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RE: young=Bad Dom, true? - 4/4/2009 10:43:01 AM

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Being young automatically makes inexperainced,bad dom,and or unable to make life decisions. And being older means automatically your experianced,more likely to be a good Dom, and or able to make life decisions.

YES

You should pick a Dom who is older. I think 53 is a very good age.

Hey, I might as well agree.

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RE: young=Bad Dom, true? - 9/7/2009 6:18:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: OwnerHumiliatorOlder = better? Yes, certainly, if "better" means experienced.

Older=more experienced? Utter bollocks. When I was 25 and worked as a volunteer at BDSM party, you don't want to know how many people in their forties and fifties were scared to come in for the first time. And they are supposed to have more experience? Yeah. with thinking and fantasising about it, maybe...

"IF better means experienced" would be the operative phrase there, Guilty74. Nowhere in My post will anyone find an absolute statement that older is better. Therefore I say "bollocks" to those who cannot or will not give a close reading to any and all posts they choose to comment on.

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RE: young=Bad Dom, true? - 9/7/2009 7:11:26 PM

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Howdy it seems to me in general there seems to be the opinon that by the virtue of being young automatically makes inexperainced,bad dom,and or unable to make life decisions. And being older means automatically your experianced,more likely to be a good Dom, and or able to make life decisions. I myself disagree while i may be less experianced then someone say whoes been in the lifestyle 30 years that wouldnt make me a bad dom or unable to make life decisions. what everyone opinon and why?

Not in my experience it isn't. Young means open minded, energetic, secure, virile, skillful and willing to communicate.
Old mean set in ways, taking service for granted, non communicative and closed minded.
That at least is my experience and i don't mean that to sound ageist. There are always exceptions. It's just about chemistry at the end of the day.

Sigh, it's been my experience too, at least with men from this website. My former master was much older than me and his mind and attitudes stayed fresh and unrigid up until the day he died, so I know it can be done. It just doesn't seem to be done very often.

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