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I need advices... - 5/16/2009 12:57:13 PM   
Riha


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Status: offline 		Hi...I'm new here, I never be with a mistress but I'm very curious about. I have long hair fetish, I'm really obsessed about it. I'm looking for a mistress with long long hair. I wonna know If this can be a good point to start. I think I can be a kind "hair slave". I need suggestions and help. I'm a novice here.
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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 1:36:38 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		Unfortunately, that long hair you are seeking is generally attached to a real, live woman, so I suggest you buy a wig and you can cater to your fetish to your hearts delight.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 2:29:20 PM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		In my experience with dominant women, they have something against being a "submissive" man's fetish toy. I don't know exactly what it is, but they get all catty and angry and offended and then she filed that restraining order..

Think about what you asked. Will you serve any woman with long hair? Does personality matter? Do other demographics matter? I won't be offended or catty if you say "Nope. Long hair and a pulse. Those are my demands." But these women-folk who spent 20-80 years developing a personality, sense of humor, tan, finances, favorite nail polish colour, life experience, how to get around town, how to drive a boat, choices in literature, BDSM knowledge, a home... They might be perturbed when you instantly disqualify all that in pursuit of your fantasy.

In earnest... Get a blow up doll, get a fine wig (or a few... Sometimes I get the hankering for a redhead) and take turns cumming in her hair and brushing it out. err.. I mean, if that's your thing. O.o

Get your fetish under control so you can start looking for a person, not a fetish with a pulse.

(Completely unrelated, every time I write "fetish" I think of three shrunken heads bound with hemp rope).

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 2:44:30 PM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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Status: offline 		One way to serve long hair is to grow your own..
you can then jerk off
to the fetish of your choice..

GQ

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 2:49:28 PM   
subsubtle


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and take turns cumming in her hair and brushing it out.
ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper

HAHAHA!

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 3:31:03 PM   
Riha


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Status: offline 		thanks....I sayd that, I'm novice here. Maybe, how I start to understand, there is a little incompatibility here for my fetish. I'm here to know that. I want only to share fantasy and to understand if there is a way to make some dreams real. I don't want disqualify anything and anybody. I'm sorry if somebody could think that. I respect eveybody and all kind of fantasies.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 3:38:53 PM   
subtlebutterfly


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Status: offline 		You know women like to change their hairstyle. Most..if not all of my friends have at some point cut their hair short or at least relatively short. What if your long-haired mistress (if you find her) cuts her hair some day? You dump her 'cause your fetish toy isn't there anymore?
Honestly..turning people into fetishes is simply..unfair so *snort*


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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 3:50:01 PM   
Riha


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Status: offline 		yes...you right....it could be bad. I hate always when a woman cut her hair....

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 3:54:24 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: Riha

yes...you right....it could be bad. I hate always when a woman cut her hair....


I think your best bet is to find a pro-domme with long hair and pay her to dominate you, assuming she's interested.  I can't imagine any lifestyle domina being remotely interested in someone with an attitude like yours.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:05:01 PM   
Riha


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Status: offline 		I didn't know the difference. Now I understand the problem. Thanks

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:26:23 PM   
PsyVamp


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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

You know women like to change their hairstyle. Most..if not all of my friends have at some point cut their hair short or at least relatively short. What if your long-haired mistress (if you find her) cuts her hair some day? You dump her 'cause your fetish toy isn't there anymore?
Honestly..turning people into fetishes is simply..unfair so *snort*



I concur....now you'll have to excuse Me, I'm off to find a youngish sub/slave/switch male with beautiful long hair...oh wait, there he is in the computer room....
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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:26:26 PM   
Riha


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Status: offline 		How I can find a pro-domme with long hair?

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:32:47 PM   
subtlebutterfly


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Status: offline 		By looking at their websites, and well..maybe you could contact and ASK them.....I agree with Venatrix..I doubt any lifestyle dominant would ever want you...with that attitude.


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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:34:41 PM   
Riha


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Status: offline 		ok...you know a website where I can find a list or a search engine to find her?

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:40:15 PM   
ShaktiSama


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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper
(Completely unrelated, every time I write "fetish" I think of three shrunken heads bound with hemp rope).


Also completely unrelated, I've made a key chain just like this out of the last three guys who tried to objectify me with their fetishes. 

On topic:  a lot of women can grow out their hair with a little encouragement and help.  As fetishes go, this one is probably one of the easiest I've ever seen to satisfy; all you have to do is find a beautiful woman that you love, persuade her to grow her hair out, and help her take care of it.  Voila!  Instant kink!

Personally, I've been growing mine out for a few years now and it is now quite long.  To get it past mid-back, which is about where mine has stalled out in growth, I've heard that it helps to braid it at night and to only use hair ties or scrunchies with a satin-smooth surface, to prevent breakage and damage.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 4:53:59 PM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: Riha

ok...you know a website where I can find a list or a search engine to find her?


I honestly don't know why I'm being so nice today.  Try www.maxfisch.com

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 5:18:08 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		ShaktiSama, I was helping my nephew do some research on hair growth.  The length a person's hair will grow to is genetically programmed to a large extent.  At a certain point the hair simple stops taking in more nutrients.  This will vary with every person.  I am currently growing mine out (about 4" above my waist in back with no sign of slowing down yet) but it is physically impossible for some to grow it that long no matter what they do to try to make it easier.  Of course, removing stress on it is a big help, including not drying it with heat daily, not using a curling iron too often, etc.  Hair tends to grow faster in the summer than the winter but there is almost nothing you can do to speed up the growth other than to make sure you are eating a balanced diet and getting enough water.  Not doing those things will impede growth.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 5:21:14 PM   
Vendaval


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You can purchase vitamins specifically for hair, skin and nails at most pharmacies and health food stores.

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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 6:50:13 PM   
ShaktiSama


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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

ShaktiSama, I was helping my nephew do some research on hair growth.  The length a person's hair will grow to is genetically programmed to a large extent.  At a certain point the hair simple stops taking in more nutrients.  This will vary with every person.  I am currently growing mine out (about 4" above my waist in back with no sign of slowing down yet) but it is physically impossible for some to grow it that long no matter what they do to try to make it easier.  Of course, removing stress on it is a big help, including not drying it with heat daily, not using a curling iron too often, etc.  Hair tends to grow faster in the summer than the winter but there is almost nothing you can do to speed up the growth other than to make sure you are eating a balanced diet and getting enough water.  Not doing those things will impede growth.


Interesting.  Anecdotally, I have found that I was able to grow my hair much longer once I removed most of the unnecessary stresses on it:  I stopped dyeing it, using any kind of perms, and I also don't use blow dryers or irons.  I tend to get my split ends trimmed every six-ten weeks, and thus I tend to read "maximum length" as "maximum healthy length that outruns splitting and breakage".  My hair definitely had a very different "maximum length" prior to removing the chemical stress.  It's down to the top of my lumbar spine now, when it used to reach maximum healhty length just below the shoulders.

I did not realize that maximum hair length on the head was a genetic preset, but I suppose it makes sense that it would be.  After all, the other hair on our bodies has a much shorter maximum length before it matures, falls out and is replaced by new hair.

Looking at this research, do you know what is the average maximum hair length for most women?   How unusual is it for a woman to be able to grow her hair down to the tail bone or longer?  Perhaps if you find a woman with super-long hair, she really is an exceptionally rare commodity?


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RE: I need advices... - 5/16/2009 6:51:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Riha

ok...you know a website where I can find a list or a search engine to find her?


There's this site called Collarme, on which thousands of dommes have profiles and it has a search engine.

The URL is http://www.collarme.com




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