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RE: sub/slave makeing the first move, is it ok? - 5/4/2009 8:31:41 PM

lovingpet

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LOL!!!! I don't know that I really made THAT big a first move, but a few profiles spoke to me for whatever reason and I just had to write. Of course, what I have been willing to do since speaks volumes!

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RE: sub/slave makeing the first move, is it ok? - 5/4/2009 8:46:10 PM

Whiplashsmile4

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At times is simply wise to not chase all over the place. Notice those who take an interest in you (can be as simple as body language with "the look"), in short they just expressed a none verbal interest in you. Call it a subtle way of the submissive or other person making the first indirect move. Time for the Dominant to make the first direct move.

Also a Dominant make yourself approachable and see what comes to you.

People will trip themselves up over thinking who is supposed to make the first move. Boy, Girl, Dom, submissive or blah blah blah...

Not making any moves gets you nowhere...

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RE: sub/slave makeing the first move, is it ok? - 5/5/2009 6:51:16 PM

SIRLOINSTEAK

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

At times is simply wise to not chase all over the place. Notice those who take an interest in you (can be as simple as body language with "the look"), in short they just expressed a none verbal interest in you. Call it a subtle way of the submissive or other person making the first indirect move. Time for the Dominant to make the first direct move.

Also a Dominant make yourself approachable and see what comes to you.

People will trip themselves up over thinking who is supposed to make the first move. Boy, Girl, Dom, submissive or blah blah blah...

Not making any moves gets you nowhere...

Cyber love isn't fun, and often on here distance is a factor.......

You should certainly see who is interested before even bothering to approach someone In Real Life (bar scene). If their is no eye contact, its not even worth bothering. non-verbal interest is the easiest way to get the ball rolling....and it hardly matters about D/s in this regard to non-verbal interest, it needs to be mutual or it will probably end badly. Men are notoriously bad at picking up cues by women. Most Women prefer to be subtle in their interets, lest they look rediculous and be scorned/feel rediculed/humiliated......I've turned down my fair share of sexual offers. If someone is too blatant, its like how many others has she offered so blatantly.......the best way to avoid STD's is not be with the sluts/whore's out there......and not be a slut/whore yourself.....

I should go on a national tour or something talking to youth, since 25% of young women today catch herpes before the age of 22 or so.....1 in 4 is alot of STD transmission.....

That super hot woman is suddenly less attractive when you wonder how many other people you are going to sleep with by proxy......

I'm singing to the choir though, tons of sluts etc here. ;0

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