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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 9:15:11 AM   
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I love a couple of your amusing neologisms, I will commence frequent attempts to crow-bar them into conversation before leaving this island, I am sure the humour will have a greater effect on the relief of any worries you feel I may have, just one thought comes to mind, the laughter therapy could become more habit forming than the Diazepam,

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 9:16:51 AM   
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There's a seriously long road up the road from me. It's called "Lafayette Road". It's funny :-) .


Yup, and it divides Hampton in half.
If you live in Hampton like I did for many years you drove on it just about daily.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 9:22:31 AM   
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I am a citizen of the United States.  That is how I identify my place in the world even though others may not understand the importance of the distinction.  Yes it is a mouthful but it is also the truth. 

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 9:36:41 AM   
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I have no idea where non-Americans get their ideas from with regards to what Americans are like.  But I have noticed that a lot of non-Americans on the boards have formed some seriously innacurate conclusions.   Besides, I really don't think any generalizations can be made anyway, as it really is a melting pot of different cultures and various attitudes.  Even from state to state, the "cultures", beliefs and behaviors vary greatly. 


Care to give a non - American ... (not even a United States Of America [n]) (what is the term for that actually, at the "homeland" security booth they were calling me an "alien", I know I have my peculiarities, but come on "guys")
... some examples of said "seriously inaccurate conclusions"

Oh, and isn't using the phrase "a lot of non-Americans" one of the generalisations you don't think can be made?
(these are questions, not a conclusions)

I can speak several languages, so maybe I can help a bit with the translation,I am currently refining my fluency in United States English,I am getting favourable results too,if you use the term "U.S." or U.S.A. then people from Iberia in particular may be less confused as to which American country you refer at any given time.

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"Alien" is a perfectly legitimate term, although perceptions of the term may have changed in recent decades with all the movies and stories about UFOs and aliens from outer space.  But I didn't think that the U.S. was the only country to use that term.  I thought other countries used it as well. 

In Canada or Europe, I would be considered an "alien" or an outsider, foreigner, Yank - I'm sure they have all kinds of choice terms to call us.  When I toured some countries in Europe in 1987, people would say things to me about U.S. policy as if I was somehow in a position to make policy.  I couldn't explain Ronald Reagan to them; I didn't vote for the man, and I didn't care for him too much myself.  I never could understand that.  I can understand if they didn't like the U.S. government, but why take it out on ordinary people who aren't doing anything wrong and just trying to enjoy their vacation? 

I ran into an elderly British couple when I was at the historic site for the Battle of New Orleans, and this man was pretty funny actually.  He said, "Well, it looks like we Brits should have stayed home that day." 

In my own experience, in dealing with newcomers to America in real life, as well as in online conversations with people in other countries, I find that there are some misconceptions and a certain lack of knowledge regarding America, especially from those who came from countries with a controlled media or if they only know America from TV shows and movies.  One thing that seems to throw a lot of people off is that they think of "America" as a singular, monolithic entity, but it really isn't, nor was it ever that way. 

I used to tutor English as a second language and have worked with many newcomers to this country, and I sense that a lot of them seem slightly disappointed, as if they were expecting America to be different, like they thought the country would be one giant "Disneyland."  One example that I've heard frequently is that newcomers really can't stand "official" America, as in bureaucrats, customs officials, clerks at U.S. embassies, and so forth.  They learn something that most Americans have known all their lives:  Our government is riddled with incompetent jerks and a-holes.  So, when they say things like this to me, I'll give them a wry, sardonic smile and say, "Oh, you noticed that, huh?" 

There's also this strange perception that Americans on the coastlines are somehow more sophisticated, enlightened, and progressive than those in the interior areas of America.  Some people also get into this "red state/blue state" business which seems to get uglier and more divisive.  But I just don't understand that myself, because, wherever I go in America, I feel at home.  Usually, most people are friendly wherever I go in America, whether in rural or urban areas. 

Another misconception which I've noticed a lot is in terms of the lack of knowledge regarding the differences between Federal, State, and local governments and laws.  There seems to be some confusion about that.  That's no minor thing, either, since one needs to understand that in order to truly understand a large part of our history, which is necessary to understand just who and what we are as a nation. 

As for those in Iberia, I think they would be inclined to use "norteamericano," as it's used in Mexico and Central America, as far as I know.  Of course, Canadians are also inhabitants of North America, so I'm not sure how they distinguish that. 








