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MissJanice2 -> RE: Sexual or True Submissive? (3/22/2009 6:45:44 AM)
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There is no one particular activity that denotes one as a slave or submissive. The defining adjective for slavery is ownership. We are all indivuduals and have different requirements from a Mistress.
I was trained in a very strict manner, but once I learned that I had the respect of my slave that I wanted without doing all of the activities, I began to enjoy my life much better.
Live and let live. No used to worry about such matters. Just be you.
Best Wishes,
MJ
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ORIGINAL: stephykate
I wanted to share my recent experience with Mistress Lynn. It’s her belief that Dommes are reluctant to allow subs to release because once the sub releases, the Domme loses some control over their sub. Her tasks often require additional activity after the initial release that demonstrate true submission.
Mistress Lynn assigned me the task of edging myself over several days while wearing plastic pants. On the final day, I was allowed to release at a precise time into my plastic pants and once done, put the plastic pants on my head and lick them clean.
When I received this task I was extremely excited to complete it. Knowing I’d be edging myself over several days and then releasing into the plastic pants, I could easily imagine myself slurping up my cream off the inside of my pink plastic pants.
As each day passed, the intensity built. Finally, at the appointed time, I put on my pink plastic pants and began edging myself for 30 minutes until I was allowed to release. As I did so, I kept looking at the clock waiting for the 30 minutes to complete.
Finally, the time came and I squirted my cream. At this point, the inevitable “let down” happened and my desire to complete the task that was there just a few seconds ago was gone.
Now the task switched from being something I wanted to do – to something Mistress Lynn wanted me to do. I took off my cream-filled plastic panties that only a moment ago were the object of my desire and reluctantly opened up the waistband and slipped the front over my face. Once inside, I cleaned the inside of my plastic pants with my tongue, regretting that I agreed to the task, but knowing I will again.
As a sub, what happens once you've released and are no longer lead by your sexual desires? Are you truly submissive and able to complete your tasks or are you merely sexually submissive and your domme would have been wiser to not allow you to release?
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