karit -> overwhelming response and request to thread (3/10/2009 11:01:51 AM)
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All i can say G/gentleman and L/ladies is wow. i never dreamed i would have over fifteen combined pages of messages generated off of my profile page and opinions. i will attempt to address a subject each week on the general discussion board. i am really overwhelmed and humbled by the outpouring of compliments and praises from both Doms and Subs alike. Again with all my respect and gratitude. i certainly hope Y/you A/all buy my book too when it comes out lol. well the address of the day will be to this message that i received, it goes out to the submissives both male and female. Because i want to remind all of you; you are not some prostitute to be picked up for a one day fling.you are also not a doormatt to be used when the girlfriend or wife is monotonous, tawdry, or on her monthly cycle. The individuals who are masquerading as Doms know who they are. They are in relationships, vanilla ones, not honest with their submissives. Then they cast them aside like used underclothing. Move on to the next conquest and forget they existed. i dont mean to call individuals out on the "carpet" but it has been reported to me that certain Doms do this. In the last twenty-four hours despite my profile, i have had offers from three individuals on this site promising me sexy clothing, drinks and a hook up at a hotel for a night, and money, yes money. Now an inteligent individual and a true Dom would read my profile and say, "Now heres a submissive that is intrigueing and intelligent but I need to be cautious on how i approach this one, better take things a bit slowly, test the water so to speak." Not these three.Then again i did say true Dom. i understand collarme protects identities and that is fine. i would just like to put this notice out there to all of the submissives, male and female, as a reminder. A respectful reminder to the Doms as well. First, not only is it illegal to except monatary gifts for sexual acts, (in a court of law that would be termed either solicitation, or prostitution) it rather turns the D/s world into a debaucherous circus. This is not what this site was intended for. Second, as per gifts from Doms, how long have you been seeing the Dom? Is it excessive? Is it a diamond ring on the first meet? Is it something that would mean; im going to stalk you the rest of my life? Is it something that says, if you take this gift, you are indebted to me? you need to think women and men of submissive nature. The allure of clothing, dining, vactions, gifts, and whatever else maybe given, is all very tempting. Keep in mind everything has a price, and are you willing to pay it. Doms, please do not give submissives from this site money. If they are asking for money they are not true submissives. i am sure You already know this. For the submissives that use You for gifts and a means to scam money, shame on them. they take away the true nature of what submissives stand for. Gifts should be given of free accord never asked for. A true Dom cares for his submissive from the heart, and that is where the gifts should come from. No matter if it is a new toy, or a dozen roses. If it comes from the heart, its a keeper. The greatest gift can not be achieved from a one night stand. At the end of it, Y/you are left alone and empty. Just as Y/you were before. A real relationship in this lifestyle takes time to build like any other. Be wary of the individuals who want to be exclusive after one meet. Hopefully Y/you enter into a long term relationship. Y/you are lucky enough to find a perfect fit. Then Y/you will recieve the greatest gift Y/you could ever give to one another, your unconditional love and devotion.
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