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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 10:12:00 AM   
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As for those in Iberia, I think they would be inclined to use "norteamericano," as it's used in Mexico and Central America, as far as I know.  Of course, Canadians are also inhabitants of North America, so I'm not sure how they distinguish that. 


Mexico and the entirety of Central America are all part of North America.  So is Greenland and much of the Carribean technically.  So I don't know where Mexicans or folks from Central America came up with the insistence that we refer to ourselves as, North Americans.  We call ourselves Americans because it's in the name:  United States of America.  We did it first; we called dibs on it.  Sorry if some folks in the Western Hemisphere missed the party.  It's not a big deal.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 10:22:14 AM   
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We call ourselves Americans because it's in the name:  United States of America.  We did it first; we called dibs on it.  Sorry if some folks in the Western Hemisphere missed the party.


Sorry, no you didn't.  A Latino/Italian/Spaniard did.

http://www.millersville.edu/~columbus/data/his/COHEN-01.HIS

America, we learn as schoolchildren, was named in honorof
Amerigo Vespucci who discovered the mainland of the New World.  Wetend not to question this lesson about the naming of America."
"But now these parts [Europe, Asia and Africa, the three continents of the Ptolemaic geography] have been
extensively explored and a fourth part has been discovered by
Americus Vespuccius [a Latin form of Vespucci's name] (...): I do
not see what right any one would have to object to calling this part after Americus, who discovered it and who is a man of
intelligence, [and so to name it] Amerige, that is, the Land of Americus, or America: since both Europa and Asia got their namesfrom women."

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 10:22:53 AM   
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Yanno, I considered asking about USAnness precisely in order to circumvent this sort of thing....

It's not as though this is merely a trick of <cough> American English either.  Elsewhere we are Amerikaner, Americains, Amrikan, Amerikajin....   Most of the world thereby insults the rest of the hemisphere routinely. 

It must be stopped!  And it must start stopping on collarme!!

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 10:27:36 AM   
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Can't we just call them Usians? Then they will have six letters in common with Russians and WWIII will be prevented.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 10:46:37 AM   
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It is a big deal to many.  I wish more U.S.citizens would look at our country from the world's point of view instead of only our own.  In the majority of countries, including other North and South American countries, the term "Citizen of the United States" is used not just "American" or even "North American."  In the United Nations, this country is known as the United States of America.  It is not about who's first or right.  It is about respect.  If no respect is given, don't expect it back.  No matter who you are or how you identify, you are from Planet Earth.  That is the way of the future if we make it.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 12:50:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: submaleinzona

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ORIGINAL: piratecommander


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ORIGINAL: marie2

I have no idea where non-Americans get their ideas from with regards to what Americans are like.  But I have noticed that a lot of non-Americans on the boards have formed some seriously innacurate conclusions.   Besides, I really don't think any generalizations can be made anyway, as it really is a melting pot of different cultures and various attitudes.  Even from state to state, the "cultures", beliefs and behaviors vary greatly. 


Care to give a non - American ... (not even a United States Of America [n]) (what is the term for that actually, at the "homeland" security booth they were calling me an "alien", I know I have my peculiarities, but come on "guys")
... some examples of said "seriously inaccurate conclusions"

Oh, and isn't using the phrase "a lot of non-Americans" one of the generalisations you don't think can be made?
(these are questions, not a conclusions)

I can speak several languages, so maybe I can help a bit with the translation,I am currently refining my fluency in United States English,I am getting favourable results too,if you use the term "U.S." or U.S.A. then people from Iberia in particular may be less confused as to which American country you refer at any given time.

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"Alien" is a perfectly legitimate term, although perceptions of the term may have changed in recent decades with all the movies and stories about UFOs and aliens from outer space.  But I didn't think that the U.S. was the only country to use that term.  I thought other countries used it as well. 

In Canada or Europe, I would be considered an "alien" or an outsider, foreigner, Yank - I'm sure they have all kinds of choice terms to call us.  When I toured some countries in Europe in 1987, people would say things to me about U.S. policy as if I was somehow in a position to make policy.  I couldn't explain Ronald Reagan to them; I didn't vote for the man, and I didn't care for him too much myself.  I never could understand that.  I can understand if they didn't like the U.S. government, but why take it out on ordinary people who aren't doing anything wrong and just trying to enjoy their vacation? 

I ran into an elderly British couple when I was at the historic site for the Battle of New Orleans, and this man was pretty funny actually.  He said, "Well, it looks like we Brits should have stayed home that day." 

