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RE: no shows - 4/2/2009 8:34:56 PM   
subangi


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Status: offline 		The internet has allowed us to depersonalize ( is that a word?)  our communication with others, which is sad.  It is one dimensional communication, where a thought or statement can be taken in a way that it was not meant to be.  It would be more thoughtful to respond when someone has made an effort to write, whether the interest exists or doesnt. 

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RE: no shows - 4/2/2009 9:20:47 PM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fxman55
i and others have tried to talk to otherss...they don't respond back...i think that is very rude...if they don't want to talk then they should send a message saying that..,.i have been in this lifestyle for over 30yrs and have never seen the rudeness that is shown in this group...must be a lot of wanna be subs in here

My good man, if I had a heart it would go out to thee. I can well imagine the suffering done onto thee by those horrible and rude subs. Nevertheless, thou art more fortunate than I. Verily, I myself have blocked the posts and e-mails of some subs in order not to be harassed by the sight of them. I assure thee, being mailed by rude subs is far worse than not being mailed by rude subs. Count thy blessings. Be well, live well - and do use proper grammar.

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RE: no shows - 4/2/2009 9:22:41 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		It might be polite.  I used to respond to everyone who emailed, but it always resulted in another response therefore the need for my second response.  I do not have the time nor the interest in responding to people who have not read my profile, who insult with demands or kink or sexual talk or even expectations of any sort.  In the name of politeness and doing what is right for myself... if they come across in a wrong way, if they don't go by my profile and in any way are someone I do not wish to communicate with, I do not owe them a response... and that is polite to me.

Anyone who gets upset because I do not respond... will simply have to deal with it.  Their upset is another reason I would not want to have anything to do with them. 
 

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RE: no shows - 4/2/2009 9:42:39 PM   
outlier


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Status: offline 		Sadly, there are people on the internet who will use someone's
own good manners against them and feel clever by doing so.

Thus the women here have taken to acting in the manner
you have experienced to protect themselves.

Another way to look at it is that being on the net is a form of power.
There is a saying that power changes people. But there is a wiser saying.
"Power does not change people, it causes them to revel themselves"

If these people are rude and wannabes, why are you so upset about not
having them in your life? Count your blessings and find someone better.
If they are not, then what are you doing wrong?

Outlier



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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:04:23 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rule

quote:

ORIGINAL: fxman55
i and others have tried to talk to otherss...they don't respond back...i think that is very rude...if they don't want to talk then they should send a message saying that..,.i have been in this lifestyle for over 30yrs and have never seen the rudeness that is shown in this group...must be a lot of wanna be subs in here

My good man, if I had a heart it would go out to thee. I can well imagine the suffering done onto thee by those horrible and rude subs. Nevertheless, thou art more fortunate than I. Verily, I myself have blocked the posts and e-mails of some subs in order not to be harassed by the sight of them. I assure thee, being mailed by rude subs is far worse than not being mailed by rude subs. Count thy blessings. Be well, live well - and do use proper grammar.
i love it when Rule releases his inner smart-ass


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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:34:34 PM   
Rainfire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rule

My good man, if I had a heart it would go out to thee. I can well imagine the suffering done onto thee by those horrible and rude subs. Nevertheless, thou art more fortunate than I. Verily, I myself have blocked the posts and e-mails of some subs in order not to be harassed by the sight of them. I assure thee, being mailed by rude subs is far worse than not being mailed by rude subs. Count thy blessings. Be well, live well - and do use proper grammar.


  Is that what happened, Rule? You blocked me?  *le sigh*  How will I ever live the shame down?

OP - There could be many reasons why there are no answers. I for one don't answer certain cmails, especially when someone blatantly has not read my profile. Unless they catch me on a bad day when I say to hell with manners and fire back an often bratty or snotty reply. (Shup, hollly, yer da bigger brat!)

No answer can be many things - perhaps even a blessing in disguise. It's all in how we choose to look at things.


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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:36:49 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

Unless they catch me on a bad day when I say to hell with manners and fire back an often bratty or snotty reply. (Shup, hollly, yer da bigger brat!)
Making you the bigger snot?

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:40:25 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fxman55

i and others have tried to talk to otherss...they don't respond back...i think that is very rude...if they don't want to talk then they should send a message saying that..,.i have been in this lifestyle for over 30yrs and have never seen the rudeness that is shown in this group...must be a lot of wanna be subs in here


Sorry, but I don't agree.

If you send someone an unsolicited message, it is no different than the electronic equivalent of the junk mail you find in your regular mailbox every day.  I'm sure the insurance agent down the street and the steam cleaner company also put a lot of thought into the ad they are trying to entice you with, but you don't see the need to write them back, do you?


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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:44:21 PM   
SilverMark


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Status: offline 		Ahhhhhhh...now I know why you never write me in return LP!....

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:45:53 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		No, that's more a case of you being on the wrong side of the kneel.  <Chuckle>

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:49:02 PM   
SilverMark


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Status: offline 		Can't blame a Man for having great taste in women!...

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If you have sex with a siamese twin, is it considered a threesome?

The trouble with ignorance is that it picks up confidence as it goes along.
- Arnold H. Glasow

It may be your sole purpose in life to simply serve as a warning to others!

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 1:51:54 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Flattery will get you darn near everywhere.  LOL.

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 2:07:24 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		He makes it sound like being a rude wannabe sub is a bad thing....

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 2:25:08 PM   
vincent63


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From: jersey,then texas,now florida
Status: offline 		ya know windchymes....im growing quite fond of you,,and no its not a comeon,,,i just happen to enjoy your comments....

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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 2:41:58 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		i wonder what kind of cheese goes best with this whine


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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 2:57:32 PM   
DarkFury


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fxman55

i and others have tried to talk to otherss...they don't respond back...i think that is very rude...if they don't want to talk then they should send a message saying that..,.i have been in this lifestyle for over 30yrs and have never seen the rudeness that is shown in this group...must be a lot of wanna be subs in here


It's no ruder then getting a cheesy message from a person that obviously expects instantaneous friendship or relationship in an introductory message either.
Had you written more than a 5 word sentence?
Did you write in a polite and person to person manner?
Did you sensibly and not in a HNG fashion?
Did you fully read that person's profile before writing about your common interests?

Justas an FYI......when I first approached Bear, I messaged him and spoke to his mind and not to what was between his legs. If I had approached in any other fashion, I never would have been lucky enough to lay claim to his mind, heart and his soul.

~cub~


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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 3:10:21 PM   
Rainfire


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CUB!!!!!!! Hiyas and welcome to CM!! {{{hugs}}}

Ok, end hijack!!

I now return this thread to it's regularly scheduled subject..... 


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Or is this the beginning of the end?"
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RE: no shows - 4/3/2009 3:27:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Pfft on the subject.  (It's old and rehashed anyway.)  I'd rather say hi to the cub.







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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: no shows - 4/4/2009 4:29:54 AM   
Rainfire


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Status: offline 		  I would too but I've gotten my fair share of mod-spanks lately that I don't need to add to the collection for hijacking a thread....

         


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"I have sold my soul to the devil for You, will You still love me when I am soiled, stained and souless in my love for You?
Or is this the beginning of the end?"
Proud member of the Clan Scarlett O'Hair

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RE: no shows - 4/4/2009 4:38:03 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		LOL.  Just imagine the size of Eleven's toy bag!  So many posters to spank.... so little time.




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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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