later learned he had super-imposed a photo of himself appearing about 20 years younger into the advertisement. He began emailing her frequently until slowly the relationship turned romantic. "He was quite intellectual and he knew the way to my heart," she said. Maja planned a trip to New Zealand after the man assured her she could live in his house for bed and breakfast and he would help her meet people and find work. When she arrived in Dunedin on February 8 she knew immediately the man was not who he had portrayed himself to be. The unkempt, unemployed 54-year-old rushed up to her, gave her a large hug and a too-friendly kiss and hurried her to his car. Not knowing what to do, she went with him to his central Dunedin home. "His home was really a horror house, I would say. Little roosters, cats and chickens lived in the house. There was a lot of cartons and dust and rubbish ," Maja said. "He lived in a complete fantasy world. I was totally afraid because he said there was no electricity there so we only had the candles at night." At night he took off his clothes and lay down in the same bed with her. "I had all my clothes on and these dirty sheets around me . . . I realised in that moment it was too much." She said he told her he had weapons in the house, although all she saw was one old fencing sword. She called the one person she knew in Dunedin, a man she met on the plane, and said she was not well. "But I couldn't speak too much because he was listening. " Maja said she stayed at the house because he would not allow her to take her passport when she left the house, he left with her and brought her home, listened in on her telephone calls and shouted at her. She tried to let the man she met on the plane know something was wrong. When she did not meet him as arranged on Thursday he contacted the police, who called out the Armed Offender Squad to enter the house on Saturday night. The pair were not home because the man had insisted he take her to Kaikoura for several nights.

dreamysubmale -> RE: This new guy.. (2/26/2009 4:14:56 PM)
By the way, Midnite Express was mostly filmed in Greece

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