In my own experience, in dealing with newcomers to America in real life, as well as in online conversations with people in other countries, I find that there are some misconceptions and a certain lack of knowledge regarding America, especially from those who came from countries with a controlled media or if they only know America from TV shows and movies.  One thing that seems to throw a lot of people off is that they think of "America" as a singular, monolithic entity, but it really isn't, nor was it ever that way. 

I used to tutor English as a second language and have worked with many newcomers to this country, and I sense that a lot of them seem slightly disappointed, as if they were expecting America to be different, like they thought the country would be one giant "Disneyland."  One example that I've heard frequently is that newcomers really can't stand "official" America, as in bureaucrats, customs officials, clerks at U.S. embassies, and so forth.  They learn something that most Americans have known all their lives:  Our government is riddled with incompetent jerks and a-holes.  So, when they say things like this to me, I'll give them a wry, sardonic smile and say, "Oh, you noticed that, huh?" 

There's also this strange perception that Americans on the coastlines are somehow more sophisticated, enlightened, and progressive than those in the interior areas of America.  Some people also get into this "red state/blue state" business which seems to get uglier and more divisive.  But I just don't understand that myself, because, wherever I go in America, I feel at home.  Usually, most people are friendly wherever I go in America, whether in rural or urban areas. 

Another misconception which I've noticed a lot is in terms of the lack of knowledge regarding the differences between Federal, State, and local governments and laws.  There seems to be some confusion about that.  That's no minor thing, either, since one needs to understand that in order to truly understand a large part of our history, which is necessary to understand just who and what we are as a nation. 

As for those in Iberia, I think they would be inclined to use "norteamericano," as it's used in Mexico and Central America, as far as I know.  Of course, Canadians are also inhabitants of North America, so I'm not sure how they distinguish that. 



That's great, thankyou for stepping up with at least a few real examples, I was begining to worry (needs Diazepam apparently, according to one contributor) that no one would. Most of the examples I can follow and your effort in identifying political and historical lack of awareness has to be admired.

I was attempting to add a little humour by my use of the word "alien" and the opportunity to explain this sort of humour is reinforced by your example of the bloke at the battle site.

Thankyou for being one of the people that understands that there are linguistic barriers.

I would not turn down the opportunity to visit the U.S. ever, indeed I would look forward to it, except if offered the "all expenses paid family holiday of a lifetime in Orlando and Disney with obligatory itinerary" that gets given away as a "prize" in UK newspapers and profitmaking TV phone quizzes, I would turn it down just as much now as I would always have done. I think it is bad that the U.S. is represented in the media (including the U.S. media broadcast elsewhere) as slantedly as is, but then, that's why I don't need a TV licence, I saw sense and stopped watching.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 1:14:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD

It is a big deal to many.  I wish more U.S.citizens would look at our country from the world's point of view instead of only our own.  In the majority of countries, including other North and South American countries, the term "Citizen of the United States" is used not just "American" or even "North American."  In the United Nations, this country is known as the United States of America.  It is not about who's first or right.  It is about respect.  If no respect is given, don't expect it back.  No matter who you are or how you identify, you are from Planet Earth.  That is the way of the future if we make it.

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Very well put D, especially as it justifies my position on the English monarchy in terms of how much respect it is due from me

Are there any U.S. citizens that think it was wrong to kick the crown out in the Revolutionary War? , I haven't met one yet.

Globally branding the U.S. as "America" smacks of arrogance to a lot of people in the same way "Great Britain" still does to many ... what is or even was "Great" about it ? (reminder ... the debate on Great Britain in Geographical terms is still going on)

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 1:17:07 PM   
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When I say I am an "american", it is because it's easier than saying I am a citizen of the United States, there is no arrogance, stated or implied.  Either way, I dont give a flying fuck what the rest of the world thinks, I am proud to be an AMERICAN!

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 1:37:50 PM   
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I'm sure that will be mostly fine if you remain in the U.S.

There appears to be a healthy debate on what ideas of americanness people have and the O.P. does not appear to exclude the rest of the world and it's ideas.

There's a lot of things I don't give a flying fuck about too, however I am keen to study this particular debate as my wife is a U.S. citizen, there maybe very positive implications for our future mutual understanding (or lack thereof) and that seems to be a positive reason for me to point out that many non-Americans (as you say) wrongly believe that no-one in the U.S. gives a flying fuck about much, let alone the the rest of the worlds opinion of it.

