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RE: Would you consider this cheating? - 3/29/2009 8:05:53 PM

RumpusParable

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I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We are going to get married and have a life together. He says he loves me more than I will ever know. I love him back : )

But... i found some personal ads up on craigslist
Top looking for bottom. S/W/M 25 years old
Send me your pic and what you are into.

I confronted him about all this and he said that bdsm is not all about sex which is true... but, he posted this up 2 days after i left.

Also he has one in platonic friends and several in casual encounters. Basically saying he has weed and wanting girls to smoke with and hang out with but if anything happens so be it.

He's poutting out ads that you're not comfortable with and for ome reason you're snooping for ads that he sent. Who cares if it's "cheating"? By this you two have no basis in communication and trust.

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RE: Would you consider this cheating? - 3/29/2009 8:13:33 PM

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in my book attempting to cheat or looking to cheat is just as bad as the actual act...normally I'd be for trying to fix things...but you I agree with the tiger and the stripes line...DUMP HIM if you haven't already

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RE: Would you consider this cheating? - 4/2/2009 12:19:58 PM

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Um, maybe you should reconsider marrying this guy. Cheating is being secretive and deceptive. Had the two of you agreed to having an open relationship, then so be it. But to not tell you that he is interested in seeing others- be it sexual or sensual, is cheating on My eyes. And, the fact that you were looking at craigs list in that section makes Me wonder whether you are not seeking other relations as well. You guys should give it some time, explore your options and be young!

Ms. Eden Nicole Masters (EdenzPleasure, NicoleMasters, Retreat2Eden)

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RE: Would you consider this cheating? - 4/2/2009 2:23:07 PM

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I think he may have a different meaning of the work Trust than you do // Because that does not sound like he really does // I would only ever had ads on site when I was with my ex because we were looking for someone that she could play with // He may just be looking for friends but then he would have told you about them when he was puttin them up

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