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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/14/2009 7:33:19 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		Hi.

Have you not found a Mistress you'd relocate for? If your really serious about being a slave why let location become the issue.

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/15/2009 4:41:21 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		How long is a piece of string? Trying to find a Mistress here, the OP might as well look for a needle in a haystack. He needs to get out to the munches and meet people. Something i wanted to do last night but my munch was cancelled. Sods law. It might happen to him but he needs to keep trying
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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/15/2009 10:43:40 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Sam  how long does it take ?? anywhere from 2 mins to 20 years and beyond , there is NO magic  time frame .If all your looking in is ONLINE then your  going to find many Online people .expand how your searching  unless  your wanting a pro then just call a new # 

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/15/2009 2:52:00 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		It may take no time at all, or it could take quite a while.  It depends on many factors.  I can tell you this.  You have to utilize every tool at your disposal.  You may find her on this site or another personals site.  You may find her at a fetish party.  She may be a coworker, a neighbor, a lady you already know.  There are so many ways and places to find a Mistress.  I have found many terrific dominant women in diverse ways and places. 

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/15/2009 2:54:24 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Once again, my good friend Jen has promoted my book.  Thank you very much.  I agree that it would help him, but I don't want to be accused of blatantly plugging my own work.  I appreciate it when you do it for me!

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/15/2009 6:04:36 PM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		SlaveKal,

You don't ever have to worry about "shameless promotion"...I have no problem being shameless ;-)

I plug your book any time I get the chance because you're right about a lot of things you put in there; your own success and the success of others who use similar methods in their lives proves it.

Saying hi to both you and MsM from MsKitty and myself.

boi

PS I think it's cool the cat pees in the drain too.

< Message edited by BoiJen -- 3/15/2009 6:07:08 PM >

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/15/2009 6:07:31 PM   
mikeyOfGeorgia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboisam

hello there i have been on this site for like a year now and i just can find anyone in my area they all want cam slaves but i want to move up a stage could any one give me any tips?


i'll let you know, when i find out myself

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/16/2009 4:09:44 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Everyone but Ms. M agrees about the cat.  I think it's great how he pees down the drain too.  Hilarious.  That cat needs to learn to sleep all night, though.  He meows so loudly.

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/18/2009 2:09:36 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboisam

hello there i have been on this site for like a year now and i just can find anyone in my area they all want cam slaves but i want to move up a stage could any one give me any tips?

Men , faking to b female yeah, want camslaves..
It takes as long as for a Domme to find someone genuine,
how about forever !

I wish you enough

GoddezzT`


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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/18/2009 7:40:11 PM   
wbcmbndgslv


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Status: offline 		It can take a while, but the best thing to do is look in the local community.  I would shy away from looking for something just trading messages online. That can be dangerous, but you can get lucky if you are careful.  Things can always grow from something on this site.

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/22/2009 8:55:36 AM   
slaveboisam


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Status: offline 		thank you everyone i will try them ideas thank you x

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/22/2009 11:38:12 AM   
IndigoMystry


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Status: offline 		Indeed, being a "quality person" is a good start toward being a "good submissive".  Practice good social skills, be interested and interesting, be positive, have skillz, read the "literature", ask questions, learn, learn, learn, and have the audacity to actually put Her pleasures above your own (and, as others have said, leave the laundry lists out of it - each Domme will have Her own preferences, not generic ones).  Be all these and more and you won't have to wait so long for a Domme to recognize you as "quality stuff".

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/22/2009 1:59:00 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		I know several guys in this life who have been looking for a Mistress for a long time, but they don't seem to be looking very hard. They don't go to many events, they get involved in vanilla relationships, they post profiles that don't have a picture or that say very little. They kind of go about their search half-assed. Unless you get incredibly lucky, that approach is not going to work.

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RE: how long does it take to find a Mistress? - 3/22/2009 2:08:17 PM   
SingleBDSMguy


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Status: offline 		You sorta have to take this website with a grain of salt.  Chances are you will not find who you are looking for on here. However, I have found lots of satire with some of the people on here in my local, and that can be really amusing. :)  There are fakes everywhere.

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