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MARAA -> Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:04:47 PM)
First,this is no offense or negative towards you with young partners what so ever. It just stroke me, looking at one of those adds with bondage, they were all young subs with old men,most of them had seen better days. Getting off on some hot,young chic. There were nothing else! All were young and pretty. I myself happen to be in my 30´ies but looks much younger, and I cant help relating to all those Dom´s Ive met,that more,or less,prefered it that way and or those young pretty subs. (also met the opposite those that dont care but I think there are a lot of the first group,and it annoys the hell out of me, I think its superficial. So now I ask you,what you have experienced and how important it really is. Is it getting worse for those of you,that happen to look good? Do you meet more shallow ppl? just wondering.. in general.. im pissed thats why and curious

DarkSteven -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:08:14 PM)
Porn is porn and some of it is designed to appeal to us ugly old men. Of course ugly old men prefer pretty young girls. Can we get them? And why do you call US shallow if you refer to us as ugly old men (not that we aren't!)?

Sfortzando -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:09:09 PM)
Wait...I'm confused. Are you upsett because you're 'hot' and all the subs just want ugly men, or are you confused as to why young subs tend to go for older men, or are you upset because you're at that in-between stage, or... What?

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:09:23 PM)
I resemble that remark smile, a Master with young subs.if they didn't want to be with me I am sure they would be some wheres else..Bounty

Vendaval -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:09:40 PM)
Older men + money = younger trophy wife + big implants

BeIgnited -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:11:27 PM)
That's hardly a bondage porn phenomenon. Most men in porn are hideous.

SteelofUtah -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:13:50 PM)
Actually many girls who like older men find AGE an attractive feature..... I understand it, Sure I don't LOVE the idea, but someone once asked me.. "Steel, what is it you think you have that they don't?" I thought for awhile and couldn't find an answer and as I went to speak he stopped me and said "That isn't even the Big Question, Now ask yourself what is it that they DO have that you Obviously DON'T!" Master Len, Older man, Not Unattractive had more women MY AGE following him around waiting for him to beat the shot out of them and film it and then cash in on it. Very FEW of his models are paid models. Just remember sometimes it's not what you got but how you use it that drives them wild. Steel

Vanityfull -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:15:19 PM)
in porn the "ugly old men" barly get paid(in comparision), they are for the viewer to imagion that they are them, fucking the hot young thing, whom rakes in the big bucks. ads are the same. i think being physically attractive is still a good thing.. but im kinda out of the loop

RedMagic1 -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:16:27 PM)
If you asked me to choose between two women who were exactly the same, but one was younger and hotter, yes I'd choose the younger and hotter one. Why not? The thing, though, is that no two people are exactly the same. So looks are a lot less important than what's inside. I'll tell you, though, Maraa -- I'm a 40 year old man who doesn't want children of my own. My experience dating (both kinky and nilla) is that most of the women I've met age 33-43 are either hunting for a baby-daddy, or have tremendous baggage from a nasty divorce. I had a relationship last year with a 25-year-old, and we are still friends. The women closer to my age tend to select themselves away from me, "forcing" me to date younger and "hotter." The person I'm most interested in right now is 25. Besides, this is a nilla mainstream media thing that is getting reflected into BDSM porn. Remember the movie Entrapment? Catherina Zeta-Jones was 23, while her love interest Sean Connery was maybe a hundred and five. Hot or gross, you be the judge. One thing's for sure, though -- you won't see those ages reversed on the guy and girl in a mainstream Hollywood film.

aravain -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:24:06 PM)
you forgot the qualifier straight...! Gay porn is usually chock full of quite yummy specimens... even older ones :P Plus, they're all paid a lot more than when they do straight porn. It's why a good number of attractive, male porn actors are 'gay for pay' if they're in the biz at all.

BeIgnited -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:26:50 PM)
Hah. You're absolutely right. I'm not a big fan of the "pretty" type myself, but the men in gay porn are in general much more attractive than the men in straight porn.

