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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/7/2006 1:07:17 AM

LATEXBABY64

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/7/2006 1:17:41 AM

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Who wants a partner who is so superficial anyways? Value yourself more.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/10/2006 4:48:56 AM

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If the reason he let you go was because he found another.... OR if he is not proving the true reason he let you go... then NO, I would not take him back.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/10/2006 6:08:48 AM

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there is only one Master this girl would ever go back to...
but that is b/c he was her first,lol,
however, b/c of that remaining in touch and his watching over me...well there is still the element of care involved to a certain degree.

but as to any others--RUN--FAST

sub/slave does not equal doormat-ecspecially emotionally...unless its something that floats your boat to begin with.....

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ORIGINAL: Sub03

If your Dom let you go after 9 months together and said the reason that He let you go was because He found another and then a couple weeks later wanted you back would you take Him back????And you hear from another sub He knows differing stories on why He let you go......head games just to mess with your feelings or does he really want you back???? Do you allow Him to play with your emotions like that?? Being let go the first time REALLY hurt......

Any advice greately appreciated......

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/10/2006 7:05:23 AM

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If your Dom let you go after 9 months together and said the reason that He let you go was because He found another and then a couple weeks later wanted you back would you take Him back????

Nope. I don't do leftovers.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/10/2006 7:09:15 AM

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/12/2006 7:30:17 AM

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as an update.......

Should have listened and moved on. Almost lost the new Dom......who is becoming very important to me because of not moving on. And did end up really hurting Him........but luckily He dosent hate me and we are still talking......

thanx for all the advice, wish i would have listened alot sooner.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/12/2006 7:37:44 AM

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Don't feel too bad. I was given similar advice, ignored it, and regret not listening to the voices of reason. That is why I was so adamant to you in this thread.

Don't look back.....stay focused on the future.

Good luck!

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/12/2006 8:11:01 AM

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Yeppers...take him back...

Plan a nice evening at his place........once he has fallen asleep, tie his ass up, by this time he may or may not be awake, either way.....make sure he is awake and stuff a gag in his mouth.

You will need: tweasers and a sharp blade

One by one..........start taking his pubic hairs out with the tweasers, each and every time telling him what a worthless piece of shit he is, if he was going to dump you, he should have been man enough to tell you that the relationship was not working.
Oh yeah, onto the tweasing....AFTER you have pulled out a majority, if not all of his pubic hairs......take that blade and start scraping it across that area........ehhh, use the tip of the blade too........why not.

Once you have done this........take the gag out of his mouth, i am sure you will hear all kinds of comments........tell him to shut the fuck up if he does not want to get left there tied up. Being it is the best thing to do, you may want to at least untie one of his hands....then politely say, time for me to go.............have a wonderfull life..........never contact me again.
<smilez warmly and all that shit>

I think some of my sadistic side is showing today...hmmmzzz

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/17/2006 5:05:59 PM

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Hmm…. Why is it done, finished, over, et al seems to be interpreted into we will do it again later? I haven’t ever said “that’s it! It’s hiatus time. Go snivel and cry till my current fascination fades and then I’ll be back.” Done is done. Stick a fork I it and start heating up the oven for the next one.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/18/2006 12:17:56 AM

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i had someone pull what you did sub03 i will say i never went back sometimes when a good thing happens its best to fallow the path that is given or you could be missing a dream of a lifetime

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/18/2006 7:48:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

(RUN!! Run away, run like your hairs on fire,

Actually, in that situation it would be Stop, Drop, and Roll

I couldn't resist, sorry. The rest of your post, and your advice, is something I totally agree with and applaud, as well as everyone else who spouted RUN!

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/18/2006 7:53:54 AM

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another thought...why the hell would you let a sub go because you found another...isn't two birds in hand better than whatever else?

Some subs don't want that, I do believe they have a choice in the matter.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/18/2006 8:03:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: smilezz
I think some of my sadistic side is showing today...hmmmzzz

smilezz, you RULE!

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/18/2006 2:36:50 PM

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yes you should take him back...take him back and make him feel as special as you can....then find someone better.

whats good for the goose and all that.

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RE: should you take Him back or not?? - 2/18/2006 2:48:09 PM

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That's something you need to consider BEFORE you hurt the one your with. Why should she go back to him, when there is a good chance he wil do the same thing again in the future?

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YOU PEPOLE ARE TO HARSH I CAN DEFINATELY RELATE TO THE GUY. I MEAN SOMTIMES A NEW SUB SEAMS MORE ATRACTIVE THAN THE ONE I HAVE NOW, BUT THEN AFTER A WILE YOU REALIZE WHAT YOU GAVE UP AND YOU HAVE TO GET HER BACK SOMEHWO

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