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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/7/2009 11:48:18 AM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		No brats. 

I like a man who behaves with as much 'solicitous deference' as possible.

That doen't mean he's a mouse.  He knows what he wants, and what he wants is to be a gracious, playful, fun, willing, sexy submissive.

I think the key is willingness.  I want a biddable sub.  I want a willing, biddable, smart sub.

If my ideal sub were a border collie, he'd be the kind of working dog that would come bouncing up to me with gleaming eyes, eager to figure out what it is I want of him today.  I would never keep the kind of working dog that runs away from me, instead, daring me to run after, as he begins to rip up the sheep just to find out whether I'm carrying a gun in my pocket or not. 

Yes, I expect you'll comment now on the 'snide, baiting tone' of having compared a good sub to a border collie, rather than realize the analogy goes to 'type', not species.

TM

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/7/2009 4:05:54 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Oh hell, I've been comparing men and kids to dogs, my whole life!

I like german shepherds. Smart but with a strong desire to please is preferable in a slave. And just like my dogs, only females.

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/7/2009 4:18:29 PM   
ShaktiSama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Yes, I expect you'll comment now on the 'snide, baiting tone' of having compared a good sub to a border collie, rather than realize the analogy goes to 'type', not species.



How about if I just comment on how you add a sentence of Looking For a Fight whether anyone has offered a fight or not?

Stop feeling persecuted sans persecution. Being called out on one occasion on one issue does not mean you are being cyber-stalked.

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/8/2009 1:51:21 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		I don't recall being 'called out'. 

I state My opinion, you state yours. 

Isn't that what blogging is for?

I try to give sincere contributions, or tongue in cheek contributions on the board that might amuse Me, but by and large I try to post sincerely more often than not. 

I understand that my tongue in cheek remarks are often misunderstood, and while I occasionally regret having offended someone unintentionally, I have no problem with the fact that you misunderstand a tongue in cheek remark and subsequently feel compelled to overreact in your response.

TM

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/8/2009 1:59:35 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		...and for whatever it's worth, the 'snide, baiting' tone you mentioned previously was not a tone directed at you or yours in any way, whatsoever; it was meant to be a bit arch, but not baiting in the least, and not towards you.

It was commentary on how tired I get of reading the 'ooooh hot mama wants baby sub' drivel that pervades this site, you can interchange 'ooooooh hot papa wants baby subfem' if you want, I just get tired of it.

I don't object to the objectification per se in the various posts, I realize we're at a site that expounds upon the theory of objectification by the very essence of WIITWD.

I simply get weary if the superficial and shallow 'hot sex' content now and then.

I like hot sex.

I simply get tired of reading posts geared to provide wank material on the boards.  That includes posts written by Dommes who write blogs I would otherwise enjoy reading.

As intelligent, eloquent, beautiful, alluring, competent, skilled, and genuine a Domme as you seem to be, I would think you'd get weary of it from time to time, too.

I happen to believe that there's room on the board for both of Us, and then some.

TM


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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/8/2009 2:15:00 PM   
farmlandsub


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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

I like hot sex.



May i chime in and attest to the fact that this is a true statement!!!! Your humble servant.

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/8/2009 7:37:44 PM   
ShaktiSama


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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

I happen to believe that there's room on the board for both of Us, and then some.


I should hope so.  And I do not disagree that "wank fodder" can be tiresome--but only if it's badly written!   

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/25/2009 12:55:07 PM   
countmystars


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Status: offline 		Well I personally can be extremely brattish, it's not done simply to get a reaction, my nature is to fight against submitting to someone even though I am submissive through and through and for me I think it makes it more challenging and exciting on both parts, I like to have my will broken until I submit completely or I would never fully submit to that person.

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/25/2009 7:19:30 PM   
Scotty306134


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Status: offline 		I'm in a loving relationship with Ms Debby. I try to be obediant, helpful and playfully bratty with Her and Her Domme friends. Some examples are... Ms Debby will tell me She 'loves' me...sometimes I respond "thank You... I love me too" or 'You're in good company....I love me too'. Occasionally, not very often She'll go to kiss me or I'll go to kiss Her and instead of a kiss I'll "sneak in a dog lick"! Occasionlly Ms Debby or Friends are sitting or laying down and I'll come up and start to tickle their feet.... or They'll walk by and I'll give them a light spank on the rear. Sometimes whenever Ms Debby's going to begin a spanking or anything else... as I'm getting in position I say quietly... "remember... You love me". Several times when in a private setting i'll sneak up behind a playful Domme and yank Her pants down 3-4 inches... That usually gets then in the mood!!   Sometimes they'll take swat at my rear and when They connect i'll reply " Hey careful that's me!" or" Oops! You found me!" I feel it's very important to keep things lightly humorous and know when to stop and be serious. I hope this is some of the information You're looking for. Take care, Scotty

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/25/2009 8:02:35 PM   
BohemianGoddess


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Status: offline 		 I would  not tolerate a  rebellious brat for more than the 30 seconds it would take me to put my boot up their ass. Obedience and submission is expected at all times and what we do is totally decided upon by me. Obviously all is dicussed ahead of time before taking on a  sub or slave, they know of my demands.

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/25/2009 10:01:48 PM   
slaveruler


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Status: offline 		I agree but was wondering if anyone has a problem w/subs on this site trying to pick fights & be nasty? I mean where do u draw the line?

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/25/2009 10:04:56 PM   
slaveruler


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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/25/2009 10:56:13 PM   
FullfigRIMAAM1


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ORIGINAL: slaveruler
I agree but was wondering if anyone has a problem w/subs on this site trying to pick fights & be nasty? I mean where do u draw the line?
You delete block and delete those emails.   See how easy it is not to have a fight if you don't want one?     M

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/29/2009 3:27:47 PM   
lilsubrt


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I don't want a mindless sub but he should know when I have had enough. I explain the rules & they rarely ever change.
I don't like sassy subs. When I say enough I mean it.
Every sub is different. Each has to handled in his own way.
As a rule I don't want to be with any person who is a brainless twit. LOL

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/29/2009 8:41:51 PM   
lilsubrt


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lilsubrt's Mistress here.
I don't want a mindless sub but he should know when I have had enough. I explain the rules & they rarely ever change.
I don't like sassy subs. When I say enough I mean it.
Every sub is different. Each has to handled in his own way.
As a rule I don't want to be with any person who is a brainless twit. LOL


     Goddess Isn't kidding when She says She Doesn't like, " sassy ", subs. Got a First Hand Dose of That Recently, Spouted Off At The Mouth a Little Bit Too Much and Got a New Name Out Of The Deal, " sassy ". That is what She now calls me and what Will Be answered to Until She says Otherwise. 

    Hope All Are Well,

    lilsubrt- aka- "sassy"
    

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RE: How much fight do you like in your sub? - 3/31/2009 11:34:40 AM   
Kaiel


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Status: offline 		I am not into bratty subs, at all.. I enjoy servitude without back talk.

I was very into this female sub, but because of her brat-i-ness, I simply could not continue on with the training or relationship. We are certainly still friends, but that is the extend of it. It's too exhausting to deal with a brat.

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