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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 5:56:56 AM

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*GASP*!! LaT!!.. you need an exterminator!!

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:01:44 AM

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Sometimes I admit that I can't help wondering if some people spend their lives living in a broom cupboard.

I find this just personally offensive. It's a very nice broom cupboard, and the broom hooks work great for suits and such.

*thinking we have a welcome new addition to the forums here*

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:08:07 AM

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AlexandraLynch, you raise an excellent point about search criteria. (Wish I could figure out how to quote past posts, lol). I would guess that the complainers are looking for only young, petite mistresses and that's why they are coming up with the demanding types. If I were young and petite, I'd damn sure be looking for someone to spoil me financially. Right now I'd settle for someone to mow the lawn.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:26:44 AM

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Sometimes I admit that I can't help wondering if some people spend their lives living in a broom cupboard.

I find this just personally offensive. It's a very nice broom cupboard, and the broom hooks work great for suits and such.

*thinking we have a welcome new addition to the forums here*

I would tend to agree.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:27:51 AM

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If I were young and petite, I'd damn sure be looking for someone to spoil me financially.

Are you sure? And, I mean, are you really really sure?

If you marry for money, you earn it.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:28:30 AM

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Right now I'd settle for someone to mow the lawn.

ROFLMAO and I completely agree!!

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:33:14 AM

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My experience as a domina is that a large majority of submissive men want; and they want, and they want, and they want. And they want it all for free. And by free, I mean not spending a penny. Not even taking you out for dinner, yet they expect you to have an apartment that is equipped like a dungeon, a fetish wardrobe that has the selection of Madame S, and to be available whenever they are in the mood for instant domination.

Then they come to the boards to whine about how they can't get it for free. How they are expected to show up for a date, rather than immediate playtime, and how they are expected to provide *something*: either their time or their money. Because, you know, it's just all so unfair. Why shouldn't they get what they want when they want it? What is all this rubbish about having to please the domina in order to get what they want?

Believe me, the subs that give of themselves really stand out, and they aren't the ones on the boards complaining about why some women charge for their time.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:33:51 AM

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ktt.. at the top right of each post is a button that says quote.. click on that and it'll automatically quote the post. Just make sure when you type your response that you type it AFTER the [/quote] so that what you say will be outside the quoted text :)

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 6:40:32 AM

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I have to wonder how many really make THAT much money compared to the investment in time and web stuff. I never had the patience to even TRY to figure it out.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:07:45 AM

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Wow, you really do know how to hurt a man.

Darling, you have *no* idea.

And that makes me very sad.

GreedyTop, you're on, I'm only three Ls reallly bad, but have a lot of fun on the course :)

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:12:22 AM

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Thank you GreedyTop, I'm computer illiterate.

RedMagic, where did I say I'd marry for money?

I'm not going down THAT road again for anything, lol.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:22:19 AM

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Ktt.. n/p :)

SB... the last time I was on a course, I tallied 111. that was down from 114 the previous time, and 126 the time before that. And it's now been probably 5 yrs since I last hit the green.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:24:50 AM

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Every time I come on this site there always seams to be at least one board asking this question or a variation on it, have slaves not discovered the answer yet? I can understand and appreciate that some of these poor guys are getting frustrated though do they really think that asking the question is going to change anything, particularly when they usually do it in such a derogatory way?

I trust you address these individuals as "slaves" in the typically loose alt lifestyle vernacular, for in my mind one who has achieved the understanding of "slave" won't quibble at the notion at all.

A site like this is constantly receiving an influx of newcomers who bring with them a lot of traditional thinking. Hard-earned money is tremendously personal for people, and the idea of parting from it without some sort of transactional exchange seems absurd. This is not to say sometimes it isn't absurd; there are predators in this circle, as in any other. Laying that on the doorstep of all dominant females is unfair and inaccurate, of course. Those who have been on the block long enough to know better than to paint all women who demand gifts or tribute or labor in the same broad brush obviously have issues with the idea in general. As you astutely point out, all their whining will never make one scrap of difference. Life goes on.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:24:59 AM

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RedMagic, where did I say I'd marry for money?

I'm not going down THAT road again for anything, lol.

I'll try to be clearer. A man who has nothing to offer except his wallet can expect shallow relationships, not just with women, but with "friends" who only care about him while the money is flowing. Similarly, a woman who commodifies herself the way you described in your post can expect shallow relationships with men, who will stick around as long as she is physically hot and doesn't have too much of a personality outside their own desires.

I know you were telling a joke in your previous post. However, if you really looked for men to spoil you (instead of befriend and love you) in the "flower of your youth," it might be part of the reason no one is mowing your lawn right now. But I don't know anything about you, and my point isn't about you in particular. My point is that this whole "generous/money" thing can be a trap for the woman. Not just the man is a "victim."

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:32:20 AM

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RedMagic, I absolutely agree that it can be a trap for both sexes, and that it is a dead end for the woman who relies on her looks and allure alone.

Still need my lawn mowed, though.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:37:15 AM

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And it's now been probably 5 yrs since I last hit the green.

Me too, sadly I play a couple times a week :)

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 7:40:58 AM

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that reminds me..I need to dig out the clubs and wiffle balls and practice a bit. I think I FINALLY figured out why my swing was off....

come to FL, SB.. there are some nice courses here ;)

(oh, if only I could get onto MacDill AFB... I hear they have 3 championship courses....it'd be fun, even if my tally went up to 300 or so LOL)

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 8:11:09 AM

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I love it when I have to pay,it just adds to the whole experience

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 5/21/2009 12:15:40 PM

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that reminds me..I need to dig out the clubs and wiffle balls and practice a bit. I think I FINALLY figured out why my swing was off....

come to FL, SB.. there are some nice courses here ;)

(oh, if only I could get onto MacDill AFB... I hear they have 3 championship courses....it'd be fun, even if my tally went up to 300 or so LOL)

Glad to see our tax dollars going towards something useful :)

I'm sure I'd love florida for the golf, too bad I probably wouldn't adjust well to anything else. A company I was working fro relocated a lot of their support staff to tampa and they wanted me to go down there full time. I don't think I could ever make the adjustment.

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RE: Why do slaves keep asking about dommes wanting money? - 6/3/2009 12:16:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

My experience as a domina is that a large majority of submissive men want; and they want, and they want, and they want. And they want it all for free. And by free, I mean not spending a penny. Not even taking you out for dinner, yet they expect you to have an apartment that is equipped like a dungeon, a fetish wardrobe that has the selection of Madame S, and to be available whenever they are in the mood for instant domination.

Then they come to the boards to whine about how they can't get it for free. How they are expected to show up for a date, rather than immediate playtime, and how they are expected to provide *something*: either their time or their money. Because, you know, it's just all so unfair. Why shouldn't they get what they want when they want it? What is all this rubbish about having to please the domina in order to get what they want?

Believe me, the subs that give of themselves really stand out, and they aren't the ones on the boards complaining about why some women charge for their time.