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Fadingthought -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (5/23/2009 2:38:54 AM)
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Oh great, here we go, 'You aren't much of a dominant' argument.' Do you honestly care what people think about you over the internet? If that is how you gauge yourself in your private life, I'd suggest getting a life.
I gave my opinion on this thread, you and one other poster seem to have been offended and felt the need to personally attack me. To the effect of vague threats about how the internet is not anonymous and how you thought you knew about me.
I am not afraid to call you out on it.
But the irony of it all is that you seem think that I'm the one picking the fight.
Reread my posts if you doubt me, I've been very clear, I only said in my personal experience that my opinions hold true, I don't claim to know it all.
You are the one claiming that I'm not much of a dominant, meanwhile trying to claim that I'm the one looking for a fight.
Seriously, where have I claimed that anyone's experience is invalid or they are not a real dom(as you have just done).
I am expressing my viewpoint, you are the one claiming I'm a fake.
*yawn*
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Huh? This is getting bizarre.
Someone who doesn't care how other people perceive him isn't much of a dominant, frankly. To be in control, it is essential to be able to adjust the motion of others. Therefore, it is important to me to know how people react to things I say and do, as I want to lead them toward an objective, or at minimum, get them out of my way. If every time I opened my mouth, people said, "What an asshole," or, "He always talks in generalities, and can't seem to be specific in a helpful way," no one would take me seriously, and I would have no power over anyone's life.
This thread is about what people think about dommes who want generous men. Lots of people have posted, for many pages now. The only person who seems to be spoiling for a fight with multiple posters is you. If lots of people are taking issue with your posts, we might not all be wrong. I've known quite a few women who have done sex work for a living. Two weeks ago, I saw one of them get a PhD. I've also known women and men who have all kinds of different relationships to money. There are people from all over the world who post here, and they have specific life experience that contradicts your generalizations about "dommes who want generous men," and other generalizations of yours that seem rather off topic.
People will call BS if you post dopey things. They'll call BS if you don't sometimes, too. That's life. But it's a guarantee if you say things that are illogical or false, as you did in the last post I quoted.
I would be very happy to read anything you wrote that was based in concrete life experience, and relevant to the topic of the thread.
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