RainydayNE
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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf Why? Because our society and culture feels that it is wrong? In similar situations those things were done and it did not change the culture, it only caused more anger and resentment against the West. not because OUR society things it's wrong, because there are organizations WITHIN the culture who feel that it is wrong. quote:
ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf Nilla's feel that those involved in BDSM are anything from degenerates to psychologically imbalanced and want to force those involved to act how they feel is the right way. What is the difference here? this doesn't have anything to do with this at all. "vanilla" people can have whatever opinion they want but 1) i don't see commercials on TV saying "we need to force those crazy kinky people to go back to missionary style sex!" so they're keeping their opinions to themselves, and 2) if Dom/mes were keeping subs/slaves against their will or not giving them the right to make a decision, then yeah, something would be wrong. =p that is the way alot of women in this situation feel. they don't have the right to say something is wrong, whether or not they think it is. heck, America was a "democratic country" when you had Jim Crow and poll taxes going on against black people. having a vote doesn't really mean anything. if a woman in Afghanistan has the technical "right" to vote, but her husband/family, within the confines of their own home, threaten to beat/kill her if she goes, then what? quote:
ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf I truly feel that is a culture/nation is going to evolve beyond certain practices, it must be done with all the horrific pitfalls that come with it. Otherwise what motivates them to change, other than coercion? people in afghanistan and their allies are trying to point this situation out for what it is. i still think if people within the culture think it's wrong, but the "system," a la male privilege doesn't want them to be heard, they have every right to seek help outside their culture. and if they ask us, we have every right to help. i find it somewhat unnerving how easy it is for people to explain this away.
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