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Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 3:53:28 PM   
Chicagobaby


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Status: offline 		Someone here told me not to be looking for love here...Why NOT, I ask? I want and need it all. So the question is... can someone really find their true love here? Does BDSM and Vanilla love go together?  
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 3:54:11 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 3:55:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Extremely common question. Usually, those asking it really aren't asking for the answer, which of course is "yes, anything is possible, duh". Most are looking for a discussion, and hopefully, validation for their hopes that they'll find true love on this website.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 3:57:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		A resounding yes.  But it takes work but so does any relationship.  Like my mother always told me, "nothing worth having ever came easy"

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 3:57:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose it would depend on your definition of "true love".

Contrary to popular thought, considering that such searches involve looking for an individual (and their very specific traits), the medium used in initiating contact with that individual is irrelevant.


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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 3:58:20 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: Chicagobaby

Someone here told me not to be looking for love here...Why NOT, I ask? I want and need it all. So the question is... can someone really find their true love here? Does BDSM and Vanilla love go together?  


I think so.

(Finding others who agree, however, is the tougher question).

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 4:02:33 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 4:08:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually Kazinar and i met through CM, and W/we are getting married this year!

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 4:28:48 PM   
MidnightKat5000


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Status: offline 		LOL, I found my bdsm/vanilla love in the most unsual of places: adultfriendfinder.com.  Weird, huh?  The thing is I wasn't looking for it. Cliche as it is, love totally found me.  So, if I can find love with a true, sincere, genuine, awesome, person in a rat-hole of a site such as AFF, you sure as hell can find it here.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 4:35:57 PM   
mdr080480


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Status: offline 		Vague answer: Anything is possible. And there are stories of it happening.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 4:36:35 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 5:05:22 PM   
antipode


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Someone here told me not to be looking for love here


I do not believe you can find love by looking for it.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 5:08:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Chicagobaby
Does BDSM and Vanilla love go together?  

No, but love doesnt have to be vanilla. Fox and I met here and we are getting married in January. My Angel and his girl Silk met here and they are getting married in August. There is no question if we are in love, but it is definitely not vanilla.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 5:21:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's wonderful about Angel and Silk, DV.  I hadn't heard.  Please send two people I've never met my best wishes.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 5:24:15 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 5:27:35 PM   
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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 6:08:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you know what you want, and can have patience to find it, you can find anything here. The key is knowing what you want. Many want a fairy tale, that's not going to happen. BUT if you desire a good trusting honest relationship with your own kind of kink and leadership, well, you can definitely find that here.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 6:17:26 PM   
Mikalsheart


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Status: offline 		Don't "look for love" love will find you....sometimes in the oddest places.......LOL

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 6:30:27 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Love and BDSM exist in a great many relationships.
Whoever told you this isn't interested in such a relationship however, and said this to attempt to get you to agree to a casual sex relationship with him.
Just move on.

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RE: Can you find true love here? - 4/11/2009 6:32:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with a lot of the answers already given....for me though I have found love mostly on vanilla sites but they had a profile on a BDSM site too but I never met them on the BDSM site....Just my two   .....It is all a game of numbers though...good luck!  I did meet a special man on bondage.com once though...

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