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stella41b -> RE: Turning the numbers (5/12/2009 4:13:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: pinnipedster
Sooooo....should I gather from the way the conversation went completely past my post that my hopes in this regard are futile? Or was it just dull?
I wouldn't give up hope pinnipedster, not at all. If you see that femininity just like masculinity is something which exists in varying degrees within us all and is something which is generally projected outwards, by the same token there's also gender recognition and perception. Now gender recognition and perception is picking up those emotional cues and signals coming out of expressions of femininity or masculinity.
Gender has its seat in our brains and DNA system, it's encoded and so is the way we pick up on and perceive gender. It's how we are hardwired. All the dommes on this thread who aren't interested in feminization are so because it is something they cannot really relate to. It's how they are hardwired. It's just in the same way as you or better still I would feel a little less comfortable interacting with a woman who's heterosexual than one who is say bisexual simply over those emotional cues and signals. It's linked to sexual orientation, but not the same thing.
You could go back through this entire thread and ask what is male? What is female? What is it that makes you female, or for that matter male? Is it a penis? A vagina? Breasts? No, it's who you are and how you come across to other people. It's also how other people perceive you.
When all is said and done feminization is nothing more than refusing to pick up on some signals whilst encouraging others. It's like being forced to do something, it's an illusion. that someone can somehow make you more feminine. You see, you can go back through the thread and take a look at all the dommes who have posted here and you will see that they are all feminine, but they are all but they are all feminine in different ways. Now go back through them and try to find ways you can make them more feminine. You will find it's extremely difficult if not impossible.
It's the same with the guys. This is why I don't have too much faith in demographics and 'numbers', we are all individuals, and the fact that we are all when said and done individuals is reason enough why you should continue with your hopes.
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