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do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 1:06:25 AM

azjojoba

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One mystery I have always wondered is whether dominant women like to see their sub have a hard-on when they are told to take their clothes off. Perhaps they like their sub guy to be hard because it shows she still has what it takes, or does she get angry because she doesn't want sex to be part of the scene? Just wonderin.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 1:13:45 AM

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You'll probably get more than just one type of answer to that question, because it's a matter of opinion. Perhaps you should have used a poll, rather than a yes/no question.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 1:27:13 AM

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NormalOutside is entirely correct: we're all going to have different answers.

Speaking for myself, I can only say "sometimes" - if I'm expecting that they're eager to be in my presence/in service to me, then yes, I like seeing that additional sign that they're feeling happy (happy being a relative term, of course) - if, on the other hand, they've royally screwed-up and are about to be disciplined and I see an erect penis, well, I'm not pleased at all (because I don't like the thought that they're somehow looking forward to the discipline - and yes, I do know that the erection could be signifying something other than "happy" but that's not what instantly comes to mind when I see the thing bobbing and swaying in the wind).

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 5:25:25 AM

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It shows me my male subs are happy to see me so, my answer is yes....

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 5:49:37 AM

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I do like to see an erect cock on my sub when ordered to take his clothes off whether or not sex is going to be part of the scene. If there is no erection and sex is part of the scene that is easily taken care of.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 7:08:37 AM

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my mistress likes to see me naked .....clean on the inside as well as outside ...and with a nice hardon

because it shows her im happy that she is here to see me

if im sporting a nice hard on for her chances are we will have sex first before she fucks me with her strapons and fist me after because then she will see if she can get me to cum for her 2 times while shes there

love sharing that with her and yes i love when she cums too

see when she cums she squirts and most times if im hitting her g spot just right she can shoot more fluid then i can and i love watching and being a part of that

have fun ladys on easter ...hugs mal

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 7:43:22 AM

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as long as it can be used as a clothes tree..and a hanger is available..

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 8:01:36 AM

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As a Domme I told my subs that I expected them to be erect as my "tribute", that I saw it as a sign of their respect for me. I had one sub that had to take Viagra and I understand that with older subs they don't always react as quickly as a younger one so saw this as no sign of disrespect. These subs did not get to penetrate me, but I still looked forward to seeing that just being in my presence excited them.

That's only my opinion and certainly doesn't cover what anyone else would necessarily want. I know that some Dommes are the opposite; they do not wish to see an erection. It's really a personal decision.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 8:42:59 AM

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An erection is just blood moving into a penis. Think of how often men get them... it can be completely meaningless, and have no connection to ME at all.

If I have a use for the erection, great, if not, I just ignore it. It will go away in time. I don't regard the ability to get hard or not as a gauge of submission.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 8:49:22 AM

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quote:

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An erection is just blood moving into a penis. Think of how often men get them... it can be completely meaningless, and have no connection to ME at all.

If I have a use for the erection, great, if not, I just ignore it. It will go away in time. I don't regard the ability to get hard or not as a gauge of submission.

I agree on an intellectual level but on an emotional level I am flattered when Fox gets hard just from a hug. I don't take it as an insult though when he isn't hard. Boy can't be hard all the time, just imagine the problems that might create and the discomfort.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 9:23:51 AM

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Yes I like his cock to be erect.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 9:50:51 AM

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Big fan of the erect cock myself. To the extent that my interest in a man is very much contingent upon his enthusiasm. I'm glad there are women here who are willing to play with the guys with limp noodles; it would be pretty sad if every woman was like me in that respect...

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 10:34:28 AM

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I love to see a ready man (cock)! I like them in other conditions as well and besides... if I want it hard or soft, I know just what to do to effect that change! Such opportunity... wowza! An erect cock sure beats two hours of pumping on it to get it hard... so... yes, yes, yes!

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 12:12:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama
Big fan of the erect cock myself. To the extent that my interest in a man is very much contingent upon his enthusiasm

My sentiments exactly. I am understanding when there are reasons for the absence of a hard on, but much prefer one who is physically and emotionally excited about our encounter/my touch. M

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 12:18:25 PM

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tooo much flacid just makes me giggle, they look so much better hard.
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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 12:19:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

One mystery I have always wondered is whether dominant women like to see their sub have a hard-on when they are told to take their clothes off. Perhaps they like their sub guy to be hard because it shows she still has what it takes, or does she get angry because she doesn't want sex to be part of the scene? Just wonderin.

LOVE THEM!! (this Domme anyway)

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 1:45:27 PM

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I like to see an erect cock whether or not there will be sex involved. That said I was with a sub that had ED and it did not bother me, it had nothing to do with me and I was able to enjoy him in many ways. It did however, bother him because he felt I was being cheated some how. I never had a reason to doubt his interest or excitement to see me as there were many other signs of that.

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 1:54:37 PM

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If I want to use his cock, I like it.

If I want to use his body and his intelligence to sack the groceries and carry them in the house without squashing the bread or cracking the eggs or forgetting the milk in the truck on a hot day (ew), then an erection is either irrelevant or possibly an annoyance.

But if washing the dishes gets him happy, or washing my back, or a ton of other things, it's kind of value-neutral for me. He's going to come when I decide, after all, and that's not going to be while he's working. Probably. (evil grin)

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 2:08:32 PM

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If I want to use his body and his intelligence to sack the groceries and carry them in the house without squashing the bread or cracking the eggs or forgetting the milk in the truck on a hot day (ew), then an erection is either irrelevant or possibly an annoyance.

Aww, come on, like it's not cute to see him wandering around embarrassed by a bit of a bulge running across his thigh? ;)

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RE: do dommes like erect cocks? - 4/12/2009 2:36:25 PM

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Well what the fuck is a limp dick good for anyway!

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