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RE: Confused - 2/10/2006 12:12:56 PM   
champagnewishes


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ORIGINAL: spoiledbrat


Hi,
Sometimes there is such a connection online that it can not live up to face to face.


Ahh very good point spoiledbrat. People sometimes tend to build an unrealistic image of someone they connect with online and unfortunately, that person is doomed before they even meet. They will never live up to the other's expectations.

My opinion is that in the majority of cases, the longer you communicate online, the greater the chances of an unsuccessful personal encounter become. There is a fine line between just enough and too much online getting to know you before i meet you.

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RE: Confused - 2/10/2006 12:17:10 PM   
veronicaofML


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THINGS happen. Life happens. Maybe, and I am not saying it has, but MAYBE he has had a medical emergency. Why must it always be a negitive answer? Why cant the benefit of the doubt be given, just once? It isnt always that simple.

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i am sorry m'Lady.
NO EXCUSES!
THAT is just NOT acceptable.
even the night of my dad's suicide,,,, "I" took the time, to make calls to the entire family...in the middle of the night.


NO!
to ME anyone handing out poor excuses is NOT worth their salt. !!

thank You m'Lady


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RE: Confused - 2/10/2006 12:32:04 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: veronicaofML
THINGS happen. Life happens. Maybe, and I am not saying it has, but MAYBE he has had a medical emergency. Why must it always be a negitive answer? Why cant the benefit of the doubt be given, just once? It isnt always that simple.

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MoGa
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i am sorry m'Lady.
NO EXCUSES!
THAT is just NOT acceptable.
even the night of my dad's suicide,,,, "I" took the time, to make calls to the entire family...in the middle of the night.


NO!
to ME anyone handing out poor excuses is NOT worth their salt. !!

thank You m'Lady



Ok, you're right. Maybe he is dead then.

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RE: Confused - 2/10/2006 5:43:13 PM   
mysecret40


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You know one of the great things about these forums are you get input from everyone. Sometimes things you wouldn't have thought of yourself...or it just lets you vent and you know your "sisters" are here and really listen/read your idea's, thoughts, feelings. We really are lucky here to have this for each other. I really appreciate reading everyone's entries~!
Thanks~!
secret

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RE: Confused - 2/10/2006 11:08:17 PM   
Tapestry


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ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

"I" took the time, to make calls to the entire family...in the middle of the night.


That's because you're a class act!
Wish everyone had as much decency and good manners as you!

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RE: Confused - 2/11/2006 1:55:22 AM   
beautifuldoglove


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Status: offline 		i will say this...women tend to be a little more on the emotional side and sometimes even the considerate side while men tend to be a little more on the logical side. for instance when i had to go in for surgery to have a 7+ pound tumor removed along with my left ovary and the works on that side i took my cell phone and left specific instructions with my sister to contact my Dom and let Him know how i was after surgery. this was a planned event, but if it was unplanned i would have had no way to take such measures.
as it is i am facing a similar problem with my Dom...it is going on 7 days with no contact. i'm about to go stinking nuts...lol i know your confusion and i literally feel the concern you feel. i will refrain from advising as i'm in a similar boat with out any oars...lol
i wish you the best...<hugs for comfort and encouragement>

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RE: Confused - 2/13/2006 4:35:28 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		just to let you all know i heard from him ( big smile) he is having some medical problems and did not know how to tell me . He finally decided that he should tell me and see what i wanted to do. I understand why he did not want to tell me and am gonna give him another chance it was a good reason.

Thank you all for all your help and responses they really helped me a lot.

littleone

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RE: Confused - 2/13/2006 4:47:57 PM   
Sensualips


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Status: offline 		You must be pleased, littleone. Good luck!

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RE: Confused - 2/13/2006 5:10:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

just to let you all know i heard from him ( big smile) he is having some medical problems and did not know how to tell me . He finally decided that he should tell me and see what i wanted to do. I understand why he did not want to tell me and am gonna give him another chance it was a good reason.

Thank you all for all your help and responses they really helped me a lot.

littleone

I will now point you to my post on "if he came back."

He's at the bottom of the priority list, things will be taken VERY slowly and VERY cautiously, with little patience for more immature behavior.

He's got a big red sticky onthe clipboard which shouldn't be ignored.


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RE: Confused - 2/14/2006 2:16:22 PM   
Firmmaster4u


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Status: offline 		im very happy for you sounds like your found your new master he will be a lucky man bye ml

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RE: Confused - 2/14/2006 2:53:27 PM   
Sensualips


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He's got a big red sticky onthe clipboard


Hahahah. At work we "flag" files with sticky notes when there is a problem or an issue or missing required items or whatever.

It has gotten to be a joke around the office. And only I am allowed to place the red sticky on...if they have a red sticky, they have to be referred to me for anything. :)

Never ignore the red sticky.

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RE: Confused - 2/14/2006 9:57:49 PM   
WileyCat


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Status: offline 		Basic, friendly commuication is a big one with me. If a guy likes you, he will let you know for whatever reason, but as I heard once on Sex in the City, "He's just not that interested in you."

But honestly, you can never know what is going on. Why not drop him a line and see how he is? I do that quite a bit anymore with people in general. Instead of wondering what is going on, I take action to find out sometimes.

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RE: Confused - 2/14/2006 9:59:19 PM   
WileyCat


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Status: offline 		Oops. I did not read down the line. Glad he got in touch!

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