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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 4:02:20 PM   
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Perhaps the OP needs to negotiate a clause to their relationship - no extra people in either persons bed unless priorly talked about.

When i met my Sir, he told me he would neither sleep nor play with anyone else without my knowlege and agreement and presence (unless i agreed that i didn't need to be there) - that he would rather be monogomous than lose me - and so it has happened. And we have a very secure relationship.

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 4:13:55 PM   
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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 4:39:00 PM   
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So the OP is going to tie up the " home wrecker" then tell her she has been passed off and she has chosen the men for the gang bang. It would appear she and Master Manly Man have decided to altered the terms of the agreement without the consent of the "home wrecker". I hope I am wrong and this woman knows what is going to happen, but if the OP is " the one to tell" her that she is being passed off, after she ties her up, it seems the other woman has not been consulted.



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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 4:42:59 PM   
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The world is a very scary, scary place...  Some of these stories are enough to send even a bad ass dominant runnin... lol

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 5:37:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

The world is a very scary, scary place...  Some of these stories are enough to send even a bad ass dominant runnin... lol

 
 
That's all, folks!

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 9:20:19 PM   
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Glad it's not just me - i only made it about 7 sentences in... *whew* 

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 9:26:55 PM   
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quote:

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So the OP is going to tie up the " home wrecker" then tell her she has been passed off and she has chosen the men for the gang bang. It would appear she and Master Manly Man have decided to altered the terms of the agreement without the consent of the "home wrecker". I hope I am wrong and this woman knows what is going to happen, but if the OP is " the one to tell" her that she is being passed off, after she ties her up, it seems the other woman has not been consulted.



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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/10/2009 9:39:01 PM   
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hello there

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/11/2009 5:28:32 AM   
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quote:

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hello there



Why....... hello there, sailor.
Wanna date ?



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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/11/2009 5:33:34 AM   
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I was told my sir I can’t be mean to this woman. And so you all know yes she knows and has backed out after her husband found out she was planning on playing with out his knowledge. And I thought I had issues. I also have gotten read of the toxic friend who kept telling me lies to make her self feel better and now I truly feel better with all of her DRAMA gone.
The home wrecker and I have talked on the phone and she claims to be sorry but I don’t buy it. And it was not my idea of what to do to her it was I found out her husbands idea. He had asked my Sir to have me abuse her for the abuse he felt she has caused him. And here I really would of been the Slave Queen Bitch to her if I could of been but oh well.
I have my man and I know where he will be with me in my bed and we now have it in writing that he and I are never with others with out us both present. So thank you to every one for your input it has helped me.
As for the other relation ship we don’t know at this time but I feel very sorry for them because she could have been so happy if she had been honest with her husband.

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/11/2009 7:13:00 AM   
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chugga chugga.... CHOO CHOO!

i can hear a train about to be wreaked

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/11/2009 10:31:07 AM   
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Please don't think their is something wrong with you, on the contrary you notice that their is a dillema you thought it well over and find that it is not for you.

I strongly advice you to be open with your Master and discuss this, he needs to know how hard this is for you. And quit frankly often when we listen to our inner voice we are right.

Tell him discuss it and let him know where your boundaries, obstacles are.
I wish you well and am convinced that you both will find a solution wich will benefit both of you.


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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 7:04:13 AM   
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We have for now we will stay closed and if and when i am ready to share him with ladies out of our circle of friends and network we have it in writing that if i feel it is off than it will not happen. Thank you for all of your input and leting me vent how i felt before i caused a fight with my master of such a stupid issue.

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 3:07:20 PM   
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One WORD: COMMUNICATION!!! TELL HIM!!!!!

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 5:41:13 PM   
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Hello All M here i know that K has been posting and at first i was up set that she told all of you before she told me but i understand now why she vented on you first. I taking K's thoughts in to mind called the husband and we meet for beers and i found out that the lady in question didnt have her hubbys permision that she said she had. He was very angry and wants K to mistreat her and at first K was so for it but than she thought how whould i feel if M did that to me and she knew what she would do she would kill me. So the teaching had been cancled and i think for a while i will keep my Lady and my Girl to my self and just work on us. M

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 5:50:35 PM   
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Teaching?  I see no teaching in this lil drama.  I think it might be a real good idea to work on your relationship becasue anyone who would consider all this drama as safe and sane or reacts and is part of all this silliness... need's a few lessons themselves. 

