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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/8/2009 4:37:23 PM

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As I said in a thread about humiliation...

I can say things that would make my pet cry and truly hate herself... but that would not be responsible or me, nor would it fulfill the enjoyment of humiliation.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/9/2009 11:12:42 AM

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there is humiliation... to humble...and degradation..then there is assholeness..
calling names about appearance is right in there with race humiliation and religious
degradation..
how WOULD YOU FEEL??? use that as gage...
HOW WOULD you react....

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/9/2009 12:25:22 PM

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If the sub in question has enough self esteem, seems to me calling her ugly would have no damaging.
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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/9/2009 3:48:54 PM

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If the sub in question has enough self esteem, seems to me calling her ugly would have no damaging.
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Everyone has a weak point, an insecurity in which we feel truly weak and dislike being reminded about it. Some people love to tinker with these deep truths, but even they have a button that if you press... "shit gets real."

High self esteem in certain areas may help, but any wall can be torn down.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/9/2009 11:45:01 PM

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Insulting the physical appearance.

I wouldn't recomend doing it to someone who has been in past abussive relationships. Other than that, it's really not my style. I'm a builder, motivator, and encourager.

For a scene I could see it go down like this:

You're ugly, I don't want to fuck you. But I'm going to fix you.

Tear off clothes, scene, wash, wax, whatever, bla bla bla.

Make them do whatever...... "You know you have to do better to make me attracted to you."

End it with "That's better. You look better. You smell better. You're the way I want you. Now I'm going to fuck you." "You're beautiful."

That's the only way I'll do it.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/13/2009 10:28:30 AM

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I hope you understand my English.

Oh, women, you are so vane. I love to be humiliated by my Master. He can call me everything he wants. It may harm, I may cry, but somehow he touchs my wounds, he caresses them and I don't feel alone anymore.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/13/2009 11:00:56 AM

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Good for you.
But you're you, you aren't anyone else. And because it doesn't cause you irreparable harm doesn't mean it won't do that to anyone else. It has nothing to do with vanity and everything to do with the opposite of it.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 4/13/2009 11:40:10 AM

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I am laughing a bit remembering my experiences. A Master can call me whatever he wants, and I only get to respond with 'yes Master'. Geesh he could name me ugly and I would probably laugh turning it, within my mind, as a kinda joke as I tell all my friends that my name is now 'ugly'. Then, I would probably beg to know how I might improve my image for his pleasure. I do not find it a turn on, but I have a very odd sense of humor so instead would be laughing. The minute someone called me ugly in a scene I would probably burst out laughing honestly. I know who I am, I'm comfortable with who I am. Sure, I could stand to lose some weight and someone tells me I'm fat it would be "yep, I sure am...thanks for the update!" Who cares, they are words and our minds can do powerful things with words both positively and negatively.

If your wondering, yeah I was made fun of a lot in my childhood. I was beaten up regularly, insulted, etc. I learned though as I got older that what they said really didn't matter. I take things honestly, perhaps there are things about me I could change but in the end they are just words. I took away their power, and at last I am happy with exactly who, and what I am.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 8/13/2011 1:43:49 PM

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i would love and do anything to be dominated by you

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 8/13/2011 3:58:05 PM

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Old thread. I really hate it when an old thread shows up as unread by me. Damn you BkDrBoy, I actually put thought into my response.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 8/13/2011 5:06:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
I think it says a lot more about the dominant than it does about their submissive.
An ugly personality goes a lot deeper than a physical imperfection.

I won't add my thoughts to this necro thread either. Blah!
Besides, mistoferin already typed what I would have said.

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RE: Calling your sub "ugly"? - 8/13/2011 8:41:37 PM

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Lets put this old thread to bed...ok?

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