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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:05:13 PM   
osf


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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:05:58 PM   
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even without the massage.



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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:13:23 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:17:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: playfulotter

I agree with a lot of the answers already given....for me though I have found love mostly on vanilla sites but they had a profile on a BDSM site too but I never met them on the BDSM site....Just my two   .....It is all a game of numbers though...good luck!  I did meet a special man on bondage.com once though...


yes, i have had a profile myself on a vanilla site and also here on collarme as do a few of the O/others i have met along the way.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:20:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Chicagobaby

Someone here told me not to be looking for love here...Why NOT, I ask? I want and need it all. So the question is... can someone really find their true love here? Does BDSM and Vanilla love go together?  


I know, for me at least, I couldn't have one without the other.

I can't imagine wanting to submit to someone without the love. I know there are many that do, and more power to them, but for me, if i didn't love my Master/husband, i wouldn't be doing this.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:21:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Chicagobaby

Someone here told me not to be looking for love here...Why NOT, I ask? I want and need it all. So the question is... can someone really find their true love here? Does BDSM and Vanilla love go together?  


Love does not make a distinction between vanilla and BDSM

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:24:10 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:25:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I found a really fun play partner, lover and friend here on CM... but no true love.   I quit looking for love, a long time ago.  Even if I came across true love, I'd probably over compartmentalize, analyze, internalize and scrutinize it anyway. 

Besides, I found I have more room and comfort in my bed, if I kick him out and send him home when we are done.  I guess I'm not much of a nester.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:28:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Anyone else getting tired of the fucking Aileen rubbing it in our faces?



Jeff


I give massages with happy endings too......

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:35:12 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:37:42 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:38:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I found a really fun play partner, lover and friend here on CM... but no true love.   I quit looking for love, a long time ago.  Even if I came across true love, I'd probably over compartmentalize, analyze, internalize and scrutinize it anyway. 

Besides, I found I have more room and comfort in my bed, if I kick him out and send him home when we are done.  I guess I'm not much of a nester.

WinD



i thought subbies weren't supposed to think

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:49:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		There you go, osf, thinking again.  Might wanna stop that before you  hurt something.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:49:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf
i thought subbies weren't supposed to think


We probably wouldn't have to, if we could find dominants to do it properly - for us!  That's why I leave the driving to him, but the navigating to me.




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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:50:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

There you go, osf, thinking again.  Might wanna stop that before you  hurt something.


ty for your concern

but there is a lot of truth in my statement

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:52:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
i thought subbies weren't supposed to think


We probably wouldn't have to, if we could find dominants to do it properly - for us!  That's why I leave the driving to him, but the navigating to me.






i need a navigator subbie mine suks

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:52:54 PM   
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i thought subbies weren't supposed to think


quote:

but there is a lot of truth in my statement



I have no doubt, osf, that it is true that you think that. 

Luckily I have not run into guys like you.  Men who interest me would never in a million years think that a submissive woman wasn't supposed to think.  I myself rather like quality in the people I associate with.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:54:36 PM   
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-if no, then yes..I found it once
-if yes, I found it twice

-I lost it also twice

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:54:53 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

quote:

i thought subbies weren't supposed to think


quote:

but there is a lot of truth in my statement



I have no doubt, osf, that it is true that you think that. 

Luckily I have not run into guys like you.  Men who interest me would never in a million years think that a submissive woman wasn't supposed to think.  I myself rather like quality in the people I associate with.


if i don't get the primary reason for the relationship no matter if i get all the rest, it's not going to last

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 12/30/2009 1:57:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Osf, you are kicking the wrong tires here, sorry.  I think a Navigator is probably way too much vehicle for you. 

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