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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/24/2009 5:11:56 PM   
MARIEL


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Status: offline 		Not even I would do such a thing, even if Im doomed as maniac by rest of the board   (just as information about to release subfrenzy)
I agree, it would be a totally different thing,if you were really welll cared for "down there",and with alot of tools to entertain yourself!
But hell no with a stranger.

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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/24/2009 5:43:26 PM   
greeneyedreamer


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Status: offline 		If it feels wrong, It's wrong!!!! It feels wrong to you by your post. M/s is not different than any other relationship. If you don't like it, discuss it. Communication is the key to all relationships regardless of the type. Talk about what you are and are not comfortable. ANY good Master, regardless of strictness will take your view point into consideration. In my humble opinion that is... Be careful, be strong and be safe...

Oh yeah... edited here... if you were to put you in MY Basement I'd run... Bar, bed, leather couches, fireplace bathroom.... wow.. yeah so we are all assuming it's a dungeon or dark damp and dreary... mine has 8 ft ceilings and pretty blue carpet! LOL so before we jump to conclusions back to the COMMUNICATION!!!!

< Message edited by greeneyedreamer -- 2/24/2009 5:46:43 PM >

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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/24/2009 5:54:13 PM   
maybemaybenot


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And the day came when the Strict but kind < I love that > master trotted off to the grocery store and the good little slave was in the basement locked up. The strict but kind master forgot to turn off the iron and the house caught fire. The good little slave became the good little ash pile.

OR

And the day came when the good little slave was locked up in the basement and the strict but kind master was at work. The good little slave started have tummy pains, then felt feverish. The good little slaves fever got worse, the pain was intolerable and she finally passed out from appendicitis. Since the strict but kind master was at work, no one noticed when the good little slaves' appendix burst and she died an agonizing death.

Other than that a  few other realities that could happen, sounds like a fine idea to me. < sarcasm>

                         mbmbn

< Message edited by maybemaybenot -- 2/24/2009 5:56:26 PM >

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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/24/2009 6:51:21 PM   
marysdream


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Status: offline 		ok take from me, there are folks on here that will try anything to achieve their goal ! it may be healthy to them ....although sense and intellect has to enter into the picture at some point. we are subs and the first rule of a single sub is to take care of self! just the fact you feel the need to get advice should be a red flag.....be careful.....saying no is not forbidden when you are unowned!

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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/24/2009 7:15:57 PM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		I think everybody has said pretty much everything. Some like being locked in the basement, or so I am led to believe. 'Xcept one wonders how you're going to get out if he's locked you in and has a heart attack, in his car on the way to the store. Something like that.

BTW, do you really think Alberta is in the UK? Or don't you want Canadians to be able to find you?

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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/25/2009 6:21:34 PM   
DomM&SubK


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Status: offline 		NO to be locked up in a basement to start your training with a new Dom/Master is right out of a scary movie. Please use your brain first if you dont feel like it is right than dont do it. Now think of this how would you pay your part of the bills or what about school and your family. Would you really want to be so controled to be kept from them becuse you were told to? Now to be kept captive after a relationship is built and all parties feel safe than yes being a captive is ok. You need to rember even though you are the sub/slave you still have some control. You have the right to say if you are willing to go along with whatever your dom/master plans for play sessions. This is what Sir and i do. I tell him in writing what i am looking to do as a sceen. the newest one is a captive/helpless session. This is what i wrote to sir. Sir you will recive a card in the mail with a date a room key and the words please do what ever you want to what ever you find. So you come in to the hotel room and find me tied to the bed and blind folded. knowing you you will be torn just know that i am doing this becuse i want to try it and i trust you. This is not a rape sceen so please do what the card asks you to do. Your Loving   Sir asked me well who will help you set every thing up i told him it would be another lady sub and that when i got her call my last hand would be cuffed by me and that three people would know where i was. Please think about is ~SubK~

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RE: NEED ADVICE REGARDING NEW M/s relationship - 2/26/2009 12:06:35 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: antipode
BTW, do you really think Alberta is in the UK? Or don't you want Canadians to be able to find you?



That is a glitch on CM.  When you sign up in the UK and add the city/place, it lists it automatically as Canada.  Unless you are aware of the glitch and go back into your profile and alter it, there are a few like that on the UK listings.
 
the.dark.

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