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truesub4u -> Down Right Horny!!! (1/27/2006 11:31:38 PM)

We've seen post on all different aspects of who owns who.... who pleases who... etc... I have a question here. This could of probably been post in a ask a sub, or ask a Dom. But I wanted to ask both.

Ok we all know when the Dom wants to play... it's play time.

But what if sub/slave wants to play?

I was reading RiotGirls post on Masterbation Restrictions. So I got to thinking.. what if sub/slave didn't want just to masterbate. What if sub/slave down right wants to play, scene, (depends on how others put it) or just simply wanted to fuck because they are horney. Doms are allowed to get horney.. are sub/slaves?

Now keep in mind.. this is focusing simply on SEX... not the "special bonding" "Emotional bonding" .... I'm talking.. being with someone that you have been with.. be it short time.. or long time.. And just by God horny.. wanting to have either slow loving sex.. or hard play scene because sub/slave is blossoming and raring to go!





RiotGirl -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 12:09:03 AM)

what happens when you want to play?

you wait

till they do




ExistentialSteel -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 12:20:58 AM)

If we knew how not to let being horny affect us, civilization wouldn't be prgressing quite as fast.




Wolfie648 -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 1:27:55 AM)

quote:

We've seen post on all different aspects of who owns who.... who pleases who... etc... I have a question here. This could of probably been post in a ask a sub, or ask a Dom. But I wanted to ask both.
Ok we all know when the Dom wants to play... it's play time.

But what if sub/slave wants to play?


quote:

a) sub - entice, enhance, tingle, jingle, play whatever card you can to get into it (unless told otherwise and you believe in following directions).

b) slave - do what you are told. As I've said a number of times before slaves have no choice (my world not everyones)


quote:

Now keep in mind.. this is focusing simply on SEX... not the "special bonding" "Emotional bonding" .... I'm talking.. being with someone that you have been with.. be it short time.. or long time.. And just by God horny.. wanting to have either slow loving sex.. or hard play scene because sub/slave is blossoming and raring to go!


quote:

Who has the power...who wants to serve the power/control or not. Sex or otherwise. POWER/CONTROL or lack thereof.

O' dear! Loved by one hate by millions.


D (owner of j).





IronBear -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 5:01:31 AM)

There are three beautiful techniques which all kajirae are or should be familiar with:

1. Now seeing we live on earth, we’ll forget the flowers in the books but stay with colour. A horny kajira only need scatter yellow flowers on her Master’s bed, and place one behind her left ear.

2. If she has long hair, she ties it in a knot and hangs it over her left shoulder.

3. She lights the red lamp in the place where sleeping mat/furs are.


In each case it is a mute begging for slave rape by her Master.




MHOO314 -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 5:42:38 AM)

As long as he begs...smiles




Jewelry -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 5:55:04 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

We've seen post on all different aspects of who owns who.... who pleases who... etc... I have a question here. This could of probably been post in a ask a sub, or ask a Dom. But I wanted to ask both.

Ok we all know when the Dom wants to play... it's play time.

But what if sub/slave wants to play?

I was reading RiotGirls post on Masterbation Restrictions. So I got to thinking.. what if sub/slave didn't want just to masterbate. What if sub/slave down right wants to play, scene, (depends on how others put it) or just simply wanted to fuck because they are horney. Doms are allowed to get horney.. are sub/slaves?

Now keep in mind.. this is focusing simply on SEX... not the "special bonding" "Emotional bonding" .... I'm talking.. being with someone that you have been with.. be it short time.. or long time.. And just by God horny.. wanting to have either slow loving sex.. or hard play scene because sub/slave is blossoming and raring to go!




From my experience, my wants were always denied. I think He enjoyed to see me humiliate myself and beg for sex. Denying me at that point gave him a little sadistic pleasure going as far as actually spitting in my face and laughing while I plead desperately for some kind of release. :/




yourMissTress -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 6:04:47 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

As long as he begs...smiles



Oh yes, I do like you Mistress Hathor.




JohnWarren -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 6:28:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u
But what if sub/slave wants to play?


Never hurts to ask. The dom has the option of saying "no" or "now." (One letter, so much difference.)




MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 6:38:08 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u
But what if sub/slave wants to play?

Doms are allowed to get horney.. are sub/slaves?

