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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/26/2006 11:32:10 AM

dixiestar69

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I didn't mean that to come off sounding stupid but if you actually think about it its true...just let the morons who want to send stupid emails like that roll off your back.....don't even let it get to you...read it laugh at their stupidity then delete it (thats what I do....

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/26/2006 2:06:25 PM

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I didn't mean that to come off sounding stupid but if you actually think about it its true...just let the morons who want to send stupid emails like that roll off your back.....don't even let it get to you...read it laugh at their stupidity then delete it (thats what I do....

Oh, I didn't think you comments were stupid but as a teacher I do think that just letting things happen disempowers us -- ignore them but report them; educate them if you can; help keep them from others who may not have learned to be a 'duck' yet as you say.

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/27/2006 11:14:13 PM

DarkDove

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I get emails like this all the time from both Dom/subs. I post them in my blog and make fun of them. LOL

Ok so even I get bored sometimes... besides its good to let everyone see who the assholes are!

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 12:35:04 AM

TeeGO

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Just tonight my friend got one, it basically said she was lying about all the responses she gotten and said "Your really not all that." I responded to him and let him have it.

Tammyjo, in reading your posts and your profile, it's obvious this individual is just jealous of the life your living and is trying to get you down in the slime where he lives. Tell him to f***ck off and enjoy your life.

By the way, where's the slaves feeding you grapes in the bubble bath? :) *lifts drink in toast to you* To the good life!

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 2:20:39 AM

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Just tonight my friend got one, it basically said she was lying about all the responses she gotten and said "Your really not all that." I responded to him and let him have it.

Tammyjo, in reading your posts and your profile, it's obvious this individual is just jealous of the life your living and is trying to get you down in the slime where he lives. Tell him to f***ck off and enjoy your life.

My feelings is that when you "respond" back at all...you've given them exactly what they wanted. The whole point of them being abusive in the first place is to get you to react, or respond. To "delete" any future responses, or NOT respond at all, is a bit more powerful of a message, as I see it. Don't give them what they want!

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 2:39:52 AM

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My feelings is that when you "respond" back at all...you've given them exactly what they wanted. The whole point of them being abusive in the first place is to get you to react, or respond. To "delete" any future responses, or NOT respond at all, is a bit more powerful of a message, as I see it. Don't give them what they want!

Yup, a lesson I learned from usenet. Trolls want a reaction, if you don't feed them they wander off to chew on someone else that might give them what they are looking for. If enough people don't feed them eventualy they depart for richer hunting grounds elsewhere.

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 10:39:54 AM

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Oops

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 10:59:16 AM

TeeGO

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Damn, I knew that was going to happen. I am helping her with this and do log into her account. And sure enough came to the boards and didn't realize I was still logged in under her. I deserve a canning. (oh boy oh boy)

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 11:05:31 AM

TeeGO

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ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan

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ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Just tonight my friend got one, it basically said she was lying about all the responses she gotten and said "Your really not all that." I responded to him and let him have it.

Tammyjo, in reading your posts and your profile, it's obvious this individual is just jealous of the life your living and is trying to get you down in the slime where he lives. Tell him to f***ck off and enjoy your life.

My feelings is that when you "respond" back at all...you've given them exactly what they wanted. The whole point of them being abusive in the first place is to get you to react, or respond. To "delete" any future responses, or NOT respond at all, is a bit more powerful of a message, as I see it. Don't give them what they want!

K

You are right, I'll not deny that what you say is a very good way to deal with it, maybe the best way. But my stubborn male ego doesn't allow me to walk away so easy. Insults to me, sure. To her? That's different.

I have replied to this individual so she wouldn't have to. The ball is now out of the court he started it in, so he's not getting quite what he wanted. We are in a bit of a back and forth. He cannot insult me, he might not realize that. But me, I'm merely pointing out to him his immaturity. Having a bit of fun. I wont go far with this, just a bit more I think if he replies again. I will say I am not stooping to his level of insults....but....what can I say. I'm a guy.

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RE: insults in the mail as first contact? - 1/28/2006 11:15:50 AM

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The ball is now out of the court he started it in, so he's not getting quite what he wanted. We are in a bit of a back and forth. He cannot insult me, he might not realize that. But me, I'm merely pointing out to him his immaturity. Having a bit of fun. I wont go far with this, just a bit more I think if he replies again. I will say I am not stooping to his level of insults....but....what can I say. I'm a guy.

I understand.

I can admit to enjoying some good back-n-forth sparring with a few people too. Some of it can be fun, as long as they stay on track to the subject and don't get personal. I'm more for, attack the idea, and not the person. It can be stimulating, entertaining, and even fun with an intelligent sparring partner.

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