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LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 7:43:01 PM)

When I was in grad school the first time the fad was "higher order thinking skills".  You can imagine the ruckus when I pointed out that not everyone was going to be able to get past level 3, let alone make it to 7!




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 7:47:13 PM)

Nnnyessss . . .  When I was at teaching college that sort of point of view was perhaps even more severely frowned upon.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 7:53:31 PM)

Hmmm.... that was when I was getting my MA in Education, yanno... [8|]




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 8:00:25 PM)

Oh right - I see that I'm outranked!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 8:02:31 PM)

LOL!!  I held all kinds of dinosaur views---I dared to say that if we were graduating kids from school unable to read, write, balance a checkbook, and fill out a job application we were doing them a grave disservice!  I am sure you heard the hissing from far away, and though it was a geyser or small volcano. [8|]




Venatrix -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 8:09:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

V, I think Azjojoba might well be right when he says that 'most people would agree that female dominant fucking is when the female is on top'.  


When it comes to consensual sex, vanilla or kinky, the woman is always dominant.  She either opens her legs or she doesn't.  The position is immaterial.




SnowRanger -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 9:09:38 PM)

That settles the issue.  Bravo Zulu Venatrix!




azjojoba -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 11:06:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

V, I think Azjojoba might well be right when he says that 'most people would agree that female dominant fucking is when the female is on top'.  


When it comes to consensual sex, vanilla or kinky, the woman is always dominant.  She either opens her legs or she doesn't.  The position is immaterial.


I agree with you. Women have the ultimate choice -- they can spread their legs or close them. Men are at a disadvantage because if we are offered a woman's treasures we have no choice but to submit to her request. It's all at a DNA level.

Men that think they are in a position of power are totally kidding themselves. Women know all of this, so they can award us or punish us by giving sex or denying it. Women have the ultimate power, but I'm not sure that most of them know it. I don't know why dominant women don't like to fuck, but it could be because they haven't figured out how powerful fucking makes them.

Porn movies with dom women don't show fucking because it usually doesn't happen. That's especially true is the woman are older than 30. It's very difficult to make a movie people want to watch with women who don't like sex but who are dominant.




YoungLust -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/24/2009 11:48:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

V, I think Azjojoba might well be right when he says that 'most people would agree that female dominant fucking is when the female is on top'.  


When it comes to consensual sex, vanilla or kinky, the woman is always dominant.  She either opens her legs or she doesn't.  The position is immaterial.
Men are at a disadvantage because if we are offered a woman's treasures we have no choice but to submit to her request. It's all at a DNA level.



Well that just sounds like a lack of self-control. Sounds like an excuse I've heard people use for cheating.

But I do agree with the original point, although I've turned down sex with more women than I've had it with.




azjojoba -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 12:00:42 AM)

It has nothing to do with self control. Us men are hard wired to respond to women, but women don't respond to the same program. Women are in 100% control of the sex act.

Some of us men think we would be the chosen few who are able to get women hot, but after menopause you might as well forgive or




Venatrix -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 8:43:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

I don't know why dominant women don't like to fuck, but it could be because they haven't figured out how powerful fucking makes them.



This is another notion that you need to disabuse yourself of.  My experience has been that more dominant women like sex than don't.  I certainly like it a great deal and I have no interest in a relationship with a sub where sex is not part of the equation.  And your other contention, that post-menopausal women don't want sex, is also wrong.  I'm not going to argue that some post-menopausal women don't like it, but I know plenty of older women who do.  When I was cleaning out my mother's flat, I came across some rather steamy love letters that were written to her when she was well into her 70s.

I will be 50 in three weeks and my sex drive is as high as it ever was.  This is probably too much information, but, as I wait for the right man to come along, I'm wearing out vibrators at an alarming rate.  If your contention holds true, that must be because they don't make them as sturdily as they used to.  Couldn't possibly be from frequent use, could it? 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 8:46:29 AM)

Dominant women generally love to fuck---I know I do!  But, I don't like to fuck OTHER WOMEN'S HUSBANDS.  It's a prejudice, being against adultery, but I admit it freely.  If other folks do it, well, that's them.   I know a local lady who makes full use of her married submissive with no trouble at all.




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 8:55:03 AM)

Couldn't possibly be from frequent use, could it? 

I'm no expert, but I think you're meant to switch them off occasionally, V.




PeonForHer -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 8:59:42 AM)

I have to agree with Lady Hib here, azjojoba: dominant women of all ages are as randy as polecats and up for it 24/7 from what I know.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 9:00:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I have to agree with Lady Hib here, azjojoba: dominant women of all ages are as randy as polecats and up for it 24/7 from what I know.


Well, I don't know about the whole polecat thing...  but yeah, pretty much!




Lockit -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 9:03:54 AM)

Not only does azjojoba have a problem with his marriage, but WE have a problem with his marriage.  We get blamed for what she does.  She doesn't do sex with him... most women don't do sex for any man.  It doesn't matter how many woman tell him differently he won't believe it.  I guess he needs to see it first and maybe that is what his challenge is... maybe a pity fuck that some pitiful dominant will offer to shut the man up from degrading women on this board.

ajojoba, how dare you come into the midst of so many women and talking about women in such negative and degrading ways.  I am not upset... I won't let you upset me, but I will tell you what I think and this is what I think.

Then you tell men they aren't really men because no man really wants chastity.  Your set in cement... most of the time... arguments that turn to passive aggressive at some point when someone tries to tell you that you are wrong... ideal's, mind sets and comments are all based on how you feel as if the world circles around you and most people are just like you.

I don't know why you would stay with a woman that doesn't want to fuck you.  I don't why you think all women don't like to fuck especially if they are over thirty... wtf does thirty have to do with it?  Women don't typically hit menopause until much later.  You are wrong about many things and then you come here and insult women. 

I think this may be your kink because you don't listen to them when they say you are wrong... you might hide for a bit and come back a couple weeks later.  You are here to punish us in a sense because you are a cranky guy not getting any.




Venatrix -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 9:13:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Couldn't possibly be from frequent use, could it? 

I'm no expert, but I think you're meant to switch them off occasionally, V.


You'll have to speak up, PforH.  I've got this buzzing in my ears.




Politesub53 -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 9:24:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Couldn't possibly be from frequent use, could it? 

I'm no expert, but I think you're meant to switch them off occasionally, V.


You'll have to speak up, PforH.  I've got this buzzing in my ears.


Not my place to say, but You might be doing it wrong. [8D]




Venatrix -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 9:39:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Couldn't possibly be from frequent use, could it? 

I'm no expert, but I think you're meant to switch them off occasionally, V.


You'll have to speak up, PforH.  I've got this buzzing in my ears.


Not my place to say, but You might be doing it wrong. [8D]


Are you trying to tell me you aren't into aural sex?




Politesub53 -> RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? (4/25/2009 9:41:37 AM)

Touche Ma`am.




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