Now keep in mind.. this is focusing simply on SEX... not the "special bonding" "Emotional bonding" .... I'm talking.. being with someone that you have been with.. be it short time.. or long time.. And just by God horny.. wanting to have either slow loving sex.. or hard play scene because sub/slave is blossoming and raring to go!



I find that there is nothing wrong with a girl (sub or slave) being a bit ............."assertive", when it comes to being horny. If I don't feel like doing the horizontal hula then I simply tell them no. At this time they can either wait (like Riotgirl stated) or they can beg to fix it themselves. But begging is a different thread all together. [:D]




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 7:28:16 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u
I was reading RiotGirls post on Masterbation Restrictions. So I got to thinking.. what if sub/slave didn't want just to masterbate. What if sub/slave down right wants to play, scene, (depends on how others put it) or just simply wanted to fuck because they are horney. Doms are allowed to get horney.. are sub/slaves?

Frankly, if it's me I just say "I'm really horny, can we please go fuck?"

Sometimes I will even say "I'd love a good quick hard fuck right now" or "I'd really enjoy a slow soft love session"

But I've had lots of experience in asking for what I want sexually and have learned it's really the only way to know that I might get what I want. Most women are not comfortable asking for what they want, ESPECIALLY if it's sex.

So I'd say- ASK for it. We always talk about communication, well this is one of those parts we mean.




Oumae -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 7:44:18 AM)

I don't mind being asked/begged for it..... I will make the decision on whether it happens or not.

Oumae




Tristan -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 7:54:40 AM)

I see nothing wrong with a sub/slave taking the initiative with sex. That doesn’t change the D/s dynamic. It just adds another element to the dynamic.




mcross -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 8:05:21 AM)

it would be a very dumb and stupid act if a dom said no . and it would show you that the sub is not loved in any way shape or form .
i am all for it .
love on darling




Oumae -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 8:19:42 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mcross

it would be a very dumb and stupid act if a dom said no . and it would show you that the sub is not loved in any way shape or form .
i am all for it .
love on darling


I have said "No" to a sub and still loved them.

Oumae




la90066 -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 9:36:58 AM)

Hey... To each his/her own, but I'm personally not so rigid in the whole Dom/sub thing.

Every girl I've been with has found some cute little way to let me know she's horny (with some just flat out saying, "Hey... I'M HORNY!!!"), and yeah... sure... I'd jump her. Why not, it's not like I'm not getting anything out of it either, ya know?

Now, whether she's allowed to cum? Well... That's a different story... [;)] hee hee hee (just kidding... maybe... [;)] <--- Evil)

[:D] hee hee hee





RiotGirl -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 9:37:55 AM)

LOL i get told ALL the time and i am still loved. i usually start out with "i'm horny" and he says No. i then go to "can i kiss it" and he says No, then i go to "can i atleast touch it" and he says no. Then i get down to, "can i have my vibrator" and he says No and then i'll ask "can i have a spanking" and he says no. some where in there, i'll ask to just "suck on something" and he says No

but i really neednt ask. He always knows where i am and would lap up anything greedily. i only ask, because i can and because i just MIGHT get a yes. Its about a million to one, but if i ask about a couple hundred questions, all worded different and differently in a day then i'm that much closer!

"can i masterbate"
"can i touch myself"
"can i go take a bath"
"can you open your lock box"
"can i sit on you"
"can i bite your nipple"


Though i have noticed, that if the same question gets repeated too often chastity belts get put on.. hands get cuffed. Which leads to even MORE frustration.

The really hilarious part of it all, to me, is his "no"s are a turn on. So while i'm being denied, i'm also being turned on.. and then to be cuffed.. ekk i go up walls. LOL and then i'm in trouble.

Gee if he could just say "i dont care" i KNOW my sex drive would just drop and i wouldnt be horny. Whatta a head screw!




michaelGA -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 9:42:46 AM)

one word:

aphrodisiacs

LOL




windy135 -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 9:58:51 AM)

In my limited experiance the Doms pleasure always came first.. and mine second .. if it did come at all..




Petruchio -> RE: Down Right Horny!!! (1/28/2006 11:11:25 AM)

quote:

If we knew how not to let being horny affect us, civilization wouldn't be prgressing quite as fast.


Existential! What a masterful dose of irony!





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