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RE: *forced* oral - 6/23/2009 11:58:03 AM

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as a male sub new to this i due not see where it is forced? ypu will due as told and take it! isnt that why we are subs? i have no desire to suck a cuck but if told to i will! to me that would be showing my willingnes to commit!

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/23/2009 3:18:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: MarsBonfire

For the most part, "forced" anything in BDSM or kink is the equivilent of ol' Braer Rabbit in the Uncle Remus stories, bound up in tar, feigning dismay at the thought of being thrown into the briar patch... (where of course, is exactly where he wants to go, in order to escape.) Subs are often this same way.

I'm definitely going to steal that explanation.

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/26/2009 1:33:57 AM

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it's all about Mpph fmmm hmmmmmpphhh......

ooh, you mean being given "forced" oral, I dunno, maybe they're ticklish?

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/26/2009 2:30:33 AM

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Maybe it can be a moral question as well. I have spoken to a man who wants to be kidnapped and for 48 hours be a total slave without any chanse of escape. He is not allowed to say no to anything and if he does it shouldn't matter, I should just ignore it. Of course he understands that oral sex is something I would "force" him to have.

And now to the "problem". He has never been with a man, what so ever, sexually. This is a fantasy of his and he has thought about so long that he is convinced that he wants it and are going to do this. So what if he discovers that he don't like it at all, he even hates it and want to leave NOW. I'm sure he will let me know, one way or another. So is it then moraly "right" to do as he said erlier and ignore him and force it to happen? Or is it moraly "wrong" to do it as he realy didn't know what he wanted? Becouse that could be realy forced oral sex...

Please excuse my bad spelling...

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/26/2009 9:51:13 PM

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I'm still wondering why "male" was in quotes.

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/27/2009 6:44:11 AM

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because it's the "cool" thing to do....

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/27/2009 8:44:07 AM

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"Forced" is a bit of a misnomer. But It's easier to refer to this form of play as being "forced" than it is to say "erotically coercive domination, based on overcoming irrational homophobia."

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RE: *forced* oral - 6/28/2009 4:16:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MarsBonfire

"Forced" is a bit of a misnomer. But It's easier to refer to this form of play as being "forced" than it is to say "erotically coercive domination, based on overcoming irrational homophobia."

Yes, you are probably right, it's a overcoming thing. Feelings are often irrationals but neverless real and has to be treated as a fact. But overcoming or not is not anything you can know and treat as they are overcoming. Well I guess you can and maybe you can succeed in getting them to disepear but lets say you are wrong and they will not go away and you are only doing things even worse buy forcing, then it's to late.

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