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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/18/2009 9:00:03 PM

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sarbonn, just in the time that I have been around here, I've watched you become calmer and more relaxed about a lot of things. You have always been a great guy! Your post's were always wonderful and amazing even. But on a personal level it seems like you've come into your own and are much more comfortable.

I hope you don't mind me saying that.

And it's great to see you posting again!!!!

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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/18/2009 9:12:36 PM

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Igor, I have had conversations with some wonderful male subs through Collar Me. There are a lot of positive experiences that I carry with me.

Please keep in mind that some of the recent threads were started as tongue in cheek style. It is difficult when you are fielding dozens of emails a day from guys who just don't have a clue, and sometimes you just feel the need to rant a little, or at least to joke about it. I know I've posted exactly what it is that I DO like in an email from a man - and many have done just that.

I have met many male subs through CM, some became online subs and others real time. Some of them truly touched my heart and I could tell that they cared for me, not just my role.

Remember, both Collar Me and Collar Chat are open to the public. Any time you put yourself out there you will be exposing yourself to both the positive and the negative. Not everyone will agree with you or play by your rules. If you choose to post where anyone can respond you are bound to get some answers you would rather not hear. Learn to let it roll off, just like the rest of us have had to do.

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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/18/2009 9:20:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

sarbonn, just in the time that I have been around here, I've watched you become calmer and more relaxed about a lot of things. You have always been a great guy! Your post's were always wonderful and amazing even. But on a personal level it seems like you've come into your own and are much more comfortable.

I hope you don't mind me saying that.

And it's great to see you posting again!!!!

Thank you. I took some time away from things to solve a lot of issues. And I did. I see a lot more humor in the world these days than I used to (used to just see cynicism without the humor).

I don't post that much because I don't always have a lot to say. Sometimes, I feel like I'm just repeating things over and over again, so I refrain more than I used to. I spent a lot of time on political message boards talking about my friendship over time theory these days; I tend to avoid the boards where people just post to argue with each other because they tend to be more destructive than constructive.

I'm probably going to be back in the states soon, although I haven't decided where to move yet.

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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/18/2009 9:23:47 PM

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Well sarbonn... where ever you decide to go, I hope you will find a wonderful life there and a dominant that will appreciate you! You deserve the best!

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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/19/2009 4:52:49 AM

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All too often in the "Ask a Mistress" threads I see something that rarely occures in the other threads and that is an extremely negative attitude toward the male sub population in general

Have you seen most of the garbage that most male subs post? If there were a Ku Klux Klan for male subs, get me an f'in sheet.

ok THAT was funny! Priceless simply priceless!

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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/19/2009 6:10:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

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ORIGINAL: igor2003

All too often in the "Ask a Mistress" threads I see something that rarely occures in the other threads and that is an extremely negative attitude toward the male sub population in general

Have you seen most of the garbage that most male subs post? If there were a Ku Klux Klan for male subs, get me an f'in sheet.

I am gonna quibble with the terms "male sub" here. Just because some guy pops in here looking for his wank off and posts up some fantasy vomit, it does not make him a submissive...and frankly I would rather not hitch my star to folk like that.

It's too bad that we don't have some sort of instant "intent" test. I wonder if that is why Ladies were issued with an "intuition"?

EDIT: Can't you just see God looking down on Adam as he wanked off for the first time at GoEP (Garden of Eden Porn - two animals doing the wild thing) and thought, "I gotta do something to counteract that stupidity...hmmm....I know just the thing!" And woman was created...

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RE: Looking to the positive - 5/19/2009 6:41:36 AM

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I'm positive I've encountered quite a few male submissives on this board who are intelligent, funny, talented and articulate. I'm also positive I've encountered that rare few who are exceptionally proud of their miserable manners.

The postings of the males here are rarely boring. With the exception of the three I have hidden, there are 'sparklies' to be found in almost every thread.

I love men - without them I'd have to do my own nails, carry my own luggage, and change my own oil. Men are wonderful!

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