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LookieNoNookie -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 7:54:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Newsensation Hi all. I've noticed that there are a lot of domme women on this site seeking submissive men who are "generous". I'm not talking about the professional dommes who advertise here, I'm looking more at the non pros. I'm just curious to see what others think about this? Personally, it seems to me that many of these women are on here simply to take advantage of naive men whom they have no intention of actually doing anything with in person. There was even one profile I saw where the girl (she was about 20, so she was a girl!) had a "wish list" of items listed that she was hoping people would buy for her. I don't know... I suppose financial submission is a legitemate form of this lifestyle, but as a sub guy I get rather annoyed and offended by this. Bud....you hooked up on 04.09.09....and you're 28. In the Vanilla world...you're old enough to have been rejected at least a few times. Most guys by the time they're 11 get the whole "chics have the advantage" concept fairly well wired. Dial it down pal....there are exactly (I've counted) 4,322,903 male subs to every Domme....when you eliminate the Pros, the guys who pretend to be women....and.....TG's, TS's and a myriad of other T's..... It's pretty much you, me, and 22,639,812 male subs....to every sincere woman...and you know what? That chic is still weeding out emails from prospective sub males from October, 2004. (And by the way....I'm still holding ticket # 14,737,593....so wait your damned turn).

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:04:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt Probably because you are looking for someone real and compatible, Panda. Most of the guys making this complaint are seeking a 20 year old supermodel with a whip. [;)] I know you probably just meant that as an observation, but I took it as one of the kindest compliments anyone's ever paid me here. Thank you!

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:26:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Have to remember, Panda, that within certain age groups/body types, it can be more common. It doesn't happen so often when one doesn't especially only read the profiles of pin up Dommes. I suppose you're right. If I were a couple of hundred years younger, and cruising the profiles of the 20- and 30-something dommes, I might notice it more. Come to think of it, of the profiles I have seen fitting that category, I think most of them have fallen in that range. Still not very many, but of the ones I've seen, I think that's where most of them seem to be.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:26:50 PM)
~fr~ Generous. I do want a man to be generous. Generous of spirit, of honesty, of time... and yes, I expect him to buy me dinner! One of the things that amazes me about kink dating is how incredibly cheap some of the men are. Like, not offering to buy a coffee cheap. These are the men that don't get a second meeting. I don't use "generous" as a criterion in my profile, but it sure is in my mind! Monetary cheapness really does link up to miserliness in other areas.

LadyPact -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:28:36 PM)
Oddly enough, the word "generous" is found absolutely no where on My profile. Guess who has it listed on his?

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:30:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus ~fr~ Generous. I do want a man to be generous. Generous of spirit, of honesty, of time... and yes, I expect him to buy me dinner! One of the things that amazes me about kink dating is how incredibly cheap some of the men are. Like, not offering to buy a coffee cheap. Seriously? That bad? What a bunch of dweebs. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscusThese are the men that don't get a second meeting. I don't use "generous" as a criterion in my profile, but it sure is in my mind! Monetary cheapness really does link up to miserliness in other areas. I totally agree. I think it can say a lot about a person. I'm not sure it's a universal indicator, but I do think it's close enough that it's a reasonable one upon which to rely.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:36:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda Are there really that many? I see guys bring this up on a regular basis, but I just haven't seen it as all that common myself. Have to remember, Panda, that within certain age groups/body types, it can be more common. It doesn't happen so often when one doesn't especially only read the profiles of pin up Dommes. Are you implying that we are not pinup doms?? I am appalled!! [;)]

LadyPact -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:38:45 PM)
Won't speak for you, LH, but I think My pin up days went out at least five years ago. Now, I just rely on skill. <sigh>

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:39:32 PM)
Pish Tosh! You never lose that pinup quality once you have it! [:D]

CorporalPunisher -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:41:38 PM)
Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze! A woman who offers sexual services in return for mony is a WHORE. Plain and simple. You can't dress it up as "tribute," or "I don't have intercourse with my subs." It's all bullshit. If you take money to give sexual gratification, you are a prostitute. Which is fine with me, but don't try to dress it up with all this "domme" bs.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:42:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CorporalPunisher Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze! A woman who offers sexual services in return for mony is a WHORE. Plain and simple. You can't dress it up as "tribute," or "I don't have intercourse with my subs." It's all bullshit. If you take money to give sexual gratification, you are a prostitute. Which is fine with me, but don't try to dress it up with all this "domme" bs. Dude. Read the whole thread before you start hurling bile, okay?

LadyPact -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:43:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CorporalPunisher Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze! A woman who offers sexual services in return for mony is a WHORE. Plain and simple. You can't dress it up as "tribute," or "I don't have intercourse with my subs." It's all bullshit. If you take money to give sexual gratification, you are a prostitute. Which is fine with me, but don't try to dress it up with all this "domme" bs. Here's the second time I've said this today. That "in reply to" feature could really get someone blasted.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:45:03 PM)
I always figure folks are using "quick reply". Or is buying a coffee some kind of new euphemism? I am so out of the loop!

Rover -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:56:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CorporalPunisher Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze! A woman who offers sexual services in return for mony is a WHORE. Plain and simple. You can't dress it up as "tribute," or "I don't have intercourse with my subs." It's all bullshit. If you take money to give sexual gratification, you are a prostitute. Which is fine with me, but don't try to dress it up with all this "domme" bs. Don't get out much? You really should... it's a big world out there with lots to see. Maybe a few things you haven't seen before. John

DesFIP -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:57:47 PM)
I'm impressed by all you list keepers. I can't even find where I left the grocery list!

Kaiel -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 8:58:02 PM)
<----goes to check her profile... nope no generous there! However, I do agree with one of the previous posters, if you don't like a profile, there is this button... it says "next profile", click it. you don't have to read and reply to Domme's that want something that you are not offering. Good luck, happy hunting...

antipode -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 10:10:11 PM)
quote: as a sub guy I get rather annoyed and offended by this Turn your computer off, if you're that easily offended. I don't know about the "dommes", but women mentioning they're looking for "generous men" are normally hookers trying stealth advertising, to stay within the law.

antipode -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 10:11:15 PM)
quote: I wonder if there are "professional subs" I've seen a few... as in, noticed [;)]

Andalusite -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/4/2009 11:24:45 PM)
Yeah, there are a couple of pro-submissives who post here, and I've met a couple socially (not by paying them). I don't have anything about "generous men" in my profile, but I do kind of expect the men I date to treat me, at least the first couple of times. To me, it's part of being gentlemanly, like holding the door open - not a dealbreaker if he doesn't, but a positive thing if he does. Little presents are also nice, but they needn't be anything expensive. A single rosebud from 7-11, a little tiny box with a See's chocolate-raspberry truffle, and a sandwich from Subway costs a total of maybe $5, but would be really sweet, and thoughtful. [:D]

Tslaveboy -> RE: What do you think of all the dommes seeking "generous" men? (4/5/2009 12:17:12 AM)
Sounds like high school. Does he have a car? Did he buy you a ring? Did he take you out (as in spending money on a date)? I guess things don't change much for us guys.

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