I hope this is helpful information, should you ever travel outside it's borders.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 2:21:23 PM   
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I am a citizen of the United States of America.  I have always understood the core beliefs that this Country was formed under.  In my heart it is the true foundation of the meaning of "being" an American.

"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."

We were founded to respect anothers choice of religious beliefs.  We do not have a nationalized language or religion.

We are a nation that has long been rooted in "fear."  Every generation bitches about the next as the perpetrators of the fall of this nation.

Whites too often view themselves as being more "Americany" than their non-white fellow citizens.  We can be disgusting when we travel abroad.  I have far too often cringed in disgust as I have witnessed Americans abroad demanding to be spoken to in English.

I dislike the fact that many Americans feel a sense of smug entitlement.  I dislike the fact that we have become a nation that now feels that criticizing our government is an act of anti-patriotism, when it should be viewed as one of our greatest strengths.

We once like to be challenged,  I see far too many that will gladly swallow what they are told and no longer possess the will or the curiousity to challenge anything as long as it underscores their own political beliefs. 

I dislike that we are allowing our children to be fall further and further behind when it comes to receiving a formal and up to date education.

I love America. There are very real problems to be faced on the Horizon. So few have the ability to understand what is real if they don't hear it reported by their one and only news source.  It is theirs as well as this Country's loss.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 2:25:49 PM   
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Brilliantly said, Domi.. and as close to summing up how I feel as I've seen. 

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 2:35:44 PM   
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I'm sure that will be mostly fine if you remain in the U.S.


I have been overseas.  I do go to great lengths to blend in when I am overseas.  As a rule, Germans are very gracious people, Brits and many others are not.  I travel alone,  I try very hard to blend in, mostly because I dont want to hear about "ugly americans".

Americans are loud and boisterous people.  I make no apologies for that.  That's just the way we are, if you dont like it, go fuck yourselves.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 2:49:54 PM   
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Oddly, I found the Brits, French and Dutch (generally speaking) to be absolutely fine...

Of course, I made it a point to learn at least a few phrases in Dutch and French, and the Brits were nice enough to laugh WITH me when I made linguistic gaffes that they pointed out to me.

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 3:09:51 PM   
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Oddly, I found the Brits, French and Dutch (generally speaking) to be absolutely fine...

Of course, I made it a point to learn at least a few phrases in Dutch and French, and the Brits were nice enough to laugh WITH me when I made linguistic gaffes that they pointed out to me.



I can understand the other lad's point. In all honesty, the English are not a people who are easy to love, primarily because we have fairly unique rules of social interaction that are difficult for outsiders to fathom.  

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 3:13:20 PM   
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That's true here as well, NG.. the 'rules' can change from state to state, city to city, even neighborhood to neighborhood. 

My experience in the UK was quite enjoyable..

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RE: americanness - 3/1/2009 3:17:29 PM   
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Whites too often view themselves as being more "Americany" than their non-white fellow citizens.  We can be disgusting when we travel abroad.  I have far too often cringed in disgust as I have witnessed Americans abroad demanding to be spoken to in English.


The above is certainly within my sphere of personal experience of U.S. citizens abroad, obviously this does not give a good impression to those inclined to stereotype, I once asked a U.S. visitor directly if he normally spoke the way he just had whilst "at home" having been polite to every other member of staff he'd interacted with during the course of an afternoon, upon being approached for service by the only black member of staff on duty for the first time, he said only, "here boy get me another bottle of this" I had pointed out that behaving in that way was not acceptable (I had under law, the right to ask him to leave, which I did not do) the conversation his colleagues had after his departure was a relief to hear.

On more occasions than I could number (I uesd to work in hotels) U.S. visitors would (try to) demand U.S. food in the U.K.
eg ; pancakes for breakfast or order sausage then complain "this is not a sausage" , expect U.S. sauces to be available , want "lite" beer , bagels and lot's more. None of these requests would have been possible to fulfill but more often than not, polite attempts to explain that items are not available because they're specific to the U.S. were greeted with disgust and rudeness

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I dislike the fact that we have become a nation that now feels that criticizing our government is an act of anti-patriotism, when it should be viewed as one of our greatest strengths.


It is a great strength indeed, I personally can't get hy head 'round WHY criticizing government is seen as anti-patriotic, it sounds like democracy to me.

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I love America.


I am pleased that you do, so does my wife. From your comments, it sounds like you care very deeply about your country and are a very forward thinking man.

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