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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 11:00:05 AM

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I'm talking about people that I met in person and confirmed that they were not Nigerian scammers. There are alot of desperate men out there that want more then anything to be married again, possible more then women our age.

Well, they get tired of cleaning up after themselves.

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 1:12:23 PM

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That might not be far from the truth. Statisically men who are married live longer,, interestingly enough married women die younger than their single counterparts.
Most of the men I know who are getting out of a marriage JUMP right in quickly, and many of those think its love..well until that next divorce. Women on the other hand are more likely to remain single for a long time after that divorce.
Of course there are always those that prove the rule. My niece jumps into one just before the other one has ended.
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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 1:43:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

That might not be far from the truth. Statisically men who are married live longer,, interestingly enough married women die younger than their single counterparts.
Most of the men I know who are getting out of a marriage JUMP right in quickly, and many of those think its love..well until that next divorce. Women on the other hand are more likely to remain single for a long time after that divorce.
Of course there are always those that prove the rule. My niece jumps into one just before the other one has ended.
Kyst

Yes, I know. Most men also will cheat but not leave a marriage until something(another woman) else is lined up. He will also return even if seperated. When a woman says, "I'm done", its over for good.

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 1:46:41 PM

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He says then it must be me, i must not be a "true submissive". Yet i feel not submissive but more a cheap cleaning service and sex toy.

hey there. picked this out cos this sort of statement is so arrogant, so destructive, so rude, so wrong, so f*%$^^g irresponsible it makes me so damn mad!

youve found the wrong sort for youreself is all, leave and find someone more suited to youre personality type.

this isnt just about kinky sex for alot of people, its about a mindset and a personality trait that you felt strongly enough about to go out there and put youreself on the line for. do not let him undermine youre journey when its only just started. what an arrogant bastard, bugger that!

also - take responsibility for youre choices, this is youre future, youre relationship style, youre health and happyness. go about this like you would for any relationship, find someone you can talk to, feel comfortable with, you can trust and who brings out that 'instinct' in you to submit. you need to trust and respect youre leader, you clearly dont here, his methods dont work for you - they wouldnt work for me either. if someone tried to keep me under the thumb the whole time id rebell too. and ill tell you why, because deep down id question his ability to handle me any other way. so id test him out. id have to, its instinct. youre putting youreself on the line with this guy, you need to know if he has the necessary skills to look after you if things go wrong and you need more than 'spread youre legs while youre cleaning the toilet!' to go by.

its fun you know, when you realise that you are exactly what you are, purely by the instincts that tell you when its right, wrong, great, time to go.

youre cool, just move on.

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 2:04:25 PM

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 2:10:57 PM

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Takes one to know one!

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 2:38:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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I give good Thread.-me (lushy's siggy line)

you Ho!!!

Takes one to know one!

this is true..

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 2:51:55 PM

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Thank you everyone so much for your great replys!

this one did try several times to talk to Sir and never came to a resolution that satisfied anyone. Your thoughts confirmed for this one what she needs to do and its to look elsewhere.

But one door closes, another will always open.

this one is sure her Master is out there.

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 7:46:06 PM

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Of course you're submissive. Just not to that asshole. He's not inspiring your submission. He's not dominating you- he's just upsetting you and pissing you off. He's just being a jerk. Dump the lazy fool.

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RE: Just because - 4/30/2009 8:56:10 PM

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I strongly believe that the Dom has to create an environment where the submissive feels comfortable expressing her submissiveness. Perhaps i'm not explaining that well.

I've had people (idiots) as well as a partner or two tell me that I'm not submissive because of xyz. The truth being they just didnt create an environment for me to feel safe enough to be submissive. I'm very independent and I question everything when I know I can. I can be difficult if I know I can be, but someone puts me in a place where I feel comfortable, happy and safe to be subservient to him.

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