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 6:10:51 PM   
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Ok Yes when I posted this I was very angry and so very confused because Sir had just told about this Ladies request. We have talked about it this is a one time teaching session and he has passed her off to another guy we know. The Best Part Is I will be there when she arrives I will also be the one chaining her to the bed as well as the one to tell her she has been passed off to another man and I also got to chose the men to Gang Bang her. Let’s just say they are not the largest members in the group LOL. Sir and I will get to watch the Home Wrecker get her ass beat and if I am the good Slave to try so hard to be I will get to BEAT her as well. Her husband will still not be there but I don’t care I knot that all sir and will be doing is watching and I plan on getting on my knees and pulling Sir’s Hard Cock out right in front of her and sucking him till he spills him self down my throat and than turning to her and asking her how bad does she want my COCK? And I truly hope she begs for it because she will only taste him from lips. Now to the “What is wrong with me” statement! I have a sorry had a Best Friend that is a swinger and is dating a married man who has become so toxic to me and well my relationship and trust in My Sir I feel that is why I kept second guessing us as well as my self. Yes sir and I do bring others to our bed when we need other partners to make a fantasy come true like I am waiting for my Dp as well as a Gang Bang my self. And the only reason Sir was waiting for them was for me to truly be ready for them. I am still a Heavy girl by all standards but I used to be HUGE I had Gastric Bypass over a year ago and have lost a lot of weight and still have the extra skin left over and sir knows how much my mind set has changed as well as my sexual appetite. I have always loved sex but due to my size I was scared to act them out because I didn’t truly love my self and never truly felt that any one would love me. But this was after having my Ex husband sleep with my sister while I was pregnant with my daughter. And Sir knows that when I get in the what we call “Sexy” mind set I feel unstoppable as well as I sex slave I love being but than the play is over and I catch a look of my self in the mirror and I think Omg I am Gross and ugly with all of my skin and rolls just hanging off of me. So after talking to Sir about how much I have truly been hurting thinking that I was only his FAT SLAVE and nothing more I now have to tell him when I feel the Ugly feeling coming on and that’s when I am to repeat after him that I am His Princess and His Goddess as well as his Savior and that even though He is My King I need to know that with out me he would not be whole and vice versa. Than I Got to see the truly softer side of him that he tries so hard to keep hidden the hurting side and found out that he feels the same way I do at times when we go out and he has men flocking to us to talk to me and steps back and remembers that if I wanted these men I could have them but he knows who I will chose for ever is him and the feelings are gone. I was so shocked I was like what men that flocks to us when we are out. That’s when he told me that the guys he talks to and the ones I  “Hold Court” with when we are out are not always people we know but guys that are asking him if they can have me because I am so hot they say. And even the ones that know us have asked him many times to have me and he says no that is why he has been keeping me to him self since we got back together after our break up. Now to the Brake up I have had a Younger Single lady come between Sir and I once and I Left him because of it. I was carring for my mother and he was an hour away because of his job and only was able to come and see me once a week if we were lucky. So this Home Wrecker that was a friend of a friend needed help with a “Honey do List” and was given Sir’s Name and Number she feel for him right away. They Became friends and I even meet her a few times when I would be able to get up too see him. Well one night after a few drinks and her and I making out we went back to her place and started to play well I left to go to the rest room and came back to find sir pasted out on the bed where I left him and the lady was no where to be seen so I was like ok and I went and took a shower to freshen up and sober up a bit before crawling in to my Sir’s Arms. Well I sure the Hell was surprised to find the BITCH ridding my man and him saying “Oh Yes Baby Harder Fuck Your Daddy” and all the things he says to me. So I grabbed my clothing go dressed and went in the other room trying to not let my anger out because I truly was thinking of killing them both. I had enough of her Porno Moaning and walked and yelled as loud as I Could Get the Fuck off My Man Bitch! Lets Say Sir snapped out of what ever drunken stupor he was in and was shocked. I Almost broke the Girls nose with my right hook to her Face and I left them both at her place went back to our house and packed up all of my things and moved out taking My/Our Daughter with me. By the time he walked his ass home because she was too scared to see me I was gone and I had locked the doors and had the keys with me. It took us a Very long time for me to trust him Again I still do not trust her and in Fact she is Scared Of me to this Day. We were in therapy for a very long time and I never really bought his “I thought it was you” story till one day I had a lunch date with the Whore at my therapist’s request and asked her want happened and why she wanted him. She told me that she was Crazy and I agreed to that and she told me you do know he was saying you name not mine right that’s why she moaned so loud was to cover up him saying your name. I than decided to take him Back on a if we “Swing” we both agree and we never drink and play ever again and that’s how it has been ever since. I hope that this truly answers all of the questions as to why I posted the post I made. ~Master M’s Slave~


I hope to god i never view a post such as this again in my life......

OP I honestly could nt read the damn thing because its all over the place and maybe therein lies the problem.
Why dont you break down all these feelings and issues into a logical bullet pointed manner on paper and sit and talk with your Master on the points you raise here  reaching firm conclusions and agreements that neither you nor he can bypass / ignore.

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 9:16:33 PM   
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Wow. This was some crazy sounding s**t and I have to be real here. I love Daddy, but this wouldn't have gotten past him trying to tell me about it in the first place.  I hope the OP and her D stay with the therapy and grow their relationship stronger so that this doesn't happen again.

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/12/2009 10:24:27 PM   
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Damn.  Sounds like a great big can of drama to me.  Bottom line: trust your instincts.

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RE: What is Wrong with me - 3/14/2009 4:56:05 PM   
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Hello all We have been and are working on us and JUST US. We have decided to stay closed and teach each other trust of each other. Yes you are right it did become a drama because I K didnt know how to talk to Sir. And I (Sir M) did'nt know how my girl felt and i really wish i had but know i do and i really want to keep her happy and in my life since i now know and really should have known that she loved me but you see i was hurt as well by past partners and i did'nt know that K felt like it was all her when it wasnt it was all me. ~~~~M& His Girl K~~~~

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