Lockit -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:27:18 PM)
I have had times when I looked better or worse and I was interested in finding out what change my looks might have on my romantic life. I got the same amount of men interested in me no matter how I looked... but... when I was heavier, I found that more of the men were more sincere than when I was thinner. In the groups of people around me, many tried to get the trophy Lockit because of who I was in the circles I ran and I hated it with a passion! The man that typically got me was the man that didn't treat me with that kiss ass... she is hot something or other. He treated me just like anyone else first. When I look at men...smile, kind of easy to get lost in that thought!... I can find something I enjoy about any age man, especially a hard bodied one... and quite often that comes in the form of a younger man. Hot.. oh yes... and yes.. I do want to touch... but it is the whole person I am looking at and I have had men who by no one's standards were hot and had some very great times with them! It is the person after the first looky that becomes sexy to me. Would I turn down some dancing hard bodied young one's.. oh hell no... but I would most likely look and go home to a nice and not so young and hard bodied man and be perfectly happy that I was a perv for a few.. but had a nice guy who benefited from it.

LadyLupineNYC -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:29:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeIgnited That's hardly a bondage porn phenomenon. Most men in porn are hideous. I take exception to that since my adorable twink of a sub has been quite a few BDSM porn films/clips [;)]

Sfortzando -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:31:02 PM)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1179258/ Cheri is the story of a young, upper class 1920's parisian man who is forced to leave his much older mistress played by Michelle Pfeifer. Yum.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:34:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sfortzando http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1179258/ Cheri is the story of a young, upper class 1920's parisian man who is forced to leave his much older mistress played by Michelle Pfeifer. Yum. Thank you. I didn't know about that film. However, it's a European art-house release, yes? When Stephen Spielberg directs one of the Jonas Brothers going down on Kathleen Turner, then gender equality will have arrived at the big screen.

ShaktiSama -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:39:16 PM)
giggles The title of the thread alone is entertainment enough. I've decided to start up a new BDSM pornsite with ugly old women and pretty young boys. At a loss for a title, though--how about "HAGPLAY.COM"? "Cougar-Country.com"? "All Porn Is The Bloody Same.com"?

Sfortzando -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:52:27 PM)
LOLZ!!! I would kill to see that. And yes, it's being released initially in belgium, but with the cast it has lined up, Cheri is already being advertised in the US, so we may eventually see it here. 'Tis a step in the right direction. Also, Michelle Pfeifer.

CelticPrince -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 5:57:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARAA First,this is no offense or negative towards you with young partners what so ever. It just stroke me, looking at one of those adds with bondage, they were all young subs with old men,most of them had seen better days. Getting off on some hot,young chic. There were nothing else! All were young and pretty. I myself happen to be in my 30´ies but looks much younger, and I cant help relating to all those Dom´s Ive met,that more,or less,prefered it that way and or those young pretty subs. (also met the opposite those that dont care but I think there are a lot of the first group,and it annoys the hell out of me, I think its superficial. So now I ask you,what you have experienced and how important it really is. Is it getting worse for those of you,that happen to look good? Do you meet more shallow ppl? just wondering.. in general.. im pissed thats why and curious MARAA, For the benefit of all who read this thread, kindly define "old" and then define "ugly" Then I might reply. CP

IronBear -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 6:00:06 PM)
I'm married to a lass (Domme) 30 years younger than I am. For me age and for that matter physical beauty is not all that important where as the ability to click and meld is. Whilst I'm no longer the pin up male, too many injuries and age of course (64), I have been told that I fit the Charles Bronson mold of looking better as I get craggier.. LOL

MarsBonfire -> RE: Young subs and old ugly men (3/27/2009 6:30:19 PM)
Let's see... If "I" were a pretty young woman, and I had a choice between a guy my age, who has nothing... is still struggling to make his rent and drives a battered old Ford Aspire, and has all the subtlty in lovemaking of a bull in a china shop charging for the clit... Or... An older, established gentleman, who owns his own house, has a cool late model truck, investments, and has been around the block a few times and knows how to treat a girl properly in bed... plus would leave everything to me at a relatively young age after he croaks... Hummm... who would I choose? As Randy Newman noted in song so many years ago... "It's money that matters... in the USA."

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